At middle school, we didn't get any homework or anything, it's practically one of the worst middle school in New York, called Seth Low. And there was this girl , that i fell in love with, but never ever told her or anything. So I went to like the second or third best high school, Brooklyn Tech and she went to a regular school , Madison. So she went out with my old friend, that I had been friends with since second grade, but she dumped him , because I told her that I liked her. But now I cannot do anything, since my amount of homework requires me to stay at home all day long. It's pretty sad, with this school, it's not even worth becoming a doctor if you ahve to go through this school. So what should I do, Go be with her and screw my education and stick it up my ***? Go on with my pointless life? or manage both somehow?
2006-11-24 13:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Become a doctor. Then all the girls will want you.
2006-11-24 13:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say that you can manage both. You wouldn't want to throw away an education would you? Think about it - let's say you screw your education and go out with her, but after a year you guys are fed up with each other and don't date anymore. You would lose a year of your life and lose a year of education.
Just try to your best to MAKE time for one another. Know that studies and grades come first, and spare time can be spent with each other.
And if you're becoming a doctor, congratulations, it's a very rewarding occupation.
I know how you feel....like school isn't worth it anymore. But trust me, it is. Just think when you're 35 years old with a nice house, car, and great family.
2006-11-24 21:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and there are many other girls. Not to say that the one that you are into at the moment isn't worth it...but if you are inspiring to do something with your life then it is best that you put your education first. If you can juggle both, then more power to you. I recommend moving on and studying, getting the good grades and getting done with the hard stuff. Dating will always be around. Time and education can go hand in hand. Educate, then worry about the pretty girls...
2006-11-24 21:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by MIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, and your girlfriend now will probably not end up your life partner. On the other hand, your education now will have an impact on the rest of your life.
Actually I would recommend spending some time with the girl, but doing enough work to get decent grades.
You do not have to get into the most prestigious college in order to have an excellent career. You have to get into a decent college. So, make education your priority but also have some balance.
2006-11-24 21:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably dump you sooner or later. If you are a doctor you can get alot of other women.
Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?
2006-11-24 21:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Manage both somehow. Your education is much more important. Go out once in a while and do great in school.
Would you want a doctor doing anything with you if they said screw my education. I'll just wing it.
Your life isn't pointless.
2006-11-24 21:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you think will be best in the longrun you seem smart dont let a little crush get in the way of ur education ps docs get the cash and the girls.
2006-11-24 21:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Gurl Power 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER screw your education for anyone. It doesn't matter how beautiful she is or how well she treats you.
I say you let her know what your situation is. If she likes you, she will work with you in terms of making time to see her. If not, she is not worth it.
2006-11-24 21:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by jorge01232000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think first is school but it will also be preetty nice if u were some time whith her
2006-11-24 21:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by ha ha ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should worry about education
2006-11-24 21:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋