he acts like he dont care anymore and hes always making excuses to get off the phone, he keeps thinking of excuses to get off then he says he`ll call bac but never does then half the time i end up calling him
2006-11-24 13:51:46 · 21 answers · asked by Loving_This_Time_Around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i dump him?
2006-11-24 14:07:20 · update #1
he got someone else baby? been there, done that.
2006-11-24 13:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nov: He's has grown tired of you. He's had his fill of sex from you and has moved on to the next "conquest". You will have to realize that everything you do has a consequence to it. Some consequences are good and the others are plain, bad - and hurt! Learn from this experience and don't do it again - especially with the next guy who walks into your life. We experience "pain" in order to tell us that something is not right. Since it is not right, it is wrong and needs to be changed (righted)!!! Move on now, with your life. Good luck to you.
2006-11-24 22:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something's bothering him, i think you should give him time, he'll call you when he's ready but if it's more then a week call him, ask him what's wrong and tell him that you would rather know the truth then have him be upset about whatever. if he still says nothing then you need to trust him and ask if he just needs his space, but dont push it, pushing it makes things worse alot of the time.
if he's ignoring you thats pretty crappy and no one should stay in a relationship like that, the way i delt with my bf when he was doing that is i asked him if he's happy, but our relationship was long distance, we still are amazing friends... we broke up because of distance but since i asked him about his feelings and made a point of making sure i knew how he felt he felt so great about me he said he needs me still... it's hard for me cause i still really love him but he lives in Idaho and i live in SC....
but making sure its known to him you want the best for him in the best way for him to open up.
i hoped i helped at least a little! best of luck!
(if this goes on remeber you desirve better)
2006-11-24 22:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by sXe... try it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shame you having a rough time with him, perhaps you shoudnt call him back as he is getting to see that you are the one doing all the chasing, if he does it again dont call him back leave it for as long as you can even a day or more - it will be hard i guess but he needs to learn a lesson that he cant mess you about.
Expain to him what you have told us and find out exactly how he feels - dont let him treat you like a bit of muck of the end of ur shoe as that what it sounds like and hope it works out for you ok
2006-11-24 21:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
chances are he's gettin bored and doesnt like u anymore but cant find the words to dump u
talk to him about it IN PERSON and talk about having a break from each other for a couple days
see his reaction and then go from there
also if this has been happening alot he might be cheating on u
if he's not that type of guy.....4get what i said
2006-11-24 21:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by ☼tough lil cookie☼ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is trying to hide something from you.. like he probably making excuses to talk to his other girl on the other line of the phone but who knows???
2006-11-24 21:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by sexygirl4adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your guy is acting like he doesnt care he probably wants to see other people. talk to him. sit him down look him in his eyes with compassion and say"baby whats the matter. are you okay? are you not happy with me? because i am feeling that you dont care about me anymore. i dont want to keep guessing about us so can we get everything out in the open right now please?" if he then explains and it comes down to him saying he wants to break up then you should just move on. life is too short to be worrying about just one guy. there are others out there who will care about you just as much as this guy. so good luck with this.
2006-11-24 21:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is done with the relationship and don't know how to tell you or have not gotten up enough courage to tell you.
Test him. Don't call him at all. Wait for him to call you.
Don't wait to long. Start looking for another boyfriend.
2006-11-24 21:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him
imvho and in personal experience when a guy acts like this...he wants out. guys dont talk, they hide away
2006-11-24 21:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by cazkenton2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid that it is a sign of....a sad thing i guess...i dont wan to hurt anyone's feeling here...but, according to your answer, i really think that he's trying to avoid you, no certainty in my answer tho, just my thought.
i guess what yoou should do is ask him out to talk this things out and settle it....its better to do it now rather than getting things busted later...
2006-11-24 21:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by kachengz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, he's cheating on you!. You are pretty blind if you can't see that! Trust me, I'am a guy. That's how we let a girl know that we are not interested in them.
2006-11-24 21:56:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋