I am very wealthy and my wife is not, and I have a rock solid prenup which I use as leverage in every argument. I used it to let me name our son Jar Jar Binks, which my wife WAS NOT cool with. Now I had a tailor made baby Jar Jar costume made for my baby, and it cost a fortune. I demanded that little Jar Jar wear the Jar Jar costume at all times. My wife says no and I say yes, or your divorced. I don't really want to divorce her, but I will not tolerate her nonsense. What can I do to make her see the light?
2006-11-26 12:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jar jar, what is the highest number of respondents you have had to any one of your "questions" here on Yahoo answers? How many in your group of friends who get together to snort tequila, drink beer and laugh, uproariously, at some of the replies you get?
Also, do you have a myspace, yahoo 360, or a website where we might enjoy even more of your particular brand of humor? I just can't get enough of it here.
Oh, and another thing... I have a very vivid mental image of what you look like.. sans Jar Jar costume.. am I right?
You're even more fun than that one guy.. the "what should I do" retard. Remember him?
2006-11-29 14:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chrome Toaster 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not withstanding the name you chose, the real issue is that the two of you cannot find compromise in your relationship and every time you have a disagreement you use your wealth as a move against her. Why, (if you consider yourself a man) would you do this to your wife? What did she do to you? I question whether or not you really care for your wife because there is NO reason for you to make such an absurd remark to your wife. It tells everyone that your heart is not in the marriage but rather on your money. And you are saying you wont tolerate her nonsense. It looks to me like its the other way around. If the two of you do not communicate with each other and find compromise, along with you leaving your money out of your arguments and belittling your wife, you both are headed in directions you don't want. As far as the costume goes. COMPROMISE. Maybe Jar Jar wears it at home but not in social places. Maybe he wears it Monday Thursday , Saturday and the other days he doesn't. However you do it find COMPROMISE.
2006-11-26 21:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all whoa! Whether you are wealthy or not or if she is or not, a marriage is about give and take. I can see that you have gotten the "take" part down, but you need to work on the "give" part. Holding a prenup over your wife's head is wrong. It sounds like you are a very controlling person. You need to realize that your wife has equal say in making decisions. I bet if you would just work on these few things your marriage would become so much more enjoyable.
2006-11-26 21:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by iwannabeanofficer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out where she satnds on the whole divorce thing and as for you trying to get you wife to let your child where the jar jar costume you mght want to get some professinal help yourself why on earth would you want him to wear that????????
2006-11-26 21:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dbaby143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her to understand why tje Jar Jar outfit is so important. I totally understand your point of veiw. Good Luck!
(but seriously, dude, you have problems)
2006-11-26 21:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your the one going to far, not her, but Im sure we dont have the whole story. Lay off her a little bit and things may change.
2006-11-26 21:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by niptuck2630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR WORRIED ABOUT YOUR WIFE BEING CRAZY??????
WELL, HERES WHAT YOU DO......CHECK YOURSELF INTO A NUT HOUSE CAUSE BABY YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS CRAZY.. YOUR MENTAL EQUAL IS OF A 12 YEAR OLD CHILD. SO WHAT SHE DOESN;T HAVE MONEY AND YOU DO.
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT SHE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO BE WORRIED ABOUT YOU WITH THE CHILD.
ONE MORE THING.. IF YOU TAKE HER TO DIVORCE COURT, SHE IS NOT THE ONE WHO IS GOING TO LOSE MONEY OR NO MONEY, YOU ARE MENTALLY INCOMPITENT TO RAISE A CHILD AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE WAS THINKING MARRYING A NUT JOB LIKE YOURSELF.
2006-11-26 21:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by mwha1369 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she tolerate YOUR nonsense? That is the real question here.
2006-11-26 21:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are a real prick. You've already ruined your child's life by giving him/her that name. And you are such an emotionally abusive husband. You are the one who needs to "see the light".
2006-11-26 21:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by NunYa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to compromise are sit back and look at what you are asking her to do....because that is just as much her child as yours
2006-11-26 20:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by jennifersenior08 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋