I am loosing a person that's very dear to me, and the pain that I'm feeling is unbearable. That person prefers not to talk to me for a reason that she says one day she would tell me. She also says that I shouldn't suffer because she doesn't deserve me... But I know that that person loves me. Why would she want to get away from me? I am suffering very much.
2006-11-25 11:19:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There has been a time I have been in the same place as you but ask her straight out her reasons for ending the relationship if the two of you cannot be simply friends. She should be able to tell you and if not.... then you would really need to move on.
Try going out with friends on weekends and meet new people and evidently your pain will ease with time.
2006-11-25 11:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by msraylanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nancy, I've been in your shoes before and I know all too well the physical pain you are feeling in your stomach. Time, and only time, will dull this pain and your suffering. You have to keep telling yourself that it was meant to be and you must go on with your life without that person. I lost someone I truely love over 2 years ago and every now and then the pain comes back, only now, not as often. Try meeting someone else, although you'll never replace that person. And listen to the song "The Dance" by Garth Brooks. It will probably make you cry but it has a powerful message in the lyrics. I wish you well. Contact me if you need support.
Mike
2006-11-25 11:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by mike_in_tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid I know only too well how that feels, when two people love each other and want to be together, but circumstances cause them to choose to be apart.....The heart ache never goes away and you feel you cant go on with out them. You feel there is no more oxygen in the air and you heart would somehow stop beating....Have faith in your love for one another and never give up, and soon you will see that fate will take over and that somehow you will find a way to be together.....
That is the only thing that keeps me going, no matter how much pain I feel in my heart, I still believe we will be together one day....
Never give up on what you truly want, always keep your eyes on the price and just have faith....Good luck....
2006-11-25 11:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says "I dont deserve you" what they are really saying is, "I dont want you anymore but I am too chicken to say that to you". Pain is hard but remember this. They are moving on so you should too. Would you leave someone that you really loved? Hell no. Take some time to feel sadness. But as soon as you feel up to it, get on with your life.
2006-11-25 11:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your pain. All you can do is tell her you are hurting deeply and ask that she tell you sooner than later. We can only guess as we do not know either of you as to why she is pushing you away.
Try to go out with other friends and do some volunteer work to get your mind off of this situation. When you help others out, it helps take your mind off of your troubles. I will pray for you and send hugs your way.
2006-11-25 11:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to this question. You need to give this person space, cuz this is obviously what he or she wants. Only time can mend a broken heart, and I know that isn't the answer you wanted to hear, but its the best I've got at this point.
2006-11-25 11:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by tonka_ny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry you are suffering...i know how it feels and its hard. Maybe she did something to you that she feels will hurt you more and doesnt think she deserves you. Try talking to her about it. Be the first to communicate with her...
2006-11-25 11:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by FotoFan85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get outside help and talk to someone. Maybe a friend or family member..Get out of the house and stay busy with something. Try hanging out with friends, shopping for nothing and getting involved with others...get busy..stay busy and get a grip.
2006-11-25 11:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You're not the first one and you won't be the last. Girls are a dime a dozen.
2006-11-25 11:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she doesn't deserve to talk to you then it means she is guilty of something.
Just go to her and tell her, whatever it is you forgive her
2006-11-25 11:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Owner of the world 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋