my girlfriend cheated on me with a MAN (btw im a girl).. and yet after i threw her out.. all of our (well we had the same friends) kinda stopped talking to me.. is it right of them to do that cause i was a bad persone? or am i just a loser for having such friends?
2006-11-25 14:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by Ice-girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are not a bad person for throwing her out, and you are not a loser because your "friends" have acted this way.
unfortunately, since you and your girlfriend shared the same group of friends, it seems she may have told them an alternate story, one that put YOU in the bad light.
those "friends" probably have chosen to believe her rather than get your side of it.
hope things work out for you.
2006-11-25 16:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by soren 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems she wasn't so much of a girlfriend. I'd bet she had some things to say to your mutual friends also, and you know she said them in such a way as to garner sympathy for her, especially if one of them took her in.
If your "friends" don't know the quality of your character by now, then they weren't close or good friends to start with.
The fact that someone cheated on you or conspired with another person to cheat on you doesn't make you a bad person by any means.
If what you've written is the objective truth, then you're the victim.
I hope you're able to find someone you can build a relationship, and a life with. Best of luck.
2006-11-25 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think, maybe they are the losers for not talking to such a nice person, as yourself
2006-11-25 19:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have stopped talking to you because you done the most natural thing anyone would do in that situation they aren't and never were your true friends.
Move on, find a different group of friends, ones that won't abandon you when you need them most.
2006-11-25 15:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serves you right for being a lezbo
We men know how to treat a lady correctly
2006-11-25 16:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is unfortunate but if i were you then i would move on to better things. you dont suck its just the snobby a** people that you were associating with. dont let them get the best of you.
2006-11-25 15:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋