Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

2006-11-26 12:21:13 · 28 answers · asked by jimmy b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 12:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my best friend, but the girls he likes are totally opposite to me, I'm not gonna change just to like him, but I've been thinking about telling him about how I feel, but I know that would end with our friendship. What should I do???!!!

2006-11-26 12:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think im getting addicted to this anyone have the same? or am I out there on my own !lol (Im expecting some abuse for that last comment)

2006-11-26 12:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by itgirl23 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello guys,
I have a big problem, I am flirting with a 21 yo girl who works close to me, and she has been married for over 9 months now. She is always complaining about her husband who is 6 years older tan her, saying that he doesn't care anymore about her, and she wants to feel alive. I am really looking forward on going out with her, but I don't know if it's worth it. What should I do?

Thanks

2006-11-26 12:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by Gustavo R 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time she has a chance she is in my face and business, I've moved on with my life, and thought she did too. She has a boyfriend and everything. I cannot even walk my dog witout having to see her. When she sees me she stops and want's to talk. I tell her that I am busy, and she says are you too busy to talk to me? I say yes but she then follows me to my front door and continues on chatting away totally ignoring the fact that I am not paying any attention to her. Today she asked me if she could use my restroom, and before I could stop her she pushes past me and bee-lines it into my house. Then she has the gall to come downstairs with a picture of my fiancee, and ask me who she is. I say that is none of your business, and I don't appreciate you going into my room rummaging through my belongings. She shrugs it off as no big deal. I told her to piss off and leave me alone, but that is not going to work. Any advice?

2006-11-26 12:20:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced and my son (he's nearly 4), he comes home from school asking questions about his dad. Like why doesn't daddy live with us? are we going on holiday together.. can we do this that and the other with daddy?.. My ex has told me my boy says the same to him about me.

It breaks my heart knowing how hurt my little boy is, and I know there is nothing I can do, I try and make him happy and spend all the time I can with him. I'm sure the kids in school probably say things like my mom and dad take me out etc..

It must be a real burden on the little one, and he's a little tough guy, but all I feel is guilt and pain. I want him to be happy, What else can I do?

2006-11-26 12:19:45 · 44 answers · asked by happy soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a bad year including losing my job by the hand of backstabbers, Sleep Apnea diagnosis, falling asleep behind the wheel, and losing the job that took me six months to find (a paper route). I have to young kids (1 & 6yrs) and no financial help at the moment. If you know of any foundations that could help my kids have a Christmas, please help. I don't need a thing. I just need my kids to be happy.

2006-11-26 12:19:44 · 4 answers · asked by jdub1206 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And she walks in the bedroom all mad! I told her i would be done with her husband in about 4 minutes, she could make the bed then! You think she would have common courtesy!

2006-11-26 12:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by Little Miss Sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

Should yo ujust go up to him and ask him?
Should you wait forever for him to ask you?

What should I do?

2006-11-26 12:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does a guy that looks at porn turn you off? Even if we dont do it around you and you dont know we look at it. If you found out would it turn you off?

2006-11-26 12:18:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 12:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by pit ( pimp in training) 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 21 year old college guy that is looking for a job that'll give me some cash and, just as important, a chance to meet some girls. I kind of fit the tough guy stereotype and in the past have always worked construction. Construction doesn't offer much opportunity to meet the opposite sex.

So what kind of job should i get to meet girls?

2006-11-26 12:18:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll be divorced in just over two months. Except for domestic violence, we had most of the usual variables of an unhappy marriage. I look around sometimes and notice all these other unhappy couples. A year ago i was that disgruntled husband. I often see marriage as a tyrrany. She likes to run the household, and I am the kind of person that will resist attempts to force my hand. I tried working it out for my son's sake. Looking at the legal and financial difficulties of divorce, I wonder why people get married at all? Even if we both change and become better people for the next marriage, there's bound to be something that will drive a wedge. The seeds of discontent take many forms. Why do people feel that it's so necessary to be legally tied together? Can a couple be just as committed and not be married?

2006-11-26 12:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you had one wish what would you wish for? You cant wish for someone to die or come back to life.

2006-11-26 12:15:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It seems being about 6' and 260 lbs. makes most women avoid me like the plague.

2006-11-26 12:15:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thres this extremely shy gal that i like and her friends are helpin me to talk to her. The only thing is that she loves TO STUDY and she doesnt even hang out during weekends. She also loves anime. I wanna know of a way of how to make her understand that theres more to high school than just studying. plz help. Im not in the point of giving up on her coz im trying since mid september.

2006-11-26 12:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sent him two, and I know he's not at work.

2006-11-26 12:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are they actually looking at you or is it just your imagination?

I was at a party the other night and my ex-boyfriend (who I was finally thought i was completely over - we broke up a while ago) and his girlfriend were there....as soon as his girlfriend came to talk with the group I was hanging out with he went and sat down somewhere else. I could swear he was looking at me though - you know how you get "that feeling"....he completely avoided talking to me at all.

Am I just being paranoid or is there something else going on?

2006-11-26 12:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by lexie1488 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there. I have mental and physical health problems as well as Seasonal Affective Disorder, and after a "leaving the nest" attempt that went sour, I returned to the family home. The problem is, a friend of my younger sister and her boyfriend and the friend's two kids from previous relationships are staying with us until they find a new home. Its not that they are here that is a problem, its that the friend and her boyfriend are always in cranky moods and whining, bickering and shouting at each other. This isn't helping my Seasonal Affective Disorder. So how do I deal with them? Its bad enough my sister has a daughter that screams at the top of her lungs when she can't have her own way, my sister and her soon-to-be ex are always fighting, and we have noisy kids coming and going without the friend and her boyfriend always at each others throats. I'm trying to be cheerful despite my SAD, but its very hard with everyone else in the house acting like they have permanent PMS. What can I do?

2006-11-26 12:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by cherrycharmca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy at works been crushing on me. comes to my desk to talk to me all the time, and i've always been friendly with him, borderline flirtatious. dont know why i flirt - i'm not interested in him, and i'm sorta seeing someone right now.

he's asked me out to go have some drinks, i said no twice, but hes still calling...

how do i make it stop without it being akward?

2006-11-26 12:13:07 · 16 answers · asked by nanabe 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm deeply depressed over something that is my own fault. I dated this guy for like the whole summer. I even lived with him. And then when it was time for me to come back to my house I didn't get to see him hardley any so I felt as if he was drifting away from me. So this guy kept calling me asking me if I'd date him and I kept telling him no but he wouldn't accept that. So I thought maybe it would be better than the guy i'm with. So I broke up with him to date the other guy. Found out that was wrong and beg for the first guy to come back to me. (Me and the 2nd guy only dated 5 days) then i found another guy and he was where i lived so i started dating him then to find out he was just mean and wanted one thing. So I called the first guy that i had only been in love with for 4yrs. and now he wont take me back and its not b/c of what i did its b/c he said he KIND of likes someone else. So i saw him again for a whole weekend and he text me but nothing has happend wat should I do?

2006-11-26 12:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Shaynee 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is bed-ridden and has pleaded with me too to do this for him as his time here is limited! Our kid's ask extremely difficult questions, like, " what's wrong with us?, why don't they love us enough to want to know us! What if something happends to Daddy ? They won't know how great he was. I could go on & on. Like I said earlier, we have a very close family, they DO-NOT understand "giving babies away to NON-family members, so-to-speak. NOW, The info. I have is right out of her mouth, as I have the court TPR TRANSCRIPT"S from court. She dated the guy all through high-school. Got pregnant from him @ 20yrs. old, not 12yrs. She told her family she had a job set-up in WI. Stayed with friends till she had him, then went home, told everyone the job just didn't work out. She has never married, and has no other children. She's some kind of proffesional now, the case worker said. I'm glad she got the life she wanted. My husband was placed in a home where he had to leave @ 16yrs.

2006-11-26 12:12:17 · 2 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family

string a guy along, do you realize you're doing it, or does it just kind of happen? Any of you actually settle on the one you were stringing along? Now before I get smeared, I understand not all of you do that. I am just asking a hypothetical for anyone willing to admit they have in the past or do now.

2006-11-26 12:12:16 · 14 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship right now. We only talk to each other once a week online. I really want to marry him so we have kept this long distance thing for 8 months already.

And now....I met another guy. I only went out with him once for coffee. We both like each other, He is sweet and nice, so I wanted to have a no string attached relationship with this new guy and next year when I go back to the States I can keep hanging out with my bf.

Does this count as cheating?

2006-11-26 12:12:11 · 18 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys look for in girls?

2006-11-26 12:11:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for their difficulties in life. This girl said im lucky cause i dotn have to have kids or wear a bra. I said hey, i plan on having no kids. If i ever have a kid with a woman, it will be because she wants it, not me. i fully support those women who choose to go braless. Yuo women aint got **** on me. she still said its mens fault. what the hell???

2006-11-26 12:10:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing has been settled in courts which has been ongoing, no orders have been made. Found out that ex has been completely renovating the home from complete new insulation to new drywall and flooring. Can a spouse even do all this work without discussing this with the other spouse and co-borrower of the mortgage? The house is still in both our names no legal orders have been made. I am concerned that my name could have been attached to more debt without my knowledge. I asked her and she said it was none of my business where the money came from.

2006-11-26 12:09:16 · 2 answers · asked by firefighter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 12:08:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think he would physically restrain the guy or do it the right way by law and just arrest him?i know cops have to be careful.

2006-11-26 12:08:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating