My boyfriend is deeply in love but its too soon and i dont love him as much as he loves me. Hes always talking about how happy he is and that I am "the one" but its only been a month and a half ! I dont know what to do because I love him but Im not in love and infatuated with him at this point. I want to stay with him because I think he is an amazing guy, but I worry so much! Here he is handing me his whole heart and Im not ready yet but i dont want to blow any chance of being with him. What should I do?
2006-11-29 15:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is not all to uncommon and trust me you are not alone. when i first got together with my fiancee, she was pretty full on. kinda scared me a bit, but i thought she was amazin too. after a couple of months a had a word with her bout it. she just said she had never felt that way before and didnt want to lose that. i told thats ok, maybe we should just slow down and she did. 3 years later we are engaged to get married next year. your relationship is not doomed, but you are gonna have to talk to him bout it.
2006-11-29 15:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and dont be rushed by his sincereness with you.
just enjoy what you have and it's okay if you dont feel the same as he does.as long as he wont force you to do anything that you are not yet prepared to do, it's oaky to love him as you feel,
on the question that is that relationship doomed to fail, it's up to the two of you.as for you you should not worry too much but just let things happen okay.good luck,
2006-11-29 23:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to make something out of that so i would say that yes it is doomed
2006-11-29 23:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur true feelings
2006-11-29 23:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time to bloom....
2006-11-29 23:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋