How can i make her understand?????????

Question

Thres this extremely shy gal that i like and her friends are helpin me to talk to her. The only thing is that she loves TO STUDY and she doesnt even hang out during weekends. She also loves anime. I wanna know of a way of how to make her understand that theres more to high school than just studying. plz help. Im not in the point of giving up on her coz im trying since mid september.

She grade 11 i hang out wit her during block off and at lunch. We also talk bout anime.
Me- grade 12 PLZ DONT TELL ME TO HIT THE BOOKS OR TO LEAVE HER ALONE.

Answer 1

u cant stop her...........
just like.... do u like basketball???
wat if one day, she ask u to quit basketball?? wat r ur feeling??
i suggest u better ask her out.....arent u smart???
just give a call & tell her what time will u meet wif her.. then go out lo....like for the basketball show or cinema show.. if u afraid, go wif group also can accept..
study is doesnt matter.. i really dont understand why u wanna stop her & a lot of such questions postin on ur detail...
just stop thinking of "how can i make her understand"..???

Answer 2

If you don't plan on giving up on her then what you need to do is stick with it. Figure out why she studies so much. Is it because she needs to study that much to do well or is it because it makes her feel prepared? Is she doing badly in school? Point out that too much studying can pysch you out on a test. Suggest reviewing and then relaxing instead of constant studying. If she honestly feels better if she is doing something to help her in school find something fun that you can relate to school. Visit a museum, a college campus (trust me this can be fun), see a concert, a show at the planetarium, etc. Point out how these extracurricular activities are good for school and her mental health. Be patient and look out for yourself as well. Don't try to take on her problems so much that they hurt you. Good luck!

Answer 3

ask her out, very simple !