Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

My b/f and I have lived with one another for 6 years now. We have had problem after problem with one another. He is very much into women, and loves to drink. That combo has caused more fights than I would care to remember. Tonight, I sit here, by myself, and he is out. I don't know if with another woman or what, but its nearly midnight, and he's still not home. (He left at 2 pm this afternoon.) But I know he's at a bar somewhere. Thats a given!
I do love him, and I am trying to be understanding, but it seems as if we are forever in a "state of transition" where he is concerned. He hasn't given me any kind of feed back on commitment, or taking this to the next level. We just exists when he chooses to come home. Thats no life for me ... I want more.
I feel so worthless right now. This is breaking my heart ...
When is enough finally enough? And when is it ok to say "I've given all I have to give ... there is nothing left for you?"

2006-11-22 15:38:32 · 33 answers · asked by á?¦â?¥á?¦Ceciliaá?¦â?¥á?¦ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 15:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by kelkkie3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've grown really close to this girl over the last few months and we get on really well, and she's the first thing I think of before I go to sleep and wake, and she's on my mind a lot through out the day. I have this overwhelming feeling of caring about her it's like the way she feels about herself and her happiness are so important to me, because if I know she's ok I'm ok, if she's not I am not. Recently she's been going through a tough time and it feels like being there for her through it all isn't enough I just want to go throught it for her so badly!
I know I love her, I've never had this feeling before it's really weird, same for her, she says she loves me too. I'm only 22 but also not that experienced with close relationships, it's all new to me, I'm so close to her. It's like jumping into the deep end of a swimming pool when you'e learning to swim. As anyone had that with someone and lost it? The thought of losing her scares me, even though I have no real reasons to lose her.

2006-11-22 15:37:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a very small wedding with just my fiance and me there. No bridesmaids or groomsmen...what would be something cute to hold the rings before we exchange them, since we won't have a ring bearer pillow or anything, instead of letting the officiant hold them or putting them in the groom's pocket..our photographer's portfolio shows that he takes "anticipation" pictures(still images of items before the wedding like the dress and shoes before the bride puts them on) of the rings on the pillows and I want something creative and cute for the picture....I don't know HELP!

2006-11-22 15:36:34 · 17 answers · asked by craigsgirly47 1 in Weddings

for about a year now I have been in love with a guy I met last october and have gotten to know very closely. at first I just liked him...he was everything I was looking for and it seemed mutual. then one night he asked me out, and I got so nervous that he wouldn't like me (he seemed too good to be true), that I chickened out and made up a excuse to get out of it. I was going to ask him out the very next morning...but when I went to I found out he had gone out with another girl...who is now 'the love of his life'. after that happened we kept talking...and I connected with him in a way I have never found with anyone else. I fell in love...real true love. I care about him so much. there is no one else I want to be with. I have been going crazy for months not being able to move on. No matter what it seems like I always come back to him. I want to tell him everything but I know the truth is I am nothing to him. I can't take this anymore. How do you stop loving someone, can you?

2006-11-22 15:36:24 · 8 answers · asked by nd2chnge 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever cheated or been cheated on??? or have a feeling your being cheated on?

my boyfreind cheated on me twice in our relationship and i took him back both times (dumb mistake) were over now, but i cant seem to shake the feeling ill be cheated on again...i cant trust my current boyfriend because of this...which is bad im expecting his child,

a) why did you cheat or get cheated on?

he gave the reason that he wanted to explore, because 1st time he had never gotten a ******** and the 2nd time he wanted more people to fuc.k

b) how do you come back from someone who has cheated??? i want to trust my new bf...is it bad that my ex ruined this for me??? or is it normal

c) why do you feel like your getting cheated on?

mine is because my bf and his ex still talk, and she keeps sending him text mesages and he delets them before i can read them when he claims i can read anything in his phone ( we share a cell)

2006-11-22 15:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad are sepreated and i am trying everything i can to keep them together!im 19.my mom still loves him but im not sure if my dad loves her.my mom cries everynight and i can't stand it.she doesn't make much money.i hv a younger sister thats 15.and i really want to keep this marrige together!Plz help someone!

2006-11-22 15:35:05 · 11 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she had a dr. apointment today.she said she told me. i forgot. i am afraid of losing her to one of her friends....but she said she dont see anyone else. and i love her very much.i would died for her.i would give my life for her,if it come down to that.she is very very special

2006-11-22 15:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by romance 2 in Singles & Dating

something was talking bad stuff about you or saying things that your not more like s***

2006-11-22 15:34:28 · 12 answers · asked by Gaby 5 in Friends

Say Yes or No... judging off of appearance alone.

2006-11-22 15:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Jack Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

in his related field (he's in biochem) but other than that, he gets shy, he gets flustered and speechless when we get into personal matters....do you think he could be interested?

2006-11-22 15:33:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on and off with my ex for 4 years, and I finally broke up with him for good. We didn't have much in common, but we did have fun together. Well, we didn't talk for about 2 months, and then he came to visit me at work. We started talking, which led to us getting intimate again. I keep telling him (and myself) that it doesn't mean anything, when in reality it does. He has recently told me he is still in love with me, but I don't want to tell him how I feel because i know that it will just not work out in the end. But all of this is leading to me being extremely sad, constantly crying, and thinking about him. I know I should cut it off completely, but he is going through a really hard time right now, and I would hate to just completely cut him off at this point in his life--but at the same time it is hurting me more and more to be with him like this. I don't know what to do. Please, someone give their advice. I would really appreciate it. Thank you.

2006-11-22 15:33:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by ARMANDO M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by wutsupdog345 2 in Singles & Dating

When you think about having a relationship with a girl does it matter what their weight is?

Say you saw this cute girl but she was kind of thick set, but she showed herself off pretty well and it seemed like she was very confident...
Would you be willing to give her a shot .. or just pick a skinnier girl that was kinda cute?

2006-11-22 15:31:16 · 15 answers · asked by Nena 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:30:59 · 12 answers · asked by I-C-U 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by nishnoush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just realized that I'm in love with my best friend!! What do I do!? He is so nice, so I told him, and he kinda shrugged it off, but i'm so maddly in love!!! I'm so ugly, and he's not a looker, but he's so sweet!!! What do I do?? I want him to love me like I love him!! I'm so sad by it, and confused! Pls help me!!

2006-11-22 15:30:33 · 8 answers · asked by coca_cola_froggy 4 in Friends

2006-11-22 15:29:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in front of a girl?

2006-11-22 15:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy and i have had this thing for a while now, and he used to like me (it's basically proven.. i mean big, major signs) but we haven't talked for so long... and i don't know whats going on. i've noticed that whenever he sees me, he gets kind of tense... and watches and listens closely. other than that, whenever i catch him staring, he'll turn his head immediatly. my friend, who's very close to him, says that he gets nervous whenever she says my name. i know it's hard to tell since we haven't talked for so long, but do you think he still has feelings for me?

2006-11-22 15:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me that story=)

2006-11-22 15:28:24 · 10 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

I care more about my partner being satisfied when we have sex. We've been together for a year, and he really doesn't care if I'm satisfied or not. It would be such a turn on for me if he did care for once.

Is it important to you to make your partner orgasm or at least feel satisfied?

2006-11-22 15:27:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i peirced my cartiledge and i didnt do it to hurt myself that much i know i dont think its cause i wanted to rebel or cause it lookes cool either and i know i will get into trouble for it why then did i do it i just cant tell?!

2006-11-22 15:27:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after 2 months of working on my so called "dream job"...i realized that i dont actually like it....with all the years of schooling and training!!!! what is the matter with me???????

2006-11-22 15:26:26 · 8 answers · asked by Random Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

I accidentally sent an email to my teacher instead of my bf! lets just say it was a little heated, if you know what i mean. There is no way for me to unsend it.

2006-11-22 15:26:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex broken up with me 2 months ago and now looks like he may want to get back together cos we haven gotten over with each other. He has been hinting over msn n yet haven't tell me in person wad's reali on his mind, and i'm still waiting. But i somehow quite lose my patience n wonder if i shld juz confront n ask him wad's he thinking...shld i do that? am i losing my pride or look desparate? or how shld i ask him so that i won't sound desperate???

2006-11-22 15:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Singles & Dating

but were too shy to make the first move, would you want her to make the first move?

2006-11-22 15:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by Katie 4 in Singles & Dating

I brought her a free-range organic turkey from Whole Foods. I sprinkled in ex-lax into the stuffing tray. I won't be there tomorrow because her family hates me. Her mother complains that I drink too much and knows about my porn tapes.

I want to clear them out of the apartment so I can go over later tomorrow, have some beers, watch TV and nail her.

My stupid girlfriend told the mother I owe her money and that I slapped her around. I slapped her around a few times only when she was nagging me for the money I owe her. Should I just dump her before Christmas to avoid getting a gift? I want to do her as long as possible.

I was thinking of dumping her on Christmas eve. Or I was going to buy her a counterfeit handbag on Canal street and keep her around until New Years. ?

2006-11-22 15:24:43 · 15 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca N 1 in Singles & Dating