Would you really want that person in your life? What if you have had sex with this person and now he wants a NSA relationship or friends with benefits. More cutious then anything
2006-11-25 14:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant that people who answered this question should not be under 18. I am sorry if you thought something else.
2006-11-25 17:29:13 · update #1
If you have already been with the person and you have been intimate, shared things with each other, conversations, secrets dinner would you want to go NSA. And for what reason?
2006-11-25 17:32:38 · update #2
Hello:
I've never personally been invovled in a no-strings-attached relationship, but plenty of my friends have and I have been offered that sort of relationship.
First off, I have always declined to enter that type of relationship. I know that I personally could not spend time with someone in an intimate setting and not become attached to them. I suppose it's possible for others, but it just isn't possible for me. I am not typically a jealous person, but I would be extremely bothered if someone that I was seeing was messing around with other girls.
About friends who have been in that situation, nearly all ended up getting hurt. Once one of my friends who was in a relationship like that ended up dating the guy, but it was not really a NSA relationship. They both agreed they would date other people in an effort to not get to serious, however they both ended up not dating other people because they only had feelings for each other. And most of my friends have entered into relationships like this thinking that they can make the guy want to be exclusive with them, which never happens.
Even if you had sex with this person, I would say that a NSA is a cop out for most guys. They get all the physical benefits of being in a relationship, without actually being in a relationship. Granted a girl also get's these benefits. I just have never been one to understand why someone would enter into a relationship like this.
I hope this helps and good luck.
2006-11-25 14:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt feel you are worthy to be his girlfriend, why would you settle for a "no strings attached" relationship with him? Is he God? You call the shots!! Be confident!!! If your comfortable enough and feel thats all your worth or want then go for it.
2006-11-25 14:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by lachocolatreine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people do. I have some dear friends who are beautiful women but they really don't want to marry. They like men. People keep asking them and getting their hearts broken, but they really truly Do Not Like Marriage!
2006-11-25 14:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he got what he wanted and now he wants to move on to other prey I would not trust him NSA he is saying he just wants to lay anything he can good way for HIV or any other STD
2006-11-25 14:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if all he wants to do is be able to have relations with anyone and not just you then that's just plain out an insult. find yourself a man and stay away from the little boys. or just have fun by your damn self cuz you don't need a man.
2006-11-25 14:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he only wants you for that reason than you should tell him to kiss your a--.noone desserves to be just someones bed partner.you could do so much better than that and i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-25 14:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by outlaw_addiction2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you'd date either a hott 18 year old, or your great-great-great-grandfather?
That's quite a range!
And the answer is no.
2006-11-25 14:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is this a question
if it is explain it better
2006-11-25 14:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lidge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋