My best friend and my boyfriend hate eachother?

Question

Okay, I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow and I want to talk to him about this but I thought maybe some of you guys could help me out first...
My friend and my boyfriend hate eachother and its putting a lot of stress on me, so much where I'm depressed all the time and just feel horrible. I love my boyfriend so much and I dont want to lose my friend either but if they dont find a way to get along, I might just say goodbye to both of them.... please help me. I dont want it to come down to that, I just dont know what to do....

Answer 1

I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!

Answer 2

Your needs come first.

I might be best if you don't see them both at the same time but do things with each one without the other. They are probably jealous and that's their problem. Let them know that you refuse to discuss the other person or to hear their complaints aboout them...you are spending time with each one and giving your full attention in that moment.

If they cannot respect you, then take a break for a bit. Each time they start to hassle you or bring up the other person, remind them that the other person isn't there. If they annoy you too much, stop hanging out all together.

Answer 3

well u doing good talk to both of them one on one. i done been in plenty relationships like that so i know exactly how u feel. well there isnt much u can do. Just talk to them one on one each explain to your boyfriend that that is your friend and she is gonna continue being your friend while u and him is together and even if u and him is not she is gonna still be there. as for her tell her that u really love him and u not giving him up he makes u happy and that should be enough to make her like him because he makes u happy tell her that she is still your bestfriend but she is just gonna have to deal with it because u are in love!

Answer 4

Ey happens to me, i presumed my lady pal's pal wanted to interrupt us up. I texted the pal and scolded her a *****. And in spite of everything that, i found out that i substitute into fake impact the pal, so I texted her asserting that i'm sorry for questioning in one in all those way that hurts the two my gf and the pal. and because then, each thing substitute into ok. 1st - attempt to tell your boyfriend approximately your ultimate pal that she's not doing something to interrupt him(if it somewhat is a certainty) 2d - communicate with ultimate pal approximately what she somewhat had to understand third - try taking the two one in all them out for a dinner or something, something respectable, something which will make human beings experience chuffed. so they'd communicate with a minimum of one yet another with out battling, it somewhat is with the presence of you. 4th - Ask them the two to end being so immature XD

Answer 5

just tell ur bestfriend that u really love ur bf and u also du1 to lose her..say to ur bestfriend that u are so care about ur friednship with ur bestfriend..and hope she will accept ur boyfriend as her friend too...just tell her honestly wht u feel....if u feel on cry in front of her..just cry..express ur feeling out...no need to be scare..if she really treat u as her bestfriend,as soon she also will accept ur bf as her friend..goodluck!!