Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

I asked this girl out, second six week, but she said that she didn’t like to go out at the beginning of school. but she was still flirting with me. I sent letters saying if she would go out with me, but she would not write back, and one had my phone number, but she didn’t call. Last week, we were talking a test and we were flirting again, the next day I stop flirting with her, but she was staring at me like she wanted me for about all first period. I really really like this girl. Were both 14, both like red, and have lot’s of other stuff in common. I was going to tell her that we should start a new friendship last Monday, but I was sick. Should I still tell that this Monday coming up, do I still have a chance with her. Please give me some tips, advice, and any thing that can help me.

2006-11-24 13:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by jes 3 in Singles & Dating

he acts like he dont care anymore and hes always making excuses to get off the phone, he keeps thinking of excuses to get off then he says he`ll call bac but never does then half the time i end up calling him

2006-11-24 13:51:46 · 21 answers · asked by Loving_This_Time_Around 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy is really nice to me and really cute I met him 4 months ago........And i think I'm falling in Love again.But i have a boyfriend...and I love him to!Someone IM me if you want!Cause I'm having trouble!

2006-11-24 13:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend and her bf have been dating 4 yrs. My friend is 23 and her bf is 26. They also have 2 1 yr old twin boys. He has cheated on her 4 times that we know of. One of the times he even cheated with a guy. My friend has made it very clear to me she cant trust her bf anymore, but yet she keeps telling me she loves him and cant leave him. They also plan on getting married this summer. She tells me all the time I got 2 kids with this guy we need to stay together. Her bf has admited to me that he is addicted too sex and at his sexual peak. Her bf has also told me he needs sex everyday and my friend only puts out at most 2-3 times a week. My friend feels she should not have to put out every time he demands it or says he needs it. My question is why is she staying with him if he cheats so much? Is it a good idea that they are staying together for the kids? How can I help my friend not too hurt so much over this? Is it possible to love someone who has cheated this much on you?

2006-11-24 13:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 13:50:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend sent a text message but when I came up she didn't want me to see it what should I do?

2006-11-24 13:50:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i see my sister and her boyfriend hold on to eachother, and i just feel like that i can't have anyone to hold , as in ( a boy) . i know my sister and her boyfreind , are a couple , i always , try and not think about couples , together, i want to know , if there , is someone that i can hold, , JUST TRY AND HELP ME!

2006-11-24 13:49:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mom is drunk, shes home alone with me and my brother, im 13 and my bro is 10. Right now her best friends is over(not drunk) and her bestfriends boyfriends(not drunk). This is not the first time she is buzzed alone with us. I need help. Should i call my dad(parents are seperated) and he lives 10 min away. Should i call him and have him pick us up or let her falll asleep. My whole family knows she has a problem and they are all very supprtive and say call them if u have a problem. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!

2006-11-24 13:49:29 · 30 answers · asked by harry rav 2 in Singles & Dating

what store can i look at, and around how much do they cost?

2006-11-24 13:48:58 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone taught or told you something that you wouldn't forget?
you could give details but please no essay...

2006-11-24 13:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by simon says 2 in Friends

and I do not have a problem with her going (every night)
I do have a problem with her 'lableling' me cause I drink beer. She started going to the group because of her control issues and she is labeling me as an alcoholic casue I drink once and a while (just beer). I mean fine, I am an alcoholic if it makes her happy but I do not like that she goes to meetings where there are people who are really having a problem with a loved one cause of booze. It is not the same. Since she started going to meetings she 'lets go' of all control which is ****** up as it affects our kids and the way we get things done. Letting go-to me -means not being responsible for your life. UNLESS you are with an alcoholic in which case **** THE BASTARD and all rules apply. Gloves are off. But there needs to be a differentiation between these people and myself. It is just not fair and is a cop out. I would welcome sane responses to my problem and not like dribble such as what my wife gives me. C

2006-11-24 13:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by artguy90291 2 in Marriage & Divorce

While I was there he kept trying to get of with me and even made me get him off while my friend and his mum were watching tv in the same room! I wanted to do this but I'm not sure if it's for the danger or cos I'm really into him. Cos I never got to kind of finish him off, he seemed tetch, then I had to leave. Is that how guys would be if they were turned on by someone who didn't finish?

2006-11-24 13:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 13:47:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 38 and he's 56 and married. We both love each other immensely. We've tried to break it off a month after we started and have never been able to do it. He finally told his wife 3 months ago and he left but had returned home 2 days later with an anxiety attack and he says he can't live without her. When he moved back in, he couldn't stand to be without me. Anyway this has happened 2 times and he is living with a friend now. But he went away with her this week to visit his family. I am so hurt but I Love him. I do not know why I can't break away from him. I need some hop.

2006-11-24 13:47:20 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do about a trouble teen who does not want to get her life straighten? She has had intervention for 3 months and now she is back to the same person she was before she went. She is disrepectful, does drugs, hang out with wrong group of people and doesnt have respect for herself. I have hung in there with her for almost a year and now I am at the end of my ropes, and I am in an emotional wreck and dont know what else to do. I am her mother.

2006-11-24 13:47:06 · 14 answers · asked by dollface_1965 2 in Family

Okay, I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow and I want to talk to him about this but I thought maybe some of you guys could help me out first...
My friend and my boyfriend hate eachother and its putting a lot of stress on me, so much where I'm depressed all the time and just feel horrible. I love my boyfriend so much and I dont want to lose my friend either but if they dont find a way to get along, I might just say goodbye to both of them.... please help me. I dont want it to come down to that, I just dont know what to do....

2006-11-24 13:46:53 · 5 answers · asked by camm300 4 in Friends

2006-11-24 13:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-24 13:46:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so there's this guy that I really really really really like...I would say love, but my mom just says it's lust. My friend says I'm OBSESSED with him, and...she asked him if he liked me and he said he kinda likes me...I want to ask him out, but he always talks about other girls that he likes...should I ask him out, or should I wait, and try to get him to like me...what do guys look for in girls???
***I have yahoo messenger and my name is tayrose93 or tayrose93@yahoo.com so please answer this question...*** Thanks!!!

2006-11-24 13:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by tayrose93 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy I liked told me that my independence made me unattractive (all I did was NOT ask him to help me move some furniture). Why would a guy who likes me say that?

2006-11-24 13:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by volkgal 4 in Singles & Dating

i moved to egypt a while back and i havent found anyone i really like until recently. i started chatting with this guy online (uni forum) and i got along with him quite well plus i found him very attractive. i've been thinking about him more and more and now i cant stop. i wasnt sure if he liked me or not and i was actually thinking about asking him flat out, which isnt something i usually do, b/c i have very low self-confidence. Luckily before i did said anything, we recently talked and it somehow came out that he said i wasnt his type, appearance-wise. i'm also very self-conscious so that really crushed me. now idk what to do. should i keep talking to him, go for a platonic relationship, or should i just forget it? or should i keep trying, in the hopes that he'll eventually like me too? i'm really confused and i dont have anyone to talk to. i'm a mess right now, and i dont want to get hurt anymore

2006-11-24 13:45:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does she really love me? i dated her for already 14 months. she told me if you wanna have s...x with me u first buy for me a celphone...but she knows well that i am only a student. we had it but she run with my celphone and the little money that i have in my pockets... i almost cried bcoz i thought she knows my situation. she is in her own country but me i am foreign. she sould be the one to help me. does she really love me?

2006-11-24 13:45:19 · 40 answers · asked by lionceau 1 in Friends

My parents are divorced and my mother is constantly telling me to tell my father a message. I hate being the messenger but I'm afraid of my mother. What should I do?

2006-11-24 13:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by camille_897 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you are spending the night with a friend what shoudl you do if they get sick and neihter of your parents are home

2006-11-24 13:44:45 · 7 answers · asked by kdm 2 in Friends

Well Ive just gone to Camp.....Well it was fun.
The thing is that im Filipino and the guy that I like is American.....Well I think he likes me too because if im with my Guy mates Hes friend and him keeps on checking what am I up to? And its really funny when I was sitting on the lap of my Friend the guy that I like looks at me like hes mad at me. And yesterday while he was sitting beside his friend .... i think they were talking and when me and My m8 sit infront of them....he stopped talkig to his friend....Do you think hes shy?

And while I was at the canteen....going to get a water.....this guys just yelled at me.....Do u want to go out with this guy called Anand? and i said no!!! but then The guy that i like was watching me and like staring at me weirdly....

How can I Make him to like me? And How can I get to talk to him?
Thanks

2006-11-24 13:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by sw3tchix17 1 in Singles & Dating

At middle school, we didn't get any homework or anything, it's practically one of the worst middle school in New York, called Seth Low. And there was this girl , that i fell in love with, but never ever told her or anything. So I went to like the second or third best high school, Brooklyn Tech and she went to a regular school , Madison. So she went out with my old friend, that I had been friends with since second grade, but she dumped him , because I told her that I liked her. But now I cannot do anything, since my amount of homework requires me to stay at home all day long. It's pretty sad, with this school, it's not even worth becoming a doctor if you ahve to go through this school. So what should I do, Go be with her and screw my education and stick it up my ***? Go on with my pointless life? or manage both somehow?

2006-11-24 13:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i smoke 4 to 6 pack a day or malboro full flavor.,,,,, mmmmmm.....tastyness!!!!! what do u smoke & howe muchs??

2006-11-24 13:43:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

...or even people who are currently married?

2006-11-24 13:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by funnyrob01 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay ladies Im a relatively attractive guy, with VERY ticklish feet and sides, why do ALL the girls I know like to tickle me?? Is it some kind of weird power trip?? Just yesterday 3 of my female friends pinned me down and dusted my toes with a make up brush until I nearly peed myself. Any advice on why they wont stop tickling me?

2006-11-24 13:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by docboom2386 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now thares boy trouble, school is so stressful and no one in my family respect me what do you do to stay happy I'm really not a morbid person thats why I need your help!!!!!!

2006-11-24 13:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Puerto Rican Sweetheart 2 in Singles & Dating