my girlfriend is in love to a guy who is recently divorce...while the separion is legal they became so closed and now he is divorce she asked him if he is serious to move in together and have a life together but the said that give him time to decide maybe 2 weeks or more...now,its more that 2 weeks ans never hearded anything from him...so she did call him and asked him what going on....he just said that he is waiting for a call from his family (abroad)...
now my gf is so hurt and hard for her to move on....she is inlove to this guy very much and i can tell...i feel sorry for her how can i help her to move on....
2006-11-26 22:52:28 · 5 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you need to go to the bottom of the page and find your countries flag, click on it and ask them in your language. I cannot make out what you're asking.
2006-11-26 23:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should of been very weary getting involved with a married man anyways...even if he was on his way to a divorce or not. He used her and now he is down with her he has discarded her...to help her get over him have her write him a letter ( but to not mail it) write evrything that she feels and that she has ever wanted to say to him. Have her seal it and put it somewhere safe. She can do this as often as she needs. Have her take a picture of him and scribble all of her anger out on it.....take her out slowly and meet new people..at a club , bar whatever, once guys come up to her maybe she will get more self confidence and realize she was and is worth more than wasted emotions on a married guy who was never going to do anyhting for her anyways
2006-11-27 07:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell her to wait for sometime... the guy has been through a divorce just give him some space!
the more clingy and desparate she acts the more he will move away from her. Tell her to just be there for him when he needs to talk etc, but not to push now... it is just too soon!
Hope things sort out soon
2006-11-27 06:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was a "rebound". But was she "dating" him while still married? Why she in a hurry to shack up with him? What lead to the divorce.
But most of all, why are people in a hurry to shack up without marrying? What ever happened to raising LADIES in this country?
2006-11-27 06:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuld ask ravn she noes all abut this kind of thing
2006-11-27 06:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋