Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Ok, my best friend, we both liked the same guy, but she said for the sake of our friendship she'd try not to like him...

But when we hung out with him she was sitting on his lap practically making out with him right in front of me! She's a good friend but I wonder why she went back on her word, and if there's anything I can do about it.

2006-11-26 12:57:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do yoou prefermost in a girl. looks. or personalty

2006-11-26 12:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, the undies aren't flashy. They're just plain briefs. But it doesn't seem right to me for my hubby to walk around in them in front of our daughter who is 8, and our son who is 12. He just started doing it this year. I don't know why. But his mother is also not shy about her body. She'll change clothes in front of my daughter. Strange family I married into... Should I be mad or just let it go?

2006-11-26 12:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Family

Is this My husband ia an "A" personality,it never was noticible to me ,or should I say bothered me when I was always home with kids,but now my kids are on their own an I can't deal with his ways....he keeps telling me he is "A" personality,he makes me feel stupid which I'm not..because he's never wrong about anything(Yeah right)I don't like him as a person when he's like that.........He's a great guy,but he's too much sometimes.Is this a "A" person ?

2006-11-26 12:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by Lw's Lady 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm tired of all the time that I have to take the first step into making love, she always acts as if she's not in the mode, or is to tired, so I have to work really hard to get her in the mode. She has never taken the first step. I hate that. And when we finish she always tells me how great it was, But after that it might take about 3 weeks before I make a move again.
Please help with this mater.

2006-11-26 12:55:46 · 20 answers · asked by BigH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He knows that I dont like porn but I catch him watching it on tv late at night when im asleep or ill find pictures of women on his cell phone bent over and buck *** naked, but there just pics of women sent to him not real women he knows... Is it just me or should I continue to get on to him about the porn subject.... Am I getting upset for no reason?It really hurts to know that he could be getting off on some hot chick and im not getting any cuz im 7 months pregnant...what do I do?

2006-11-26 12:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by happy2BAlive!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very wealthy and my wife is not, and I have a rock solid prenup which I use as leverage in every argument. I used it to let me name our son Jar Jar Binks, which my wife WAS NOT cool with. Now I had a tailor made baby Jar Jar costume made for my baby, and it cost a fortune. I demanded that little Jar Jar wear the Jar Jar costume at all times. My wife says no and I say yes, or your divorced. I don't really want to divorce her, but I will not tolerate her nonsense. What can I do to make her see the light?

2006-11-26 12:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a natural brunette

2006-11-26 12:55:23 · 6 answers · asked by Susy 2 in Singles & Dating

Read my last question and you'd understand that my MIL now lives my hubby's ex.

So...I've gotten on and tried to put this pass me...I want to forget and move on,

However my MIL comes to visit my kids (4&5 yrs old). And I just found from them that she discusses my hubby's ex with them.

I told him that I am displeased....but he blew up on me and said that I am the dysfunctional one.

Who do you see as "dysfunctional"

Me...Him...or MIL?

2006-11-26 12:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by cheezeumzzz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you feel like 5 years being a couple with someone,will leave you ,being away for a year?

2006-11-26 12:54:40 · 15 answers · asked by molly 1 in Friends

2006-11-26 12:54:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been really stressed out from work (also in the process of starting a new job) and being a full time student...i am also dealing with the loss of a baby and i just need time away from everything to just breathe.... Please help

2006-11-26 12:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by Samaria's mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 12:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by beachie51 2 in Weddings

i read something and someone said this on there page "it was november, there were tealight candles, maroon 5, you & me..." does this pretty much mean sex? or maybe just a deep conversation lol....

2006-11-26 12:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got very nice gifts for 5 of my best friends, but what can i get for friends who are not my best friends, but people who i have to get something. I am a high school girl. I want a gift that would be like 5 dollars or so per person.

2006-11-26 12:52:24 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Friends

Pro 31:22 She makes quilts for herself. Her clothes are made of linen and purple cloth.

2006-11-26 12:51:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive loved him for 6 yrs now, we've been together on and off since i was 15 now im 21 with his child and i havnt seen him for ages he hasnt even seen what his son looks like.I dont want to love him but i do. Im so scared im a single mum and i dont go anywhere to meet new people tofind a new man i feel like im going to be on my own for the rest of my life. I cant go anywhere to meet anyone as i have a 5month old baby and shopping and going to see friends is all i do so how will i ever find somebody new. Im so depressted feel so alone

2006-11-26 12:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by hayleyxx 1 in Singles & Dating

anal sexual relations with my gf we have the music really loud seconds before i had the erection she say something(couldnt hear cause of the music) when a had the erection saw her she was crying and bleeding i was so frak that i put my pant i run home she older than me so I couldnt have hurt her what u think it was?

2006-11-26 12:51:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think it's right that some people on here just go off on young person, when they had enough courage to actually ask the question and you just knock them down lower than their own parents would. Maybe you should consider looking at it them their point of view before you just go off on them..within your crappy given advice.

2006-11-26 12:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by Hol. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok me and my bf went out for only a month.But we were together for a while 5 years ago.We finally patched back when he broke up with his ex in August.We are crazily in love,at least at this moment.He and his ex went out for like 4 years.It's bothering me because 2 yrs ago I met him again and I wanted to be with him.He rejected coz he had this gf.So I gave up coz I didnt wanna steal him from his gf at that time.His ex doesnt like me coz she thinks I tried to steal him.Now she knows that we are together but she still doesnt like me.My bf said she hasnt got over him.We are living in different countries now.Last Friday my bf got really sick and he went to see the doctor.Last night we talked and I found that his ex drove him there and lent him money and,more importantly,she came over to his place.I started to have this headache and heartache...he explained that she accompanied him to buy groceries and sent him home and wanted to make sure hes alright.So she stayed for just a while...

2006-11-26 12:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

...and still pretend that they are your friends.

2006-11-26 12:50:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-26 12:49:49 · 25 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

do you prefer a girl who is skinny or fat or in between? older or younger? shorter or taller? outgoing or shy? rebal or good girl? why?

sorry lots of questions just currious!

2006-11-26 12:49:44 · 19 answers · asked by Babydoll 2 in Singles & Dating

And I find myself torn between two paths here, one alone and one with her. But I am waiting for HER to choose. And while I'm waiting here, I find myself thinking of things I want to say to her, ways to really express myself, and it hits me that I want to tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. BUT in the same breath, I want to tell her she's being a selfish *****, that her indecision is breeding contempt and resentment in me for her, and that she ought to think twice before she assumes any guy as nice, as caring, as into her as I am is going to come around and WAIT for her to make up her ******* mind, she really is CRAZY! Should I feel bad for even thinking like that? B/c I honestly feel better just writing that down.

2006-11-26 12:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm a freshman in high school, and it's time to pick second semester classes.
I have to choose between Chorus and Health/PE.

Chorus is fun, and I like music a lot.
Health/PE is a class you HAVE to take, and it keeps you active.

If I don't take Chorus, I'll be letting a lot of people down including myself.
BUT...
If I don't take Health/PE, I won't have it with my friends this year, and I'll have to take it during my sophomore year with the new freshmen.

Please, give me advice...
I've been stressing over this for a while now.

2006-11-26 12:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Jacques 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked this girl out, second six week, but she said that she didn’t like to go out at the beginning of school. and she was still flirting with me. I sent letters saying if she would go out with me, but she would not write back, and one had my phone number, but she didn’t call. Last week, we were talking a test and we were flirting again, the next day I stop flirting with her, but she was staring at me like she wanted me for about 30 minutes . One of my friends ask her out right in front of me and she said ’’no’’. I really really like this girl, I just can’t get her out of my mind ,Were both 14, and have lot’s of other stuff in common. do I still have a chance with her. Please give me some tips, advice, and any thing that can help me. She’s dated before.

2006-11-26 12:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by jes 3 in Singles & Dating

I really, and i mean really liked this guy and i told my best friend about it and she seemed to understand. four weeks l8er i found out we were moving to another state. She came to my going away party but i noticed she didn't talk to me. She spent the whole time talkin to my crush!!! When we moved, i found out from a friend that she had been flirting with him non stop since i moved, wearing skimpy clothes and evrything. what do i do?

2006-11-26 12:48:38 · 9 answers · asked by Imogen F 2 in Singles & Dating

or will they always be a cheater? Do you know anyone who changed?

2006-11-26 12:48:28 · 42 answers · asked by Sugar 7 in Marriage & Divorce

We'd rather not play video games, watch TV, rent movies, or play board games.

There must be something better to do... And do not say sex!

We're both seventeen.

2006-11-26 12:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my mom is a doctor and she is very busy. she sees sometimes 10-20 patients a day. tomorrow i have an appointment with a hand surgeon as a post op office visit. (i had an electrical accident and so i had to go to a hand surgeon) anyway, we have known about this appointment for 3 weeks now and today she asked me if i wanted to post pone my appointmen tbecause she has alot of patients to see tomorrow. but yet i have an appointment and she has cancled patients appointments before. also i had already planned to miss school bc i got all my make up work turned in already. should i feel sympathy and wait or just go? what would u tell her?

2006-11-26 12:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by ERICA J 3 in Family