Advice Please..Relationship..?

Question

Here is the deal...

I just told my boyfriend that I need a 3 week break from our two year, relationship...and he calls me and says well i got your message...and im going to be waiting for you...blah blah...so i happen to go to his myspace..page..and i see that he puts a girl on 2nd place on his top..right after me...so i just happen to click one of her pictures..and it her in a bathing suit...and he writes…on todays date….."SEXY!! As always.. Don't hurt nobody babes..."..funny thing is that i cant remember the last time he called me babes.…..and also her status is swinger...Ook and what makes It crazy …is that I just started calling him babez..What should I do….I know he isn’t my boyfriend but if he talking about oh..he is going to wait and stuff…Should I respond to it..and how do I go about saying it..

Also ..Our page still says that we are in a relationship. And still have each other pictures up.

The majorities advice I’m going to take..

Thanks all..

Answer 1

Technically, you have no right to say anything, since you initiated the "break".... but given the circumstances, you're allowed to be curious.
Are you still on speaking terms with him for these three weeks? If so, simply ask him about it. Be calm about it, and just let him know you're simply curious as to who this person is, since you've never met her before.
Also, it appears that this really bothers you. Perhaps during these three weeks off, you should try to address why that is. It will help you get a better understanding of where you're relationship is, and where it's heading.
G/L

Answer 2

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Answer 3

once you like a guy call him each and all the time, every day and be certain to tell him you adore him after a pair of weeks. additionally be very jealous of another women human beings, even his sister and mom. desire some extra??? consume numerous pizza and drink beer every day. call out to artwork and merely stay homestead ordering pizza and eating beer, do it for months and months. in no way go away your place, merely order it in, the beer too. purchase a team of stuff on credit. each and every thing which you have ever needed you're able to purchase, do no longer save for it however, merely positioned it on your mastercard that way you do no longer could wait. the superb piece of undesirable suggestion that I could furnish involves swimming in the sea. continuously be certain you tie products of ineffective bloody hen scraps around your ankles, fairly once you're surfing.

Answer 4

wow. you really like your drama. if you aren't dumb and in middle school that you need to get a life.

and that break stuff? get real

Answer 5

dump this loser he is obviously not that into you so let him go and you move on. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.

Answer 6

you need to move on. that is what i call a playa. he is messed. if you want to check up on it ask him. if not then just move on