Why don't girls like me?

Question

I'm smart, have a sense of humor, kind, musically talented ( I play french horn), and I like to arrange/compose music. I'm not fat either. Is it that I prefer to listen to classical music such as Holst and Mahler as opposed to stuff like My Chemical Romance? What is it about me that girls just don't like?

Answer 1

It ain't a matter of why girls don't like you it's WHICH ONES don't like you. Yea i bet someone you thought who was ugly or too big for you didnt' get the time or day with you because you blew them off..and all the gorgeous untouchable females, half out of your league are blowing you off and hence your question. Which I can understand....but because you have a decent personality doesn't mean sh*t in the beginning...unless you know a female by conveniance, aquaintance, or ya'll just somehow ended up bein friends, BECAUSE...they don't KNOW you from first appearance, nor are they psychic. So most the time women are gonna go by looks on first impression, and unless you have some game, or willingness to come up to women with something better than a lousy pick-up line....and an actual inteligent conversation. And granted this is not in some club wit a bunch of fast-***, wild ***...hoes, or stuck-up, whatever the case may be.....more like a casual area, school, cafe, libraries, areas where you'd find more open-minded DECENT women....not open minded to whatever and everything that involves fun women....unless of course that's what you want....which in this case being a kind, smart kind of guy is NOT gonna win them over....maybe learn to be an arrogant jackass that's overly-confident in himself as well as spontaneously fun and THEN those kind will flock to you..ugly, fat, or whatever...a lot of times it just doesn't matter....but if you workout it helps :p.
SO to end my answer, it ain't because of who you are that women don't like you, it's how they PERCEIVE you....they don't know who you are so how can they judge by those standards, it's basically how you look or act from a distance. And observe what women YOU WANT to like you that aren't....look at THEIR character, because if you just want a gorgeous chickenhead, having the qualities explained above ain't gonna nab em. Everyone has personalitities that can wilt or click with yours, just a matter of where you're lookin or where you associate yourself to get in contact with them.

Answer 2

Yay for the french horn!! I was going to play that, but for some reason I didn't... anyway... it seems I had a somewhat similar problem, but then I realized that I was too worried about what other people thought of me. Kudos for listening to the music you like. Being smart is good. The world would be nowhere without people who actually think. Give yourself some time. That's what I'm doing, and even though I'm not in a relationship, I still have the satisfaction of knowing that I will not change for anyone. Some people just don't understand that you don't need to be the same cookie-cutter version of everyone else to be awesome...you can do it with a frenc horn. And for the record, it's not that girls don't like you, it's just that you haven't found the right one yet. Hope I helped! Good luck!!!

Answer 3

Most of these I don't agree with and here my reason why plus before I answer I am by chance not here to so a meaningless argument over someone I don't know .. But the real answer is more complex then it seems . Women do like you all women like you .. We were designed genetically to do so . The problem that lies here is neurological and social constructs .. Filled with advertisements and magazines telling us what we should or should not like . My best advice to you is to find a girl that doesn't think 1rst dimensional where they can't think past a television screen on the wall or a magazine on a shelf you are great just how you are .. Just be more sociable and approach as many women as you can and eventually the right one will fall in love with you just the way you are .

Answer 4

OH... SNAP!!! I know you too 3$#@$#!!! Ok here's the thing. I'm sorry to say it, but most people(unless they have a very very strong interest in classical music), do not find looong conversations about classical music exciting. I mean, most people don't even know who gustav mahler even is. I never heard of him until you told me. Also, try not to get tooooo deep when trying to explain a math problem to a girl. It pisses them off and makes them feel stupid. I think that covers the majority of it. I'll talk more about it on aim in the chat room we're in now.

Answer 5

You sound very similar to me. Only I don't do band and play sports. But I am also smart (I code video games), have a sense of humor, and girls just are repelled by me but I heard that a pretty girl in my class likes me a bit ago and this is how I did it.Just make some basic friends that are girls, get the gossip but just sometimes say "Man I wonder what people think of me?" To them and the thoughts will pour.

Answer 6

Don't worry, we(girls) are sometimes shy and hide the fact that we have a crush on a certain guy. Just because u think girls don't like u, doesn't mean they don't.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Never, and I mean never, let a woman know you like her. Flirt with her a little bit, and then ignore her. She will come after you wondering why you quit flirting. Something to do with nature I'm sure. In humans, men take and women go for men who take. You show some interest, back away, she wonders who else you are after, in turn she can't let that happen.

Letting women think you love them is weakness to them, make them come to you. This is truth and will work for you.

Answer 9

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