Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

mom has full physical custody and dad has joint legal custody. the court order says reasonable visitation per mom. what is reasonable visitation fro dad? the child is 14months old. mom has been the primary caregiver since birth.

2006-11-25 14:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have a lot of relatives staying at our house for Thanksgiving weekend including my cousin, her husband and their 8 yr. old son (my second cousin). Well, she and her husband went out and left their son for me to babysit for the day which I had no problem with. He is so precious!! :) We got to go play with the "baby" sheep and dog in the backyard. Anyways, at sundown my father was having the traditional wine and bread blessing so I gave my little cousin a small cup of wine so he could participate. When his mom came home he came running up to his mom and told her that "Aunt Angel", which he calls me even though I am not his aunt nor my name is angel, gave him some wine. I thought she would be proud of me but she was very angry. She told me they are Primitive Baptist and they do not drink wine and that I shouldn't be giving a child wine. Then she said that they have had enough of our family and were leaving. I started crying and ran into my husband's arms, was I wrong here?

2006-11-25 14:09:37 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-25 14:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by whinniepooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 14:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by booker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost everyone in my grade knows me..... and I talk to most of the grade. But they aren't all my friends. Is it a good thing to just talk to people even though you don't like them all? (this is a serious question...... having to do with my social rank at my school)

2006-11-25 14:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by cciccarella 2 in Friends

we have been seeing each other for about two and a half months we practically live together, but he says he doesnt want to rush into things. I dont want to stay in the friend stage for years what is going on?

2006-11-25 14:08:41 · 8 answers · asked by ms. understood 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by jennie s 2 in Singles & Dating

does anybody have any good quotes or sayings...
like love romance, or friendships??
or like you spend ___ amount of days kissing..
thanks

2006-11-25 14:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by aeiorjklsdjf 2 in Singles & Dating

what kind of body language does a guy give you if he likes you?

2006-11-25 14:07:44 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to have this fetish?
I'm only 17 years old, but i like older women.
I like women ages between 20 to 35.
Is it normal for a male teen to like mature, classy women?

Also, I don't mind dating girls my age it's just i find them boring and selfish.
I want a woman who knows how to treat a man, and wants a mutual relationship, but i only find this characteristic in mature women.

2006-11-25 14:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this "friend with benefits" and he broke up with his GF about six months ago. They were together for 2 years or so and he still has feelings for her. I'm not pressuring him, I'm just there for him but still wish I was the only one for him (or at least the first on the list)

2006-11-25 14:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Curious_£iz 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years popped the question about a week ago. I said yes and I thought we had a plan. We are both college students and we have been looking at several colleges to tranfer to to finish our education. He recenlty changed his major and today I was looking at univeristies on line, I decided to pull up his transcript to see which programs would be easiest for him to transfer into. When I pulled it up I found that After 2 and 1/2 years of school he has only 12 credits and has withdrawn from 12 classes out of the 20 he has been registered for. I haven't talked to him about this yet, but I am heart broken. I try really hard to be honest with him and he obviously hasn't been doing the same. I understand that he doesn't like school but I wish that he would drop out and get a real job but he's not doing anything. Is this a big deal? I know it was wrong to look at his transcript, but I really had our best interests at heart. I am going to see him in a few hours, should I confront?

2006-11-25 14:07:14 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

Does the love of the movies and books really exist? Ever since I was little I have always dreamt of this great love that would be so passionate. Now I'm wondering if that love really exists. Is happiness ever reflected in life as it often is in art

2006-11-25 14:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by tenesha g 1 in Singles & Dating

i know that being with his is a bad idea we only see each other twice a month and call each other maybe 5 times a week he say he loves me & i love him too but i feel like were wasting time what should i do

2006-11-25 14:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by aaaaa 3 in Singles & Dating

Can u all help me i dont know what to do anymore i really love my bf but right now his not my boyfriend but iam giving him time but we gone out like millions of times but i just the fact that he cant forget the past ...and brings it up alot ...everyday and with this past thingy we cant live happy...its been a year 2 month~ what can i do I love him alot but something he can really get me mad and sometimes he gets mad at me for no reason or for such dum reasons...and i even sometimes go to sleep crying :( i dont know what can i do ?about this should i give it another try and see what happens????or move on

2006-11-25 14:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by TriNa 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend broke up like 4 months ago and i honestly think about him everyday and i'm still in love with him and i can't get over him. i thought we really had something goin on and we were workin but just one day i was textin my best friend and he asked to hold my cell phone and i told him no and he obviously took it the wrong way and he thought i was doin stuff behind his back and that day he broke up with me and i was like whatdid i do and he said it's what u didn't do. So now he has a girlfriend and she's so emo and i hate that ***** but what do i do cause i mean i love him so much and yeah i would do anything to be with him again but at teh same time i want so bad to get over him and move on i just don't know how....please help me somebody!

2006-11-25 14:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by lauren d 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has 6 affairs on her husband. Her husband has one and that is with me. I really am truely in love with him but I would give anything for them not to get a divorce but he says she is to pushy and bossy, but she is but this is her marrige I don't know what to do! I am 27 and I am not the cause of the divorce. She does not know of us and she has 6 affairs and he knows of them. They have twins and a year old baby and that is why they are still togeather. He is not thirsty for sex because we have had sex 3 times in one year. And that was me who asked for the sex, not him.

2006-11-25 14:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My "friend" spread a rumor that i was rating girls boobs what should i do.

2006-11-25 14:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by coolio coolster dude boy 1 in Friends

What do you do when your friend who you don't like likes you who hates the friend that you do like who seems to like you?

2006-11-25 14:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by no surprises 2 in Friends

i am the youngest kid in the freshman class, and well since 8th grade i've never felt good about myself. tell me how i sound please. i have curly long hair, greenish-brownish eyes, small mouth, big eye lashes, im 5,6 and 145 athletic and i want to know wat girls outhere think about me answer honestly i have really low self esteem dont know y

2006-11-25 14:04:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or that somebody did to you??
heres mine: (you don't have to read it)
the best revenge i ever got on somebody was my EX-best freind had a date to this dance and she would talk LOUDLY and OBNOXIOUSLY about how he was her "boyfriend" even though their moms set them up (b/c u needed a date to go to the dance) so at the dance there is this rule called NO DIRTY DANCING but of course, everyone was and i did with him, just to piss her off of course and then he got KICKED OUT OF THE DANCE for it and my EX-best friend was pitching the biggest fit at me and it was REALLY FUN!

oh, and it was the same guy my bff (a diffrent one) had a crush on for years, so i never told her i danced with him.
don't critizize me or say i was mean or anything bc that was a long time ago and i have MATURED beyond my years since then...

i'm not going to say the meanest revenge anyone ever got on me :)

2006-11-25 14:04:50 · 4 answers · asked by QWERTY 2 in Friends

me and my cuz were like best friends but ever sens he got a girlfriend it the total opist we fight a lot but he still sticks up for me what do i do

2006-11-25 14:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by cindy d 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my bf's mom. However, she has two dogs who have a very serious flea problem and has decided to do nothing about it. Her house is now infested. I mentioned this to my bf and suggested that he ask his older sisters to help their mom with the dogs (since they live closer than he does) but he does not seemed too conserned. Sorry, but I don't want to go back until this is cleared up. How do I decline a future inviation without offending his mom?


And yes, we tried to tell her about the problem and she got mad at my bf...

2006-11-25 14:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by A M 3 in Singles & Dating

because.....it mostly seems like they want looks and ONLY looks....

2006-11-25 14:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by Eli 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by sunburned 2 in Family

Would you really want that person in your life? What if you have had sex with this person and now he wants a NSA relationship or friends with benefits. More cutious then anything

2006-11-25 14:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are getting really serious but i know im leaving to college in a year and im moving out of state should i end it or see what happens

2006-11-25 14:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am such a failure.i don't belong heredo i..all my freinds have girlfreinds except me, i'm ugly andreally can't take it.lfie sucks at the momment.please someone help me. i considered taking my own life several times, ive seen theropists and stuff and it doesnt help. so many people screwed me over in life. everyone thinks im a joke. please someone can u maybe help me.

2006-11-25 14:00:14 · 15 answers · asked by mike 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been close to my parents as my mother had a lot of mental problems and my father was and is emotionally and mentally abusive. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 1/2 years and I am now pregnant. I have been hurt in the past by both of my parents either leaving me or just being emotionally unavailable and I am scared to death that my boyfriend will leave me. I have always had this fear in the back of my mind but now that I'm pregnant it seems to be more prevalent. How can I get over this fear that he will leave me. I've talked to him and he assures me that he loves me and wants to be with me but I keep thinking that he'll eventually leave. He gets irritated with me but is overall pretty patient with me and my fears. When I bring up the fear of rejection/abandonment issues he says it's just an excuse and a cop-out to not deal with things. I really do want to trust him completely & believe that he'll be there but I don't know how to get past the fear. Any suggestions?

2006-11-25 13:59:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 14 and i hav a 19 yr old bro and a 9 yr old sis!!!My Dad shouts a lot and so do i!!!!Mostly at him!!He is always shouting at my sister and she is his favourite because she just crys and runs to her room or runs to my mum!!!I stand up for her and tel him not to do that to her but this makes him madder and he tells me im givin him back cheek!!!He loves my sister and my brother (he only lives wit us on the weekend)!!!Bt he doesnt like me because i am the only 1 not afraid of him!!!My mum doesnt really get mad at him either!!!I am always the 1 that has 2 stand up for every1 else and tell him that hes wrong but because of this he doesnt lik or care about me!!!He told me that he rathers my little sis!!!!What can i do 2 get him 2 love me???PLZ answer!!!(I no its a long question sorry)

2006-11-25 13:58:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family