I recently was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. We met online. We have been talking on the phone everyday for atleast an hour for about 4 or 5 months. We talked about EVERYTHING and she stated many times that she liked me and thought about me all the time. I did too, and she even talked about us moving in together. All of a sudden, she started being very short on the phone and then saying she had to go and she'd call back. She stopped calling me all together and only texting me. I thought she was playing a game so I stopped and ignored for a while and then she wondered why I wasn't responding back. I got back to her and everytime I call her, she doesn't answer and never calls me back. Today, I haven't heard from her at all. What does this mean? This is killing me! Thanks!
2006-11-25 11:25:01 · 6 answers · asked by girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She no longer likes you and does not have the guts just to tell you up front. None of us know why, another person or whatever or whoever. You may be better off without her, who knows what else she kept or would keep to herself?
I do need to tell you that "I thought she was playing a game so I stopped and ignored for a while" is not a good thing, it told her she could do the same thing within this relationship. You need to set an example as to how you want relationships to go, if you turn them into a "game" it is tough to get rightly upset when the other person "plays" by your rules.
Leave her one final message "it is not very mature of you to at least let me know why you will no longer talk to me, especially considering how things were going. You need to be more honest and up front with people. Have a great day!".
2006-11-25 11:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by gare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you love eachother alot...
but hear is the thing there might be 2 things that made her stop:
1. the reason why she was short on the phone is beacause she is really really busy
2. not to sound mean or anything but she can be cheating on you because long distance relationships don't really work... because there could be at least maybe an 85% chance that she found another guy...
and since you started ignoring her she probaly got mad at you because she thinks you hate her or she might think that you are cheating on her....
my solution to you is just explain to her your feelings about all of this and maybe even apologize if she was ever mad at you!
never give up and remember to stay true to yourslef!
2006-11-25 19:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say taht she is no longer into you. She has probally found someone else. Someone closer and that she can actually have a real relationship. If I were you I would just move on. Don't play games. Games are for childern. Find someone in your own area, that's what would be best.
2006-11-25 19:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry this is what happens to online long distance relationships the fade out as soon as one person finds something else to do in their spare time. You were simply a pastime for her. She probibly starting dating someone in real life and you should do the same. Sorry my friend
2006-11-25 19:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is rethinking the relationship. Sometimes long distance relationships are not for all people. It's really hard to not be with the person that you care about and seems that it would be easier if it was over. Or maybe she found someone else that is closer to her.
2006-11-25 19:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by SMARTGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she found something else to do with her spare time. she moved on and so should you.
2006-11-25 19:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋