Ok my exs best friend is now really trying hard to get at me. We were all flirty at first and now she wants to do things rough and dirty this to me and yes I am a weak guy and I might give in soon. The problem is me and my ex are trying to fix things and I told her I love her and stuff. Ok so what should I do? Turn the exs best friend down? What to do?
2006-11-25 11:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are telling your ex that you love her, then the best friend shouldn't mean anything to you. If you are having your doubts, forget even trying to mend things with your ex, and just go for the best friend. Just know that trying to go after an ex's best friend is a REALLY sensitive thing, but if both of you feel that way for each other, it could work.
2006-11-25 11:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tgrman80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your ex are truly trying to get back together, the LAST thing you want to do is encourage her friend. Definitely turn down your ex's best friend and anyone else that comes along until you know for sure what the future with your ex is going to be.
2006-11-25 11:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angel on your shoulder: if you love your ex, then definitely turn down your ex's best friend. think of the consequences if your ex found out!
devil on your shoulder: take full advantage of this situation but only, ONLY after making sure that there is a good reason why your ex's best friend will keep the whole thing a secret from your ex!
depends on if you want to be safe and nice, or risky and play the game.
2006-11-25 11:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by n0ir_c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love her all that much if you're thinking of doing her friend. Don't lie to her any more, and you won't feel so guilty about doing the friend. Know this: you will not get back together with your ex, nor should you try.
2006-11-25 11:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she remains your female friend, do you want it to stay that way? If she is searching and crying & apologizing, perhaps she rather is sorry & did not advise it, and if it became absolutely a kiss, not that tremendous of a deal. with the help of deliberating doing the belongings you suggested, it shows that you're lower than her, those issues are infantile, immature, stupid, in simple terms advance up. You seem extraordinarily damage with the help of what she did because you want to get decrease back at her so badly. & if she is suicidal, perhaps you ought to be tender about that, not so rude.
2016-11-26 22:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest not to commit yourself to anyone and just have booty calls. thats your safest bet. and dont let the other girls know about eachother. remember dont commit yet!
2006-11-25 11:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: "What do I want?" Then answer yourself. Then act accordingly.
2006-11-25 11:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋