Can u all help me i dont know what to do anymore i really love my bf but right now his not my boyfriend but iam giving him time but we gone out like millions of times but i just the fact that he cant forget the past ...and brings it up alot ...everyday and with this past thingy we cant live happy...its been a year 2 month~ what can i do I love him alot but something he can really get me mad and sometimes he gets mad at me for no reason or for such dum reasons...and i even sometimes go to sleep crying :( i dont know what can i do ?about this should i give it another try and see what happens????or move on
2006-11-25 14:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by TriNa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to move on. Think about what you have learned. Learn to think well of him in the past. Then move on.
2006-11-25 14:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the way your relationship has been since the beginning,you should know that it isn't going to change. You can't change a person, and you shouldn't want to. Just so you know, no relationship is without its problems. There will always be issues and your partner will occasionally do things that drive you bonkers and you will do the same to them.
The big question is how happy are you in this relationship? You don't sound happy and it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You've done this mess for over a year and it hasn't changed yet... It probably won't. Can you imagine crying yourself to sleep for the rest of your life? Is that what you want?
2006-11-25 22:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best choice, i think is to move on, ur too good for him, if he gets mad at u for dum reasons, he mayb doesn't like you as much. if you really think this answer is impossible, then go ahead and give it another try. but i would say to forget about him because if he leaves you crying to sleep, then he's not being a really good person to you. you might get emotionally hurt or something. and he brings things up you don't like, you can't live happy, do you think you can take this for another few years? or mayb l8r, a rumor might start, and nothing will be good, so MOVE ON!
2006-11-25 22:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Charlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My, aren't you a shambles. Probably should move on, but I have a feeling you will give it another try. Best thing you could do is just go out with another guy to get your mind off of him - it really will work.
2006-11-25 22:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by boogie2510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love him, it will hopefully come natural. Try talking 2 him. He might have the same problems with him. Put yourselve in his shoes and take a walk. @ mons. is a long time but its not forevevr.
2006-11-25 22:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by BIG RED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really think about bcuz its weird he gets mad at u for no reason and no girl should go to sleep crying for a boy
2006-11-25 22:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like if he can't leave the past where it belongs in the past than you just need to leave him alone.would it be that way if the roles were reversed? but you just need to leave him alone and find someone else.
2006-11-25 22:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by outlaw_addiction2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes to short. For a girl it's much better to marry or to be involve to someone that love her than someone to be loved by her. cheer up. jamesyei@yahoo.com
2006-11-25 22:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by jamesyei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be yourself first thang. find something that you really like in him. try to get on his good side always. and if that don't work just move on like TLC say "don't go chasing waterfall..."
2006-11-25 22:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~*tri moving on and if that doesn't work i'm here 4 u
2006-11-25 22:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by rodrigez_mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋