OK. so tomorrow is our high school playoff football game, and my parents are letting me drive to the game, the catch is that i have to drive with somone. and i don't want to go by myself i would def have someone go with me. So, I asked my friend if she wanted to come, then she automatically with out asking, invites her boyfriend, and this is some guy that is like 3 years older than us, and i have never met this guy. and i didn't want him to go with us. so i told her that my mom said that he couldn't come. so i told her and now she is telling me that she won't go unless he goes, and i can't go unless she goes. what do u think i should do?
2006-11-24 14:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by laura222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't drive- it's not worth the headache. Just go with your friends and have fun, leave the car at home. It'll be much safer anyway. Believe me- you don't want to be responsible for the car with a girl and 2 boys, one of whom is much older. I think if you told your parents of this decision, they'd see how mature and reasonable you were.
2006-11-24 14:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you want him to come? Just cause he is older doesn't mean he is a bad person. And while she shouldn't have asked him to go without talking to you, sometimes people in a close realtionship have this whole if he goes I go thing. they think that it is natural for them to do everything together and that everyone else thinks it is natural too. it could be a good thing having him along, keep an open mind. but if the guy is creeepy and you really don't want him to come, tell your friend that he can't go in your car, end of story. if she sticks with it, invite someone else.
2006-11-24 22:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by schoolgirl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i know you really wont her to go but if she is saying that see wont go if he is not there then you should find a new friend because she just chose a guy that she will prob not be with that long over you
2006-11-24 22:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go your just going to a football game
2006-11-24 22:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Gurl Power 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask someone else to go? Someone who doesn't invite other people without your permission.
2006-11-24 22:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk this over with your parents ! they made the rules on this one . I would tell her not to bring him along ! she should have asked first !
2006-11-24 22:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should invite another close friend that`s not inviting anyone
2006-11-24 22:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by tinkwindchaser 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask some of your other friends to accompany you
2006-11-24 22:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by VEDIO LAND 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her and invite someone else you can actually trust.
2006-11-24 22:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋