Iam inlove with this guy and have been dating each other for aslmost 3 years now and by God's grace we are planning to get married. But my problem is that my parents do not like my guy for any thing and thinks that he is out to ruin me. They alwys talk ill of me and that makes me feel bad to know that the person you love is not loved back by your parents. He is not wealthy but i still love him and believe there is a brighter future for him, though i spend more for him than he does but i don't care b/cos that is what love is. But the way my parents are going about him makes me annoyed with thm b/cos they say they will never consent to our relationship and hasd told me to quit and has even treatened to disown me. What do i do, continue or quit my love?
2006-11-26 23:00:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds sooooooo familiar. My parents did not like my boyfriend for a very long time, but the longer we were together, the more they realized how much we cared for each other. Now we are engaged and my parents are ecstatic. Just think to yourself....................who's in love with him, me or my parents? when your in love, you shouldn't care what other people think, but since its your parents, i know its hard. Just follow your heart!!
Good luck and God bless!
2006-11-26 23:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't put food on the table, it seems like everything to you now but somewhere along the way...perhaps when your kids want to take up art/music lessons and you can't afford it, you're going to feel that pain. Find out *exactly* what his plans are for economic growth and if it means you looking after him, good luck cos you're going to need it.
2006-11-27 07:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must follow your heart. If you were to give in, imagine the heartache and guilt you'd feel for the rest of your life? If this guy really is "the one" you have to make sure that you prove by example how wrong your parents were.
2006-11-27 07:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its your life and your family is not going to marry with the guy you love,that will be only your future as none of us are permanent in this world ;) well I'd like to say you should listen what your heart says to you... also I think talking to your family as in the way "they are not gonna marry to the boy" it may help to solve your problems.Good luck!
2006-11-27 07:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by lonelilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue Amyjane.
What business is it of your parents anyway.......??? Are they trying to run your life ???? And tell you who they want you to marry ???
The truth of the matter is.....you are your own person, in this life you are unique, there is not another you in this whole world....so you choose whats right for you.
I know.....exactly the same has happened to me.....I chose whats right for me....not whats right for my parents.
Your parents have lived their lives, and made their choices....now its your turn to live your life and make your own choices.....follow your heart.
2006-11-27 07:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by wombat2u2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love this guy then you should stay with him, it's your life, you do what you want to do, your parents can't tel you what to do forever. it's your decision.
2006-11-27 07:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i wold do what i love to do.
I wont leave my love if my parents dont consent......
2006-11-27 07:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i can! you better remember that you gonna live with your partner, not ur parents.
2006-11-27 07:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anastasya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're an adult,you can do whatever you want.
2006-11-27 07:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋