i have fallen for this man i met on the net, he,s wonderful. We went for a drink the other night, and got on great we spoke for hours. hes funny and intelligent. i am 47 years old and do you know this is the best date i have ever had, i have been married and that in the past as well. i do not want it to go wrong how do i stop it from going wrong. I have been through much disappointement.
2006-11-25 11:23:40 · 11 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it slow..dont rush into anything...good luck.
2006-11-25 11:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it from going wrong. If it's going to go wrong, then it will go wrong, and you could end up with a broken heart, and disappointed, and in tears - all the usual stuff that you used to experience way back when you were a teenager. However don't let the worry of it going wrong stop you from having a good time with this man! Enjoy his intelligence, enjoy his humour, and wipe those worries from your mind: you've got a good thing going. What on earth could go wrong at this early stage? Be honest with him, be yourself, and you'll soon feel more secure in knowing where you stand with him.
2006-11-25 19:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by demnity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So- basically, you're sort of scared, right?
If you ARE, just keep on going out with him, dates. The world is full of pain, and once you take a step closer to find out the truth, you'll see if it's going to turn out wrong, or good.
Hopefully, I wasn't dumb and totally answered a different question.
2006-11-25 19:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by UnexplainablyBeautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at the respect thing... does he think as much of you as u do of him... because sometimes people say what you want to hear to get their way.
Enjoy the ride... if it ends before Xmas, remember the fun u had & don't look back, if you both end up in zimmer frames in 50 years time... well, nuff said
Have a nice life
2006-11-25 19:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jembo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be careful. try to be honest and tell him how you feel and hope that he does the same. Take it one day at a time.
Ask him that if he feels that there is no future then to tell you sooner rather than later. No point prolonging the agony. Good Luck, you sound like you deserve some.
2006-11-25 19:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Julian K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you can prevent something like that from happening if it was meant to happen. Just remember that the man you're waiting for will come eventually. Good luck!
2006-11-25 19:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep doing what you were doing before. Be normal. Don't ever expect something amazing to come out of it because if he turns out to be a complete prat, you won't be so disappointed!
2006-11-25 19:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tk 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have found true happiness, then I wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-11-25 19:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it as it comes. There are no guarantees.
2006-11-25 19:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just enjoy it and don't set expectation's.
2006-11-26 14:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋