Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

my mom is devorcing my dad.. and well she got a lawyer.. he made us do price checks on things at the house and do all this paperwork, its been three years and he hasnt done a thing bout the devorce... he promised my mom, sister, and me that we will keep the house but he hasnt done a thing. when we went to go have a meeting with him to see whats up he said he was sorry he was just really busy and that hes trying to clear stuff up.... couple months went by and nothing . We tried again to contact him but hes secretary answered and said that he was on vacation.. when we said that we wanted our money back she told us that hnes been tryinng his best and that sometimes he procastinates .. but he does his job.... its been 3 long years and my mom wants her money back so we can use it, to get a lawyer that will do something bout our case. Im trying to figure out though is it possible for my mom to get her money back because she spent alot..... im open for suggestions or any helpful advice.

2006-11-25 11:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and dont say get a job

2006-11-25 11:28:27 · 11 answers · asked by Joel H 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy...he lykes me back but i havent rly talked to him much today and i rly miss him...i know ur probably like 'oh well i havent heard from my guy in over a week' but idk...i just rly miss him..he isnt answering his phone and i dont know if hes mad at me or wat the deal is...ur probably thinkin im overreacting and i know i proabably am...but some help would be great...

kthxbye
lindy!

2006-11-25 11:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know ive asked this question before but i didnt get too many responses from it

boys do you like being called cute?

2006-11-25 11:27:24 · 16 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

you see i have a best friend and she is goin out with my other best friend's big brother who is 17 years apart from her and she is bellow 18!
they keep texting and talking about very "serious" things something that i really don't want to mention.... they are both getting really perverted talking about alot of disgusting things and what they might do one day.... *hint hint*
and me and my best friend really want to break them up because it is getting out of hand...
i need some very good advice... and if it is not to much to ask... if you can tell me a plan to break them up!
As much as i luv her... what she's doing is wrong and it can hurt her, my other best friend,and me...
please help me!

2006-11-25 11:26:50 · 19 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 11:26:38 · 1 answers · asked by jer 1 in Singles & Dating

Physically cheating as kissing, sex, etc
or
emotionally cheating as falling in love w/ another woman while being married with u.

I have to go w/ emotionally!
I couldn't stand for my husband to love another woman!
and well the physical part "what goes around comes around"

2006-11-25 11:25:23 · 23 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my exs best friend is now really trying hard to get at me. We were all flirty at first and now she wants to do things rough and dirty this to me and yes I am a weak guy and I might give in soon. The problem is me and my ex are trying to fix things and I told her I love her and stuff. Ok so what should I do? Turn the exs best friend down? What to do?

2006-11-25 11:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. We met online. We have been talking on the phone everyday for atleast an hour for about 4 or 5 months. We talked about EVERYTHING and she stated many times that she liked me and thought about me all the time. I did too, and she even talked about us moving in together. All of a sudden, she started being very short on the phone and then saying she had to go and she'd call back. She stopped calling me all together and only texting me. I thought she was playing a game so I stopped and ignored for a while and then she wondered why I wasn't responding back. I got back to her and everytime I call her, she doesn't answer and never calls me back. Today, I haven't heard from her at all. What does this mean? This is killing me! Thanks!

2006-11-25 11:25:01 · 6 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

One day a few months ago, I was at a roller skating rink with some friends. A guy's friends told me that he "liked" me, and they said he wanted to know my name. I got really excited and told them, and then one of the boys asked if I liked the guy who "liked" me. I said "Yes!" and they were like "are you serious?" and I was like "YES!!!" So then they all tried to get him to talk to me, but he wouldn't. Then the guy told me, "If he doesn't talk to you, i'll give you his phone number." So I got his phone number and called him. He wasn't home. So then they called my house like 8 times later and I was too nervous to answer. A few weeks later, I found out that the whole thing was a scheme that someone told them to do, and I was really pissed and started to cry. And then I was like, "I should never fall for things like this ever again!" Now I think that I will never find a guy for me. What should I do?

2006-11-25 11:24:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i ask him out . do u think he will just leav me and not be firends with me any more ? im nurvious because i don't want to losse him eather way and im relly cunfused if i ask him out do u think he will leav me ? because he just want to be firends i don't know what to do . i relly love him i just don't know what to do .

2006-11-25 11:24:10 · 4 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

i have fallen for this man i met on the net, he,s wonderful. We went for a drink the other night, and got on great we spoke for hours. hes funny and intelligent. i am 47 years old and do you know this is the best date i have ever had, i have been married and that in the past as well. i do not want it to go wrong how do i stop it from going wrong. I have been through much disappointement.

2006-11-25 11:23:40 · 11 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Singles & Dating

what would you like to recieve as a christmas present?
Keep in mind, I am a teenager on a very limited budget ( I want to spend about $20) but I want to get my mom something special. I get her jewelry or clothes every year so please dont suggest that. Gift cards are too impersonal and there arent any CDs or books she wants right now.

Im out of ideas so that is why I need your help! what would make you happy to get from daughter?

ps-please dont suggest "spend time with her" or "say thank you for what she does for you" because i do that already

THANKS!

2006-11-25 11:22:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont have much money to spend on him but i want to give him something thoughtful but nice. I've been dating him for 8 monthes...any ideas on what to get him for christmas?

2006-11-25 11:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by annieluvsu22 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 11:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by OC 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry, yes, I know wrong heading, but all the good minds visit this category, and not the others.... I am facing a hip replacement, and if you or someone you know has had one, would you share your experiences? (I'm scared pea green.) Also, could you make it so I could contact you and discuss the doc who did it, his education, hospital care you received, etc. I live in a small town, and know I will have to travel so as long as I am on a plane, it can be anywhere. Thanks in advance, guys. Really appreciate you information...

2006-11-25 11:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by ladyren 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my sis & bro are pissing me off!
wat are some good ways 2 get them back...smart comeback or unharmful pranks would be good.
keep in mind im 13 my sis is 9 and my bro is 6. they are being so annoying i just wanna get em back for being complete retards. but make sure that any pranks are not too bad because my mom is home!
thanxx!

2006-11-25 11:20:24 · 3 answers · asked by tappinbabe64 1 in Family

I am loosing a person that's very dear to me, and the pain that I'm feeling is unbearable. That person prefers not to talk to me for a reason that she says one day she would tell me. She also says that I shouldn't suffer because she doesn't deserve me... But I know that that person loves me. Why would she want to get away from me? I am suffering very much.

2006-11-25 11:19:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I have been living with my boyfriend for 5 years. And I love him. But, this 'love' does not make me happy. I feel so unsatisfied. I feel alone even if he is holding me tight and I don't feel like getting anywhere. My problem is, I cannot leave him crually, he is an angel, and he loves me, he says so 10 times a day. I have started million times discussions about our relationship, but he does not seem to understand me, doesn't really see problems.
I wanna leave him, leave this life I have here in this house and in this city, I wanna go somewhere else and start over. Meet new people and think differently, work differently and feel differently...
I am not 'in search of myself', I know who I am, and this IS exactly my problem: I have realized now that I want different things in life and in love than that he 'gives' me or that we 'have' together... How do I leave him, without breaking his heart? Do you think a temporary separation -without really breaking up- could be a solution?

2006-11-25 11:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by lifeIsTooShort 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok..there this girl...she was my girl when we were children liken 10 or 11 something like that..and we've been talking on msn since like 3 or 4 months daily and alot...today i was invited to a bday n i saw her there she came and sat beside me and we kept talking...(but that doesn't show that she is interested trust me)...i like the girl and we chat alot...my problem is that im shy..im always shy..i dunno what to do shall i ask her to go out or something...but the problem is that we never meet yet we always chat...i dunno if she's interested or not but i dont think so...so what do i do now...we talk alot we never meet...and im shy to ask her to go out with me...and i really dont want to tell my friends to do that for me...i mean ask her go out with us....
Thanks for ur answers :)....

2006-11-25 11:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by A... 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think and why....i think that law thing is total crap if you have to. not everyones family is the fairy tale one where its all sunshine and rainbows....thats why i reeally reeally dont want that law.some people say that if you tell your parents they can help you go through it and its easier with parents to give you support and love....a lot are abusive and will beat you just like that. a long time ago my uncle was a prinipal at a school in china where a kid got a b on an test and his parents were sooo pissed they beat him till he died..it would probably be more dangerous for the girl telling her parents than not. i think most people who say you should tell are from the families where they will sit down and talk it out instead of yell,shout and hit. because anyone from an abusive family will know that telling your parents is not an option.whats your thought??

2006-11-25 11:17:11 · 14 answers · asked by lar35 2 in Family

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and we just decided to tie the knot two weeks from tomorrow! I've never done this before and am at a total loss! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

2006-11-25 11:16:54 · 29 answers · asked by Lil Sinny 2 in Weddings

I like a girl...how do I tell her that she has pretty eyes, without making it too obvious that I like her. And I want to sound romantic and original, saying "oh you have pretty eyes" is not an option.

2006-11-25 11:15:17 · 16 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

please make a good point

2006-11-25 11:15:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anything u look for?...

2006-11-25 11:14:34 · 31 answers · asked by DC 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to girl online for like 5 months. She was going out with a guy, that was so controling, like he would call every 15 mins. 24/7, wouldnt let her see any of her friends, and would always check her cell for any new numbers. Then we started talking and we both fell in love with each other. She would say that she wants to be with and not him and always saying she loved me and ****. So she broke up with him. An wanted me to come see her so I did. The first 2 days i was out there was great having fun, like we were going out, then the 3 day he found out that she had another guy and came over to her house freaking out. Then the next day we talk about it and she tells me she thinks she still loves him and will always be thinkin what if with her ex. An said we should be friends. But she is making him like sign this contract said he has to change or its over. Do you think she will ever get over him? or See me other then just a friend? Any ideas what I should do?

2006-11-25 11:14:19 · 8 answers · asked by ConfusedMan3122 1 in Singles & Dating

if so how did you move on? like how long b4 did find some else? how long did it take to move on? its been 3 months. since mine. and just the other day he said i dont want to be friends anymore. but befor that we had a great friend ship. and now this. i knw its over. and it to much to date again. but i cant believe he's really gone. he didnt say why? jsut hung up.

2006-11-25 11:13:26 · 18 answers · asked by wakertats1 1 in Singles & Dating

me an my man have done it all you name it we done it me him and another woman, tied up, fast slow, in the rain, up, down, left, right, everything what can we do now in the bed someone HELP!!!!!!

2006-11-25 11:13:17 · 5 answers · asked by tacha_cb 1 in Singles & Dating

Fell hard for a guy; he was seriously into me and expressed it in letters, in person etc. Was great for about 4 months and now he is distant. When we see each other it is great but then he wont call or return calls. I have backed off and I am hurt. When I really back off he calls and asks why I am "down." He pulls me back in just when I am getting over all of this. I know is part my fault for seeing him after he acts like this but I still have strong feelings for him. I have asked him why this is happening and he says it is because he doesnt know what he wants. Advice???

2006-11-25 11:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you believe in :do as i say not as i do when it comes to raising your children?

2006-11-25 11:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by ohh babyyy 2 in Family