I am flirting and being flirted with a married girl, what do I do?

Question

Hello guys,
I have a big problem, I am flirting with a 21 yo girl who works close to me, and she has been married for over 9 months now. She is always complaining about her husband who is 6 years older tan her, saying that he doesn't care anymore about her, and she wants to feel alive. I am really looking forward on going out with her, but I don't know if it's worth it. What should I do?

Thanks

Answer 1

I agree, a lot of drama is comming your way if you don't stop. Always remember, there are two sides to every story. How do you know she isn't a pain in the a*s? You'll break up a marriage and then you'll be stuck with her, then what will you do, besides wish you had never gotten involved?

Answer 2

She obviously has made some pretty adult decisions without a lot of thought. It's not your problem. I wouldn't let your natural need to be a hero get in the way of your better judgement. You know it wouldn't be the best thing you could do or you wouldn't be here. Run baby, run! lol

Maybe this is something to consider...what is it about her that has your attention? Is it just physical? Could it be that you just need a distraction to keep you from find someone for yourself? Are you ready to accept the possibility that it may not turn out to be what you planned it to be? Have you ever seen "Fatal Attraction?" Just some things to think about...

Answer 3

Your walking into a pandora's box full of drama. Run for the hills. She isn't worth your time,she needs to work out her problems instead of complaining. Women always want a man to listen and the first one that listens without saying,"solve it",falls in love with him. If she is 21 and regretting it,she needs to now see,she needs to mature,and or realize she was to young for that long term committment. Explain to her your true intentions for hanging out with her,make it clear,its not turning into anything more then friendship.

Answer 4

It sounds like she is just using you to get some excitment out of her now dull marriage. If she isnt happy she should leave the guy she is with first.

I wouldnt want to get all tangled into her personal issues no matter how much she batts her eyes at you.

Just think of where this would head if you did go out with her.. she will divorce her husband (maybe) and then cheat on you! Leave this one alone I think!

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Wait until she leaves him. You don't want to mess with married women. What goes around comes around. Also, what makes you think she'll be faithful to you if she can't even be faithful to her new husband whom she vowed to love, honor, cherish til death do them part??? If she is complaining to a co-worker about her husband not caring about her anymore and she wants to feel alive, then why doesn't she get a divorce? My advice... stay out of it until she's available.

Answer 6

Go for it! Sometimes you have to push the limits of morality just to make sure you still have morals. You may luck out and get what you want while at the same time discovering that you should be thinking like an egoist.

Answer 7

Hi
I had a similar problem. What I did was ask the girl who she wanted more you or his husband. If she wanted you then she should get a divorce and if she wanted her husband more then you should never meet each other. Hope this helps you. Can you please register in my forum
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Answer 8

she is looking for a fling. you're not gonna be in a relationship with her. protect yourself and use condoms and take her out somewhere and give her the exciting time she is wanting.

Answer 9

If she's going to cheat on her husband, she'll cheat on you too. She's another contributor to the moral decay of our country.

Answer 10

Are you looking for problems? When she looks at you with those flirting eyes, turn and run!!!!!!!!