Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

I can't seem to figure out why my ex keeps intentionally bumping into to me and I mean literally. He can't walk past and not do it. I mean there is so much room on the planet to walk and not bump into anything, so why. Why have I become his target for bumping into things? Or could it just be a tactic to get my attention although it could be accomplished much more simple than that?

2006-11-28 07:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mimy ImFurst 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, you see. My fiance is the best man in the world and I love everything about him. I know that he loves me truely. My problem with him is that he doesn't like going out. On occassions, I'd want to go to fancy places and celebrate with him. He hates parties and fancy places. The only thing he like to do outdoors is walking. I want him to understand that there are more things we can do together than cuddling at home. I'm scared that if I force him to go out with me, he won't be happy. I can't be happy if he isn't happy. There are places I want to go with my man rather than girlfriends. I dream of dressing up, taking his arm and spending a night somewhere fancy. By the way, money is not a problem. Any advice? Thanks!

2006-11-28 07:39:14 · 6 answers · asked by Princess of Egypt 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently my bf told me he might still have feelings for his ex. He told me he knows for sure that he loves me, but doesn't know how he feels about her. This all stems from his finding out that she has a new bf. He's going home (we go to school in VA, but he's from MN) over winter break, and he said he won't know how he feels about her until he sees her. Well, I'm trying to continue like everything is normal, but I'm really depressed. I love this man...I could totally see myself married to him. That's the scary part - he said he could seem himself married to me, too, but that's also how he felt about his ex. It's hard for him to understand you could love more than 1 person. Anyway, how do I overcome this depression? I'm just so sad.

2006-11-28 07:39:02 · 19 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 07:38:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone read these. If so, what was your opinion on them? Were they useful to you and your partner? I was just wondering because I'm halfway through the book "He Comes Second" and my bf is halfway through the book "She Comes First" and neither one of us has learned anything at all. I just wondered if we were the only ones that had read them and found the not useful.

2006-11-28 07:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Lou Anna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering (lol)

2006-11-28 07:38:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes beggin me too,and she's my friend!

2006-11-28 07:38:10 · 19 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Friends

a. You get into a car accident after you decide you want to know if you can get to work steering the whole way with your knees.

b. Drowning in ham.

c. After years of thinking we were the greatest thing since neondorthals, humans are gradually replaced by either HDHumans or Blue Ray People, once its determined which one will take off and the price comes down.

d. Your stomach explodes because you ate pop rocks and soda.

e. Getting brainwashed into becoming a suicide bomber.

f. Jumping off an airplane. Your parachute has been replaced by four fluffy puppies (lotsa operas). You all die together.

2006-11-28 07:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with a older man for a year now. Over this time we have developed a solid friendship. We talk to each other every day. Over the course of this time i have developed feelings for him and at the beginning he made it clear i was too young. but he continues to talk to me every day and confides in me. How should I approach him?

2006-11-28 07:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really love him and i know i would never do that.

2006-11-28 07:37:08 · 11 answers · asked by brittany L 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were going for an evening out with your boyfriend, husband, or even girlfriend.. what would be your criteria as to whether you wear a bra or not, and if you choose to wear a bra, what type/style would you wear (low plunge, sheer, etc..) ?? If you choose to not wear a bra.. what drove you to that decision?

2006-11-28 07:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 07:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy...he is moderately cute and all that. well i guess he likes me and i like him a little. but he wants to kiss me. and i would be fine with that...like just a friendly kiss...but i havent ever had my first kiss yet. and i realy want my first kiss.. but i am afraid that i wouldnt know how to kiss him, because he has had alot of kisses. but i dont want it to be bad and then have a reputation of being a bad kisser. and i just realy dont know what to do. so please help me....thank you <3

2006-11-28 07:35:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can this even happen?

2006-11-28 07:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by luke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I let my sons biological father take him on the 16 th and we agreed that he would bring him back yesterday. He called me to let me know that hes not bringing him back. My son has autism and a seizure disorder and I know that he is running low on his meds. I went to the cops and they wont help me get him back, i called social services and they wont help me either. I have primary placement of my son. To make matters worse he just moved and will not tell me his address because he thinks that I will send someone after him which is so not the truth i just want my son home with me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-28 07:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by ?Cheshire Cat? 3 in Family

Big natural boobs?
( I am so attracted to natural big boobs and I am thinking about moving to that place to increase my chances)

2006-11-28 07:34:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a small destination wedding in Hawaii and then a reception in my hometown a month after the wedding in Hawaii. Is it okay to wear my wedding dress to the reception so that my grandparents and others that do not attend see me in my dress? My dress is tea length strapless and white.

Please help!

2006-11-28 07:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by bride with question 1 in Weddings

We've played in a band together for 2 1/2 years. We write music together and sing together. We fell in love but I was married. About 2 years ago I ended things because I didn't want to hurt my daughters and I didn't want to have an affair. About a year goes by and I start to realize I still really love her so I tell her. I'm even willing to change my life for her. She's says she's moved on. She loves me but she's not in love with me. I'm pretty tore up because I feel I've lost what could be the love of my life. She doesn't want me to quit the band. She says she's sort of seeing someone but doesn't know where it's going. When I told her I loved her she sounded like she got kind of mad and said it was me who wanted to end things. I'm torn between staying and trying to win her back or quitting the band becasue it is just to painful to see her. Help...

2006-11-28 07:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

I personally own 230 shares (buy more every month) of Chevron (CVX) and somehow some of my co-workers found out (I didn't tell anyone) and they make rude comments about it. If you own individual stocks outside a retirement account is that public information or something?

2006-11-28 07:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you have been offended?
When my partner (my girlfriend) and I started dating I weighed 134lbs. and was going to the gym regularly. During the first part of our relationship I lost ten more lbs. but she complained I looked too thin. I had minor surgery this summer and she has moved in therefore my gym time and my eating habits have sliped and I've put weight back on. I got up to 137 but now fluctunat between 134 and 136. I know even though I'm about the same weight when we met I don't look as good because I'm not as toned. Anyway I bought a sexy outfit last year for chirstmas and she has been asking me to try it on for her agian this year. I told her I was afraid it wouldn't fit but after lots of her asking i tried it on and it still fits. She is constantly telling me that I'm not fat but has agreed that I've slacked a bit and my stomach isn't as nice (which is fine it's honest and it helps encourgae me to get back in shape).Here's my complaint; when I put on the outfit and I was putting on the music she said

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7 hours ago
"why is it when people get into realtionships they get comfortable and put on weight?". That statment REALLY got under my skin. I told her "ouch" and she said she didn't mean me she just thought of it because I was nervous to put on the outfit. But I'm still bothered... I had a skimpy outfit on in front of her and that's the first comment that came out of her mouth. Am I being over sensitive?

7 hours ago
a little more FYI... She has lost weight. she is actually down to wear I was when she was complaining I was too thin. And she is taller than me. She often will flash her stomach (which has a pack now beacuse she's so thin) whenever she catches me looking at myself in the mirror. It's very weird to me...

2006-11-28 07:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by tana 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother of 3 kids and I am 26 years old. There is this guy that likes me but I am not interrested in him in that way I just like him as a friend. He went out and bought my kid stuff for christmas and I did not ask him to do that. He called one night and was a little tipsy and started to tell me that he liked me and wanted to be with me after he told me that he then told me about buying me kids stuff. I went out with him the next day. I am just not interested in him like that. How do I tell him and waht should I do about the stuff he got my kids he also bought me something please help

2006-11-28 07:30:57 · 3 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Friends

Im just curious cause my mom and dad thinks so but i dont

2006-11-28 07:29:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I are into anal sex. We were in a big argument a few days ago and the passion was really high when we had make up sex. Unfortunately, I took my anger out too much and kept doing her butt hole until she was screaming to stop. I didn't stop and she had some complications resulting from that trauma. I took her to the doctor this morning and was told that she had permanent damage to her rectum area. She needs to take medicine for life possibly and she may have serious future complications. I am totally speechless and have no idea what to say. I am wondering is she will be able to forgive me one day. What would you suggest I do or say?

2006-11-28 07:28:30 · 22 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when I was young (10 or 11 years old), my nieces used to offend me like how I did my hair coz I never let it fall down my back, I always used to tie it in a braid also I used to wear pants and I wore skirts in occasions and stuff like that, also they always teased me when I pronounced some words in french just becoz I used to go to an English school and not a french one. Well I'm 22 now and I still think they make fun of me behind my back, they're always judgemental even to their closest friends, they're closer to my sis than me, they like her better than they like me, I dunno, I just don't feel comfortable with them, should I attend any weddings or engagements for them or will it just make it worse, and they'll end up judging my dress or something..they're older than me by 3 to 5 years..I dunno if they did that coz they wanted me to look better and dress better, I felt offended not cared for..why were they like that..do they deserve me to be friends with them and attend weddings?

2006-11-28 07:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family

my friend moved away from his roommates to live with his girlfriend,he was staying with friends and they were working on a buisness, they would make lots of money together,but he felt like he wanted to do his own thing. should he had waited till the buisness was completed or did he make the right choice?

2006-11-28 07:27:54 · 9 answers · asked by K!NG COBRA 3 in Friends

2006-11-28 07:27:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 07:26:58 · 35 answers · asked by Kim H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just recently started dating this guy, and my feelings have been all mixed up inside and ive come to the conclusion that im afraid to be in a relationship. Sometimes i just cant wait to see him and other times i think to myself what am i doing!? should i give it a chance or break it off?

2006-11-28 07:26:18 · 25 answers · asked by shelly s 1 in Singles & Dating

When we fight its always over stupid things and make up. We don't have any real problems that we need to "work on". We are each other's best friend and it's so easy for us so why can't everyone just appreciate their partner and share a love like we do?

2006-11-28 07:25:25 · 19 answers · asked by mustang64093gt 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard from a guy I went out with last year, he sent me an e-mail and in it he typed, that he was probably the last person I wanted to hear from but he thought he would throw me a olive branch & talk later, basically I'm confused & I haven't heard anything form him scent???

2006-11-28 07:24:51 · 17 answers · asked by mssassy0104 1 in Singles & Dating