My boyfriend&& I are in 7th grade.
His older cousin is in 8th grade,and doesn't want
my boyfreiend & me to continue dating.In fact,he dislikes me so much he threatened to beat up my boyfriend (but he had a few more explict words,that i'm sure you don't want to here)So,me && my boyfriend pretended to break up,as long as his cousin would get out of his crip gang.I am considering dumping him because I really don't want him too get hurt,and we've been friends longer than going out.
What should I do?
2006-11-24 14:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by Gangsterlicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been through something similar last year,and it ended up in an all-out fight between 3 guys.
I Know this is making me out to look like a slutface or a troublemaker,but really i'm not.
2006-11-24 14:33:23 · update #1
to awnser your ?LIZ,I know im not all in love with him.sure we kiss an joke around alot,but I know when i've fallen for a guy.he's sweet and I wanna stay with him,but i've been in more serious relationships before.
Hehe.
Sounds like a lot for a middle schooler.Not really.
2006-11-24 14:40:22 · update #2
Sounds like too much drama for me...
You're young...let it go...
2006-11-24 14:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how family can be a royal pain sometimes. If I were you I would just stay friends with the bf. Work on getting though school and college first before getting to involved with the boys. Go out but as friends! You will have less stress and more fun that way. I hope that helps a bit.
2006-11-24 14:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation. ... How much do you like your boyfriend? do you love him? you are only in the 7th grade and trust me he may seem importnat but there are LOTS of guys out there! Highschool is a whole new pool of guys swimming around ready to be hooked. But if you really really like this guy...... stay with him... Just.... wait for him.... go on a break until his cousin shapes up or his cousin goes to highschool. Think about this..... Romeo and Juliet do you like him that much?? if so then tell him you guys should be " close friends" friends with benefits when his cousin isn't around..... until times shape up then u guys can be lovers and nothing will tear you a apart. There is the option of dumping him but in all honesty you shouldn't break things off with him totally because it isn't his fault and it's not fair to him. If you still like him and your dumping him becuase of his cousin thats unfair.... Just talk about things logically with him for a while and ask to go on a break friends with benefit kind of things until things shape up..... goodluck!
2006-11-24 14:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His cousin sounds like a fool and will not listen to reason. Try to just remain friends with your boyfriend and keep your distance so that you can bothstay safe.
2006-11-24 14:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by mango227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something like that happened only that my cousin 3yrs older than me we fight i got my eyes pretty bad hurt but i dont use glasses i can see perfectly but my cousin i knocked 5 of hes teeth he then accepted us
2006-11-24 14:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....... no dude would tell me and my girl friend what to do!..... He would be to busy counting some star's...... Try to stay out of the guy's way,....... that way, if he end's up with a broken nose, cheek, and teeth,.... it'll be his own fault!
2006-11-24 14:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick wit him, and if he comes at your man, then make a couple of phone calls...like 911...
2006-11-24 14:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him how you are concerned for his safety , and since you care about him so much you dont want him hurt so you want to do your best to stay away. he might understand or might just want u closer :)
2006-11-24 14:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by yourgirl11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if ANY members of the family in contact with ur bf are in a gang...START RUNNING IMEDIATLY!
2006-11-24 14:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up but just do what you think is best for your relationship
2006-11-24 14:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋