Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Here is the deal...

I just told my boyfriend that I need a 3 week break from our two year, relationship...and he calls me and says well i got your message...and im going to be waiting for you...blah blah...so i happen to go to his myspace..page..and i see that he puts a girl on 2nd place on his top..right after me...so i just happen to click one of her pictures..and it her in a bathing suit...and he writes…on todays date….."SEXY!! As always.. Don't hurt nobody babes..."..funny thing is that i cant remember the last time he called me babes.…..and also her status is swinger...Ook and what makes It crazy …is that I just started calling him babez..What should I do….I know he isn’t my boyfriend but if he talking about oh..he is going to wait and stuff…Should I respond to it..and how do I go about saying it..

Also ..Our page still says that we are in a relationship. And still have each other pictures up.

The majorities advice I’m going to take..

Thanks all..

2006-11-26 11:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by My Little Girl Has Arrived :) 3 in Singles & Dating

a girl (23-25 yrs. old) asking a guy (25 yrs. old) out through an online dating service? They talk once on the phone after chatting or emailing online for a week or so. She ask him out but then says she'll call back in a week or so after Thanksgiving to set it up and never does. Or, she goes out on the first date with him and says to him he should call her again and when he does, she doesn't respond. Isn't that wierd, rude and spiteful?

2006-11-26 11:54:21 · 6 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 11:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 11:53:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

told you i was gonna run out of room...for those of you that answered the first time...thanks...

couple things you should know...

1. she's bipolar...
2. she was physically and emotionally abused as a child...
3. her father still blames her (14 years later) for the divorce of him and her mother...
4. every man she's ever known has left her high and dry...(because she's bipolar..)
5. i love her...i love her kids...i definately love our kid...yes, i feel like i'm being used...but i can't help thinking she can't help most of her actions...
6. more than anything i want her to be happy...even if it's not with me...but she needs to get her head straight before she can do that...and i am prolly the only person that understands her well enough to help her with that...

see if this changes anyones thoughts...

oh yeah...take out the "continued" and you can find the original post that this is in reference too...1k chars is NOT enough....

2006-11-26 11:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by Ed O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really so wrong to give the people that ask irrational and exaggerated questions in the relationship categories blunt answers? For instance, if I say, "asker, your boy friend/ girl friend would be an idiot to stay with a ding bat like you," am I going over the line? I suppose you could say I am, but I think some people need to be told they are blowing things out of proportion. I know insulting other participants is wrong under the rules, but some people really, really deserve it. I don't exclude myself from that list of people.

2006-11-26 11:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Baked chicken, white rice mixed with broccoli and cranberry black berry juice.

2006-11-26 11:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by farharringsingslia 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is 18 and the doctors told him to tell his mom goodbye. he really doesnt have any other family except her. he said he didnt want to be bothered tho

2006-11-26 11:52:10 · 7 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy hugs you several times in one night and you've only known each other for a month and they are full frontal strong hugs..is their any attraction there?

2006-11-26 11:51:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There seems to be alot of questions about cheating in relationships here on Answers. It seems like most are posed by woman in reference to men cheating. My theory is that it seems as if there are more women on this site then men and thus more questions about men cheating?? Do you agree or disagree??

2006-11-26 11:51:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to me, cheating is about hiding affairs or lying to women and being deceitful about the women in your life. would you consider it cheating even if youre open and honest about your other relationships?

2006-11-26 11:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by unkerpaulie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he likes this girl but doesn't like me and i would like him to notice i'm their and like me the way i like him

2006-11-26 11:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by yejide o 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 11:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Huge pig or what?
last night i had a car accident but it wasnt something serious,a few scratches in my car.so i texted to the guy im seeing "i just had a car accident,im fine".he texted back sg that i didnt read cos i accidentaly deleted it and because he didnt call i texted "im going to the hospital i ap for the consern" and he replied "u told me u were ok" and since today he hasnt called.did he think i was joking or playing or he should have called anyway?and now what do i say to him?

2006-11-26 11:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 11:46:52 · 14 answers · asked by tata 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13. It feels like i have no control over anything and its always my parents. I am not even allowed to wear a little eyeshadow. They dont know how to live, they have a very high income but our computer is from the stoneage and our tv hardly works. I have to change when i get home because 2 hours of being outside with your clothes "Gets them dirty"!!! I dont have a choice in anything... Our house is a mess and everything is blamed on me. I am starting to think its me, but i have A LOT of friends and they all like me. I always get As in everything and Tons of guys in my school have crushes on me. What is wrong with my family and home Life. Please help and if you could please leave me an e-mail so I can talk to you later about this. Thanx a lot...
Oh my family always tells me i have problems, but how can i be nice with this life???
Please help...
Oh and i am not fergie, just a fan...

2006-11-26 11:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by fergie fab 1 in Family

She does this and it hurts because i have never cheated and never will, thats because of how i was raised, she has cheated on me in the past but that is all done and over with so why is she doing this???

2006-11-26 11:44:54 · 27 answers · asked by Fireman69 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is totally bothering my boyfriend she is flirting major and whenever we kiss she gets in my face solutions plz!

2006-11-26 11:44:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think mall employees flirt more if they are on commission?

2006-11-26 11:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am brazilian and my english language teacher is from England.
He told me that the behaivior of brazilians men is very different from the uk men, related to flirt, attitude with women, etc.
Could you tell me a little about this?

2006-11-26 11:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Banana Maçã 5 in Singles & Dating

How do i get back at this girl that made my life hell?
im 14 live in the midwest, im goth, she is a "goth" but realy she is a poser, she told me when we were friends that if she lost 30 pounds she would switch to hollister, and areopostle. ect. first she got pissed cause i didnt agree with her political views/morals. Well she got bored and staRted rumors that i was stalking her and calling her all the time. Realy one day in june she asked me to spend the night on im. I sayed why not. I didnt realy want to go but i did anywayz. we had a good time. she tried to get dirt on me but i never said anyting because im smarter than that. But she told me things like ex. shelby was a virgin and never touched drugs. And a couple other people at my schoo. that were her "friends." then she told all her friends that i was stalking her and that i was talking bad about them when realy she was doing such things. then this girl that is her friend nicole got dumped by this guy chris that i didnt like then breanna started stuff that we were dating etc. HELP!!

2006-11-26 11:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just a scenario...

You've been in love (madly in love) with your partner for years upon years. Your partner and you are engaged and the wedding is drawing near. Then, your partner comes to you with the news that s/he has contracted aids. Assuming s/he did not contract AIDS sexually... What would you do? (You have gone to the clinic and you have tested negative for AIDS)

What if you're a female pregnant with this man's baby?
What if you're a male and she's the mother of your BORN child?

(If you're a male try thinking as the female and if you're a female try thinking like the male...)

Just in case... This is nowhere near happening to anyone in my life including myself (Knock on wood)...This is just a scenario to better understand other people’s (Your) views .

Thank you

2006-11-26 11:42:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when ever he is at home with me just chilling, he goes to sleep. it is 7:45 and he has been asleep since 5:00. now if he was at his house he would be off doing something or wide awake. i have talked and asked him about this before. what do you think this means cuz it happens all the time.

2006-11-26 11:42:30 · 14 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Any suggestions y'all may have would be great. We are paying for the wedding ourselves and working on a budget.

2006-11-26 11:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by Celo 2 in Weddings

I dreamed that my husband's ex was trying to get him back

2006-11-26 11:41:03 · 20 answers · asked by shygirl4118 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband took me, my family, and Jessica out for dinner tonight at this really neat restaurant. I looked through the menu and I saw this picture of a strawberry daiquiri and it looked so yummy. I just love strawberries and I asked my husband if he would let me order one (non alcoholic one) and he told me that I shouldn't be drinking one tonight and then I said, "please" with this cute little expression and he shook his head no. Well then I started tearing up and crying and he told everyone at the table to excuse us and he took me outside and held my hands and looked at me in the eye and said, "sweetie, you are being a very bad girl, and after we get home you are going to get disciplined". I told him I was sorry and he wiped my tears and said I could get a pink lemonade instead which made me smile. Jessica and I are in our room now talking about what kind of punishment I'm going to get and were just curious what other husbands would do. I'm thinking I'll get a spanking :(

2006-11-26 11:40:55 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had to squish da letters in it says i am not a stalker

2006-11-26 11:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

name things you would like your spouse to do for you that would put a smile on your face.

2006-11-26 11:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by noga 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he found out wat my number is and this kid keeps calling me and il ltell him to fckk off..he think im his frined..is there any way to block this guys number??

2006-11-26 11:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by avant1991 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a progressive liberal and I wanted to help the poor people that lost their homes in New Orleans due to George Bush's Hurricane. I invited several families to come stay with me in New York. My wife and kids weren't happy but I explained we have to do out part to save these nobel people. The families have drained me of all my money, they refuse to get a job, they live in filth, the men harrass my wife and daughters. They have lived with me for 2 and a half month and have cost me almost 100,000 dollars, which is pretty much all my savings. My wife is threatening to leave me and take my daughters away after one of the men tried to sexually assualt them. I don't know what to do. I can't turn these heroes away after what happened to them, but my life has been ruined!!

2006-11-26 11:40:05 · 5 answers · asked by The Progressive Democrat Liberal 1 in Singles & Dating