Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

Here is my situation, I am 2 months in a new relationship that is long distance with a guy I really like. We get along very well, great conversation, we laugh, we discuss we debate, all is well. The only thing is that when he gets busy, ie family or friends visiting, he doesn't make the time to call me. If I don't call him we can go two days with out talking. It really upsets me, and I feel that he is being inconsiderate of my feelings. What should I do?

2006-11-25 14:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by Bran 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:56:03 · 15 answers · asked by pinchestarzanadascabron 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy likes a girl and wants to date her what would he normally do?

This guy tells me he likes me and with time he's going to make me see his sincerity and feeling he has for me.

i dont really get it.. or why he'd tell me he likes me because that isnt really doing anything.

what do i do? i hardly know him and im afraid he's just playing around
i dont want to get hurt.. or i dont want to take him seriously if he isnt. i think hes going to get tierd of me if i show him the real me. and if i dont i wont be comfortable. the person i am around him is a way nicer version than the person i actually am

2006-11-25 14:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a close relationship with a girl who I love and care for loads. She says she feels the same. Today she went into a wheelchair which could turn out to be permanent. and know she saying we should only be friends..and I ask her if its cause she dont love me or dont see me as more than friends but she says she does, but wants to be 'alone'?? I've told her a million times her being in a wheelchair doesnt change how I feel for her so why is she saying this if she 'wants to be with me' and still loves me, and yes more than a friend?

2006-11-25 14:55:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:54:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k im talking to this guy i like online now and i need advice so i can flirt with him im having a weird day so i can't think of it myself...HELP!!! what should i say?

2006-11-25 14:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not want to fast, cause that like gains you weight yeah blah blah blah. I excersice like h3ll! I am the fattest skinny girl help

2006-11-25 14:54:08 · 4 answers · asked by Lauren ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I went on a really good date. He even told a mutual friend it was good. I don't see him often and am not into him anymore. I just want to know this info. for future dates. Be honest...
We went out and had an awesome conversation. It was never dull or anything. It was the best convo ever. We had a lot in common. Anyways I didn't really look him in the eyes because I didn't want to put myself out there so I wouldn't get hurt or fall too fast. Anyways we hugged goodbye and he hugged me really tight. Since I didn't make much eye contact, do you think he thought I wasn't interested and decided to blow me off? Or by not creating any eye contact I got put into the friend category and since we went on a date he was scared to pursue a friendship. I tried to make contact so we could be buddies but he never responded.
Thanks a Ton!

2006-11-25 14:53:39 · 8 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Singles & Dating

So there's this dude and he's 17 and i'm 14, he likes me and i like him but i'm not sure if i should be his girlfriend because i'm not sure if he just wants to go out with me for, ya know "sexual reasons", but he says that it doesn't matter if i'm 14 he doesn't want to do anything like that with me and i don't want to do anything like that either, but i'm not sure if i should beleive him or not??

2006-11-25 14:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by Smile :) 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend cheated on me with a MAN (btw im a girl).. and yet after i threw her out.. all of our (well we had the same friends) kinda stopped talking to me.. is it right of them to do that cause i was a bad persone? or am i just a loser for having such friends?

2006-11-25 14:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by Ice-girl 2 in Friends

Help! My little brother (and I) HATES my step-aunt who came for dinner tonight. She's still here. He put Visine Eyedrops in her milk with dinner and he knew she is allergic to Tobasco so he put some of that in her pasta sauce! He also got his hands on some of my mom's Clorox bleach, and put some in her applesauce. No reactions have occured yet, but it's been 5 minutes since she ate. What should I do?!?!?! HELP!

2006-11-25 14:51:41 · 5 answers · asked by Mental Patient 29 3 in Family

This guy I saw for over a year, recently moved away for a job, told me he had to work on some things, but still wants to keep in touch. I'll call or email him here or there, & he's emailed me a few, but I guess I thought the contact would be more consistant, at least once a week or so maybe. I understand he needs to work on things, but how much space do I give him. I've came to the conclusion that I'm not going to contact him anymore, by email or phone. He'll probably wonder why, but maybe that's what he needs to "miss me" or whatever the case may be. So..I was wondering until he might contact me, what are some ways I can release my stress & not worry about the relationship so much? I guess I'm having a harder time than I thought I would.

2006-11-25 14:51:31 · 9 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

Some guy has been showing his "bottom private part" to my sister. He is 33 and she is 12. IS this reportable to the authorities? I just found out she told me yesterday! And her being 12 she is very naive and very well together. She doesnt know anything about men. She thought they were just friends! he even got her to phone him! Should ir eport him for showing his private part to my sister? he knew she was 12!

2006-11-25 14:51:28 · 29 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family

2006-11-25 14:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by Emma H 1 in Singles & Dating

She is troubled and we've worked hard on trying to get her help. She is slowly getting her life together but every once in a while, my husband does something negative, which seems to have a chain reaction of negativity in our household. I'm angry about this, because I'm protective of my daughter and I've bent over backward to get along with his kids, who were grieving their mother when we met.

2006-11-25 14:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okaay. Do most guys prefer the thin girls that look good in jeans and a small waist. I really wanna know why its usually "thin" that makes guys happy... please be honest with mee.

thankss.

2006-11-25 14:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Please help me i want a boyfriend but i been hurt so many times to where i dont trust some guys now and just only got guy friends but i want him to be more than that but i scared of getting hurt again. What should i do yall cause i relyy really do like this guy a whole lot.

2006-11-25 14:49:37 · 19 answers · asked by Dyanna M 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance does not have a close male friend or sibling to ask as a best man. At first I was relieved to not have to pick between my friends (I've been a bridesmaid in 4 weddings) but now I'm regretting having NO wedding party. I don't want him to feel bad- he moves around so much, it's hard to make lasting guy relationships. He has friends though-- how close do they have to be to ask to do best man? Any ideas for creative ways around this? I've considered just asking my best friend to attend but will that draw attention to the fact that he has no one? :(

2006-11-25 14:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by lifestooshort 2 in Weddings

I am now 20yrs old, and have been searching for my father since i was young, but old enough to search for him. i have looked in electrol rolls, written to magazines, tried looking for my father's brother and sister (my uncle and aunt), but have had no luck. He is 42yrs old, (1964) his brother's name is JAMIE, and his sisters's name is KIRSTY MACDONALD. The last time i heard of him, was when my mothers mum mentioned he was going to England- where his mother lived. he had sent cards to my mother (MARGUERITA MACMILLAN) when i was 2yrs old and havent seen or heard of him since. it was partly my mothers fault why he left. my mother doesnt know where he is, and doesnt care. I would like to meet him for the 1st time in 18yrs. If there is anyone out there that knows him or his where abouts, please, answer this. He has a grandson who is 4 months now. if he has another family, i would love to meet them. i am only hoping i will one day meet my father who i have been longing 2 meet my entire life

2006-11-25 14:48:35 · 2 answers · asked by dd_2828_am 1 in Family

okaay. Do most guys prefer the thin girls that look good in jeans and a small waist. I really wanna know why its usually "thin" that makes guys happy... please be honest with mee.

thankss.

2006-11-25 14:48:28 · 20 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 14:46:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 14:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Did it bring you joy? or sadness and pain?

2006-11-25 14:45:48 · 23 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

If you and me were dating. What is a sure way for me to get and keep your attention, in order for you to want to settle down. I am not talking marriage though. Just a serious one on one relationship.

2006-11-25 14:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it better for both of us to stay away from each other ????And if it is better for both of us to stay away from each other will there ever be a chance for us to get back together?I hope so but why?at the end of our relation ship he beat on me and and actually acted as if I were his worse enemy,I did my share of mistakes ,I dont think it was ok for him to beat on me for any reason or even talk bad about me to people, inother words he spoke very bad about me to people {women and men}why is that ?does he hate me?Whats wrong with me why do I want him back?Why d I miss him so much ?Am I that lonely?how can I move on with my life?I cant fall assleep with out him by my side and when I do I wake up reaching out for him...I miss him.Please help me!

2006-11-25 14:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i make meetali samaddar impress she iz my gf??????????????????????????????????????????
girl friend she iz very shy 2 tell me that she loves me

2006-11-25 14:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by sidd.com50 1 in Friends

Ok, I really like this guy.
At first, he was mean to me and
he never knew that I liked him.
Now, He is really nice.
Seriously nice, and I still
haven't told him that I like
him.
What does this mean?
Do I have a chance with him,
or should I move on?

2006-11-25 14:42:47 · 8 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm smart, have a sense of humor, kind, musically talented ( I play french horn), and I like to arrange/compose music. I'm not fat either. Is it that I prefer to listen to classical music such as Holst and Mahler as opposed to stuff like My Chemical Romance? What is it about me that girls just don't like?

2006-11-25 14:42:25 · 44 answers · asked by coolpotatoeslive 5 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and i've never had aboyfriend, i dont think there is anything wrong with me im not ugly or anything and i know there are guys that like me but for some reason ive never been in a good relationship, how do i get myself into one when i like this guy and he likes me or whats wrong with me

2006-11-25 14:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by hbhh 4 in Singles & Dating