16 years back we get married. He is ok with me as usaually he belive his mother words only that why we have so much of communication gap physically also he doesn't like me. Before 5 years i know that he has another relation with a girl he said sorry to me after two years he take one girl and went to another coutry after some time he come back . Now how can i belive him. Everbody says he is very good, and very helping nature, good at heart . His mother knows everything. why he do like this. how can i belive him. Personally he is very good. In our relatives every laugh about us. I feel very shame for that. My main problem is i like him ver much, same time i can't belive him. This is my wrong or my husband wrong. Pl help me. I become mad for all of these
2006-11-26 22:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like ur a nice person....and ready to get hurt for the one that u love...u dont need to be ashamed it happen in so many relationship,sometimes and sometimes more worse....yes,people who knows him believ that he is a nice guy but look at what he did to u....he leaves u and go for other girl,u need to find another love...yes,it is true hard to move on but if u think about urself and try new things its better....good luck and u deserve to be happy....
its not ur fault...pls. email me...if u want
2006-11-26 22:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, listen to me, I'm not trying to put you down or that. Your very hard to understand but, I think your saying you don't understand your boyfriend/husband. Your saying he's been a bad boy before and you haven't been able to trust him in the past, am I right? if so, we have a start.
I don't think this is a good start for a relationship, to start on a wrong foot like this, with a lot of questions and no answers. You'd better see a marriage consular before you do anything permanent.
2006-11-27 07:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship hon! You still have a good life in front of you, but share it with someone else! After all those years of marriage you shouldn't have to suffer doubts like that! Just leave leave him to his mother, and run! Have a good day hon!
2006-11-27 07:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love with a child,I don't know what your financial situation is but if you can get a job you should and men can treat you way better than your so called husband is treating you.If you love him and want to stay with him then be prepared that he is who he is and may not change.It's not your duty to love and trust some one who has betrayed you and if you say nothing it will repeat it self.You won't be able to trust him for a very long time but he caused this uncertainty by betraying you.Never let your husband disrespect you for you and he are suppose to be one in spirit.
2006-11-27 06:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a Submissive, Co-Dependent, Masochistic type personality ... Pain and suffering gets you off ...Learn to "Meditate" or knock your self out !
Where is your SELF RESPECT especially as a Japanese!
2006-11-27 06:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by baltic072 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never believe a man. If his lips are moving, he is lying. All men just want to get between your legs or in your mouth.
2006-11-27 08:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your husband is wrong for cheating on you, but why did you marry him and why didn't you leave him when you found out that he was cheating on you
2006-11-27 06:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is in the wrong.
2006-11-27 06:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by schaianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him he is a loser.
2006-11-27 07:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋