Ok, I really like this guy.
At first, he was mean to me and
he never knew that I liked him.
Now, He is really nice.
Seriously nice, and I still
haven't told him that I like
him.
What does this mean?
Do I have a chance with him,
or should I move on?
2006-11-25 14:42:47 · 8 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say if you really like the guy, go for it. Nothing lost, nothing gained. He probably changed his tone with you as he got to know you better and likes who he has gotten to know.....Maybe he is thinking exactly the same and doesn't want to make the first move as he realises he wasn't so nice to you from the start and doesn't want the rejection. Good luck.
2006-11-25 14:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dudders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok seriously have u seen that movie with sissy spacek where noone liked her and then this guy started being nice to her all of a sudden and everything was good until she found out what he was going to do to her at the prom and then all hell breaks loose and she goes crazy and stuff ........well im mean take the chance if u want but dont let ur guard down unless u know he really cares for u and not just playing with your feelings
2006-11-25 22:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by zachsmomsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are young. You need to figure out why you like him. Did you like it when he was mean to you? If so, NO! Next you need to figure out WHY. Why has he changed his tune? What is "seriously nice"? What kind of a chance do you want? Is he a "player"? Sorry - there are way too many questions that have to be answered before it can be determined why you want him or even if you should give him a chance.
2006-11-25 22:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by SWF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most young men act like fools.
In order for them to get you to notice them, they will act like total asses. Even be mean towards you to be noticed. Once he is sure you noticed him. that when the play turns more towards kindness.Remember he was tring to get you to notice him, not hate him.
Women on the other hand hold the cards. You can ignore him, or even flirt with him, or even worst tease him.
See if he is will to do some little things for you. If he is, well you can twist him around your finger and have some fun know.
2006-11-25 22:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out, what have you go to lose.It seems 2 me that he liked u and was 2 immature 2 admit it so he resorted 2 the first grade way of dealing with it by being mean to u. Now he has grown up a little and is acting his age. so ask him out. he'd probally say yes and if he doesn't suck it up and get over it. :P jk
2006-11-25 22:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm Carful, he might start being rude again. Never trust a jerk, that pretends to be nice
2006-11-25 22:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!!!!!! Never date a guy that was EVER mean to you. Bad news.
2006-11-25 22:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never know until you stop being shy and talk to him be honest sweety you never know
2006-11-25 22:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋