Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

I've known this girl for 9 years. She just recently got a new boyfriend. They haven't been dating for even a month and she's chosen him over me. She says I've changed and she hates the new me. I love the new me. But this guy she's chosen. Everyone calls him a manwhore & and stalker. I hate him. He's a jerk. He even tried to get this one girl to break up my current boyfriend & I. She doesn't believe anything I tell her about him but goes and blabs it to him and then I have to deal with it later. Any help please? Just leave her? We've had so many wonderful times together.. but i can't help but think i should move on.

2006-11-24 14:36:50 · 4 answers · asked by small one 2 in Friends

she writes notes to remember ****..... when she gets mad she beats him up...... should he kick her to the curb

2006-11-24 14:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

The boy I like says he wants to .r.@.p.e. me. I want to go out with him but after he said that i'm not so sure? What do I do.

2006-11-24 14:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is 45 yrs old, having three children, and looking for a prety and loving woman who can explore and be explored emotionaly and physicaly (not financialy) because his wife has failed to do so.

2006-11-24 14:34:51 · 12 answers · asked by loveboy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband with all my heart. But he is constantly asking for sex. And when I say no, he gets soooo mad. I have gotten better to where we do it about 3 times a week, sometimes more. We do have 2 kids, which makes it diffuclut at times. And when we aren't messing around he has his collection. Of about 2dz dvds and 3dz vhs. Is it me or does he really have a problem??HELP!

2006-11-24 14:34:11 · 26 answers · asked by scbyzgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would it be appropriate to wear a saree at a western wedding/reception?

2006-11-24 14:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by angel_gyal4ever 2 in Weddings

hi all,
i mainly want to know if anyone's in a relationship right now that is "blooming" but brief infidelity has occured in the past. (preferably answers non-married couples..., and perhaps young couples) but share anyways!
here's my situation...

i'm 19 and i just found out i'm pregnant, after my partner and i found out i was pregnant, he later confessed to me he cheated on me on 2 occasions, with the girl he left for me, we've also had a lot of fights and so i think that contributed to his cheating. he made out with the girl on 2 different occasions, apparantly they didn't go farther. he admitted that it was because he still cares about her and said he's sorry and he told her about what happened with us and that they won't speak to eachother again (she said she doesn't want to anyways) do you think i can trust him? we've only been together for 4 months....

2006-11-24 14:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by aphaea 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean the offical 'goodbye' i just mean leaving after a date or something.
I'm going out w/ this guy in 2 days and after our dates i've noticed its pretty tough to just say 'bye' or 'see ya' and end it right there.
I love hugging this guy, but i dont think he's quite comfortable with it just yet.
I do want to kiss him afterwards, but idk. We've only been seeing eachother for a couple weeks now.
How should I say 'see ya' without feeling guilty of not doing anything or feeling unsatisfied?

2006-11-24 14:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by <3 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to know i am 14 and just moved and i am not that pretty... ( i dont think) so what do i do for him to get to like me and ask me OUT?
I need a lot of help

2006-11-24 14:30:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we work in this office, and I happened to notice how different she is from other girls, and I like that. I've dropped her a few hints that I'm interested in her, and I'm pretty sure she knows that I'm interested, but how can I tell if she's interested in me? I hardly get to talk to her, we just say Hi sometimes and make very, very small talk, I hardly know her, but I know she's single (from a friend of hers) ... I asked her for her email and she gave it to me. She's a nice girl, and I want to get to know her. ( So if you're a shy girl ... would you even make an effort to show him that you're interested ?)

2006-11-24 14:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married 14yrs.my wife and I are in our early 30's.shes found some younger guy whos 25yrs old on the internet thats already been divorced and she says she loves him.she was up north came back home and I came home to an empty house she just picked up and left.I have given her affection ,never abused her in any way and supported her in every way in life.I am in love with her.should I just give up already?why would your spouse want to hurt you so deep?that guy knows she's married and has 2 kids and tells her he understands and doesnt care if shes married and has 2 kids.is he trust worthy?I'am in dismay.

2006-11-24 14:29:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 14:28:49 · 30 answers · asked by Someone who cares 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 14:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend&& I are in 7th grade.
His older cousin is in 8th grade,and doesn't want
my boyfreiend & me to continue dating.In fact,he dislikes me so much he threatened to beat up my boyfriend (but he had a few more explict words,that i'm sure you don't want to here)So,me && my boyfriend pretended to break up,as long as his cousin would get out of his crip gang.I am considering dumping him because I really don't want him too get hurt,and we've been friends longer than going out.
What should I do?

2006-11-24 14:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by Gangsterlicious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 14:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 14:27:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girl I grew up close to in my neiborhood, havn't seen her in forever, but now we go to the same college. Now I catch her staring at me, but the weird thing is, when I catch her, she dosen't look away. What does this mean? I'll tell you one thing, CREEPY! You'd think she would look away once I caught her staring at me. I've been complemented on my eyes quite a bit, and think they are my best feature, maybe she just likes for our eyes to meet? Or maybe I did something so unspeakably horrible that her burning hatred towards me consums her? I'm a pretty nice guy, so I don't think that's it. It's not like I'm egging her on, I only look for a second or two, then look away. We were never really friends, don't think it is necessary to catch up...

2006-11-24 14:26:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls tell me i wana know if im still good ur should kiss the first girl i see monday lol

2006-11-24 14:26:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

. . . i have been having a relationship with a couple on myspace for 3 months now and they want me to come over tom. im really scared becuase im still a virgin and i dont know what they want to me do. i am willing to lose my virginity becuase im in that stage in my life but is it a good choice to do it with a couple??

2006-11-24 14:24:45 · 11 answers · asked by redrik_w 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. so tomorrow is our high school playoff football game, and my parents are letting me drive to the game, the catch is that i have to drive with somone. and i don't want to go by myself i would def have someone go with me. So, I asked my friend if she wanted to come, then she automatically with out asking, invites her boyfriend, and this is some guy that is like 3 years older than us, and i have never met this guy. and i didn't want him to go with us. so i told her that my mom said that he couldn't come. so i told her and now she is telling me that she won't go unless he goes, and i can't go unless she goes. what do u think i should do?

2006-11-24 14:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by laura222 1 in Friends

2006-11-24 14:24:21 · 25 answers · asked by gdeach 3 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone recommend any great dating sites that they have tried, do they even work or is it a waste of time? Any are there any good ones for free?

2006-11-24 14:23:43 · 0 answers · asked by question 2 in Singles & Dating

there both so cute but 1 is really shy and the other is not at all shy

2006-11-24 14:23:16 · 17 answers · asked by emilie_sisson 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been dating for about 7months and i love him to death. I want to buy him something special this christmas, something fun, something cool. He is only 20 so he is still a big kid at heart. He loves video games and music and movies but i want something to get him that he will really like.

2006-11-24 14:22:20 · 6 answers · asked by nikkilanger 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 14:21:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

pleeze help me i dont know how i can get along with my mom and not want to totaly scream at her all of the time!!!!!!!!????????

2006-11-24 14:21:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay i know im not the prettiest girl but honestly i dont look that bad, im just not gorgous. My mom tells me im ugly that i dont fit in with other people, that i dont have friends that ther only beautfiul part on me is my armpitt cause i was saying that i dont have hair down there. like wdf did she ever care about how i feel? i mean im only not perfect because of her, she ***** made me i didnt choose how i looked you know. It really hurts how the person who is serpose to support me and understand me is the person that hurts me. I cant tell her when im not okay because she'll just say something shitty to me that will hurt. You know what i cant stand when people tell me im ugly or they say crap about it, i just burst into tears. I am crying right now. I cant take it, no one helps no one makes me feel beautful or loved, almost everyone i meet at school are fake and two faced. I really cant help it that im not perfect, im not normal like everyone else, i feel so different. i dont fit in.

2006-11-24 14:20:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A fellow poster here asked if she should be suspicious of her husband playing online poker with a particular female online person. Everyone jumped and said "he's probably cheating! kick him to the curb!"

I'm online a lot. Usually here or on another message board. Yeah it's a great life but I'm not doing anything wrong. At the same time, I don't like it when my guy gets into "what are you doing" online. I'm not looking at porn, I'm not chatting with any men, I'm just here reading. I've chatted with men online and played many games with men online. Some are funny as hell. I've had a lot of fun. But I'm not breaking any laws doing it and I'm not cheating! Why are we so quick to jump on some guy's case because he plays a lot of online poker - with women?

Marriage is a matter of picking your battles. If her husband is a good man otherwise, I don't see why he shouldn't have fun online playing poker. Only if it interferes with their marriage would it be a problem.

2006-11-24 14:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never had a boyfriend before, am I too scared too go out or ask, or what? Because, I'm confused.

2006-11-24 14:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by All I need is you 2 in Friends

i like to hear other peoples stories because it brings back memories

2006-11-24 14:20:34 · 12 answers · asked by boricua chick 2 in Singles & Dating