Ok..there this girl...she was my girl when we were children liken 10 or 11 something like that..and we've been talking on msn since like 3 or 4 months daily and alot...today i was invited to a bday n i saw her there she came and sat beside me and we kept talking...(but that doesn't show that she is interested trust me)...i like the girl and we chat alot...my problem is that im shy..im always shy..i dunno what to do shall i ask her to go out or something...but the problem is that we never meet yet we always chat...i dunno if she's interested or not but i dont think so...so what do i do now...we talk alot we never meet...and im shy to ask her to go out with me...and i really dont want to tell my friends to do that for me...i mean ask her go out with us....
Thanks for ur answers :)....
2006-11-25 11:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by A... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont consider that i was dating her when i was young lol...because i was just a young kid...
2006-11-25 11:18:26 · update #1
Ok...let me add something...im 18 now btw....anyways im egyptian and asking a girl out here in egypt isn't like the other western countries...asking her out here is like WOULD YOU DATE ME...not would u like to go with me to a movie...there is a big difference lol...anyways i understand what u people say..so i dunno when i tell her i dont like that she doesnt do it but sometimes i feel that she doesnt want to talk with me i dunno why...
thanks people for ur help :)
2006-11-25 11:40:11 · update #2
if shes talking to you she likes you back. trust me i don't talk to guys that im not interested in because i think thats leadin them on. invite her to go out with you and your friends so its casual and comfortable i bet you she'll say yes. if she says no its totally cool cause you weren't rejected for a date and you can still talk to her as friends
2006-11-25 11:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by rightwing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. It's not difficult and it won't be the end of western civilization as we know it. Just ask her. The worst she can do is say no. I just asked a girl out to a movie once. I just wanted to see a movie. That was 11 years ago and we've been married for almost eight years. Have no expectations, just ask her if she would like to share a really good time with you some time. A pizza, a movie, an amusement park, anything.
2006-11-25 19:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be easier to ask her out by means of "IM". That way you are not face to face. You should definitely ask her out, even if just to the movies or out to lunch, otherwise you will look back on this someday and think: "wish I", "could of", "should of"
Live life, ask her, and if she says no, you still have her as a friend. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 19:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you now? you repeated the same thing over and over again. Just ask her to the movies or something see what she says, how do you know she isn't sitting there thinking the same thing.
2006-11-25 19:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's kinda interested. you guys must have some chemistry you talk more than any boyfriend ive ever had. wat you should do is when you're talking on msn or watever, then you should mention the possibility of going out. if she says "we should" then ask her out. she sounds interested, so I would give it a try
2006-11-25 19:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out to breakfast or lunch on a weekend....Just because you chat online doesn't mean that you will be the same in person. Get to know her in person...
2006-11-25 19:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to hang out. it is much less pressure and you can see if you guys would be comfertable around each other. if things go well ask her out ot dinner or a movie or something
2006-11-25 19:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by ice_babe_232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some confidence boy but other than that i think you should ask her to do something casual and see how it goes, then go from there.
good luck
2006-11-25 19:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by wrestlerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you are feeling her and you want a real date this go round.
2006-11-25 19:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out, see were ya'll go for there
2006-11-25 19:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋