We've been seeing each other for over a year now, and we knew that the question of wanting to have children would be an issue. So even before we started dating we discussed the question, and I thought we had come to a compromise that we could both live with (adoption), so that it wouldn't be an issue further down the road.
However, it seems now that it wasn't really resolved. We keep having the argument because I know I want children, and she does not. Though at the begining she said she was open to the idea as long as it was through adoption, and I agreed.
A few months into our relationship I moved cross country, and other than the children issue, we've been doing ok long distance.
Now it's time for her to move out here with me, but we're both wondering if that's the right thing, if we can't agree to have kids or not. We know it's along ways off, but should we stay with each other if we can't compromise now? Especially before the big commitment of her moving here happens?
2006-11-26
22:47:05
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