Ok me and my bf went out for only a month.But we were together for a while 5 years ago.We finally patched back when he broke up with his ex in August.We are crazily in love,at least at this moment.He and his ex went out for like 4 years.It's bothering me because 2 yrs ago I met him again and I wanted to be with him.He rejected coz he had this gf.So I gave up coz I didnt wanna steal him from his gf at that time.His ex doesnt like me coz she thinks I tried to steal him.Now she knows that we are together but she still doesnt like me.My bf said she hasnt got over him.We are living in different countries now.Last Friday my bf got really sick and he went to see the doctor.Last night we talked and I found that his ex drove him there and lent him money and,more importantly,she came over to his place.I started to have this headache and heartache...he explained that she accompanied him to buy groceries and sent him home and wanted to make sure hes alright.So she stayed for just a while...
2006-11-26 12:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me that they still care for one another, if you are in another country you probably want to step aside and let them be. they went through alot in those 4yrs n they may still have feelings for one another.
2006-11-26 12:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just be friends with your ex you know. It sounds like she did him a favor, if he really was that sick. I've been too sick to drive and have had to call in a favor to get to the doctor and medicine. Maybe that is all it is.
2006-11-26 20:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if you "boyfriend" is playing both of you. He has the best of both worlds and both of you are you are allowing him to have it. Face it he has been using you of course she as at his place, she probably spends a great deal of time at his place since you're not "in the picture" physically. If you want to be used you can continue this "non-relationship" If you don't want to be used then you have a decision to make.
2006-11-26 20:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get back to his country, it's not going to work unless you do. Expecially with an ex snooping around.
2006-11-26 20:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree you are being played .. YOU should tell him good bye and move on with your life... long distance relationships are hard enough without the ex coming over to comfort him.. so i would say it was very unacceptable..
2006-11-26 20:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by jes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 2-timing u...
2006-11-26 20:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's past. I think he disrespect you by doing that. You should be the one that is important for him and if would really care for you he wouldn't even think of her
2006-11-26 20:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are in diffrent countires and he did seem to need help i think that it may seem a little sketchy but hopefully innocent
2006-11-26 20:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you then its NOT ok.
2006-11-26 21:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by carole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋