i am such a failure.i don't belong heredo i..all my freinds have girlfreinds except me, i'm ugly andreally can't take it.lfie sucks at the momment.please someone help me. i considered taking my own life several times, ive seen theropists and stuff and it doesnt help. so many people screwed me over in life. everyone thinks im a joke. please someone can u maybe help me.
2006-11-25 14:00:14 · 15 answers · asked by mike 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
theres no need to take your life...God loves u...i dont know you but I know you....and i know your not ugly because there is someone out there that you will marry one day and they would obviously think you're good looking. PLEASE don't take your life....i will be praying for you....and from the looks of it you dont seem like a joke you seem like a really nice guy. YOU CAN WORK IT OUT AND ILL PRAY FOR YOU...please dont take your life....God has a purpose for you and you need to seek Him so you can fufill that purpose
In Christ, Ryan
2006-11-25 14:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by RUNnSHOOT. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to find a therapist you like and can stick with. It is someone to talk to every week who will give you the tools you need to get yourself back on track. A therapist only guides you in the right direction, you are the one who needs to take the steps.
I have never in my life seen a person who is really ugly and I am sure you just think and feel this right now because you are depressed.
Life is like a continuing circle and if you don't allow yourself to "go with the flow" you will miss out on some great thing that is just around the corner for you.
Just for tomorrow pretend that you are a cool, very together guy with it all going on. Look in the mirror and see someone going places and today is just the first day of that guys new and amazing life. And go out with a big smile on your face and do not let anything or anyone get to you because you are invincible man. Lot's of time faking it until you make it works.
I wish I had magic words that would make you realize your own worth.
2006-11-25 22:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all: someone always has it worse than you do.
2nd: Taking your own life is selfish and would only hurt the people who love you in the end, and depending on your religious beliefs- you could go to hell.
3rd: People who talk about doing it usually won't
On the bright side:
I assume that you are young, so there is a really good chance you will grow into your looks.
Your friends will have their hearts broken, or be taken for a ride, but when you find someone; it will be real.
Build up some self confidence! Girls aren't attracted to guys with no self esteem.
Time makes life more bearable.
And most of all: Keep your head up! Life does get better... one day you will look back at this time in your life and not believe you could have ever felt that way.
2006-11-25 22:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Crys* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey You are not a failure!! You sound pretty young,dont let so called freinds bring you down. Dont let this moment in your life, take your life.
As far as you being ugly, you might think that it all has to do with your apperance. Well it dosent! Your attititude, and the way that you care for people in your life makes you beautiful!!!
Learn from the ones that srewed you over, learn to be NOT like them. You may forgive them for what they say but dont ever forget.
PLEASE DONT KILL YOURSELF!
You are loved! YOU ARE LOVED!
It might not be by the person that you wish now, but dont take you away from the ones that do love you.
And give others a chance to love you.
Please if you need help call 911.
Someone here cares!
2006-11-25 22:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a gf you are after, no wonder you don't have one with your negativity...stop being a victim of everyone else and get your act together! Happiness is a choice...
Your attitude can enhance your looks. I have been very attracted to guys who most considered to be "ugly"...it was the manner in which they carried themselves that made them desirable. Looks aren't everything...not even close, my friend. I wish you well
2006-11-25 22:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sit there feeling sorry for yourself, or take responsibility over yourself and your life. Suicide is never an answer and is an easy cop-out.
Find out why you feel this way and work on solutions to resolve it. You have something to offer -- you weren't placed here by mistake. Everyone is special and important -- don't sell yourself short.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 22:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by jagthx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one think you are not a failure so get that out of your head
and don't be so hard on yourself, OK your mates may have girlfriends it does not mean that they are any better than you
No one is better than anyone else, you have to start to believe in yourself, for you are the only one who can pull yourself out of this
and believe me its not easy but you can do it ... for i could it so can you, Just remember there is one that will always love you
no matter want and that is Jesus
God bless you
2006-11-25 22:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put your self down... i know what it is to fail, i believe i fail at everything i'm my mother worst kid out of 6... but it gives me something to push for in the future... everyone has something thier good at, and everyone has someone out there thats perfect for them and you'll find that person at the right time... don't think about taking your life, because you honestly don't know how many people you would hurt when your gone... you may think no one cares, but there's always someone out there thats in love with your smile or something about you... you got dealt a shitty hand of cards this time around but that doesn't mean your always going to get a bad hand... Just have hope and good will come to you... i hope everything works out for you... i wish you the best...
2006-11-25 22:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mexican Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know first of all i can tell you this, its your rotten attitude, how do you expect any girl to want to be with that. and, well i know cause ive been there and i know its hard when everyday it gets harder and nothing seems to get you back up. but you need to work on everyday making yourself feel a litte better, its not going to happen over night. it took a long time for you to feel this way, its going to take a long time to get feeling good again. hang in there mack
2006-11-25 22:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by norbet8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that there are people that are way worse of than you. Take up a hobby that has women in it. Like tae kwon do or line dancing.
2006-11-25 22:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋