My ex broken up with me 2 months ago and now looks like he may want to get back together cos we haven gotten over with each other. He has been hinting over msn n yet haven't tell me in person wad's reali on his mind, and i'm still waiting. But i somehow quite lose my patience n wonder if i shld juz confront n ask him wad's he thinking...shld i do that? am i losing my pride or look desparate? or how shld i ask him so that i won't sound desperate???
2006-11-22 15:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. definitely.
2006-11-22 15:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I want to say is, you sound desperate. You wouldn't be losing your pride if you asked him what's up. He broke up with you, still showing a little care for him wouldn't hurt. Just tell him...You've seemed alittle off lately, what's up?...Just be casual and you can't do wrong. Don't get fast and urgent, just be relaxed and calm. Wait, don't SOUND fast and urgent, just SOUND relaxed and calm. Just let him know that you're are there for him, and maybe you can help him out.
2006-11-22 23:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just take it slow, and talk to him how you fell when you are not with him and tell him you would rather be his friend, if he really doesnt see it still, just tell him that you are not ready for another heartbreaken..and let him know that you are his friends still . if he can wait he waits if not his a loser look for someone else better. who can wait and will just do about anything to hear you out
2006-11-22 23:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication is the key. I would just flat out ask him what he wants from you. That isn't desperate it's mature.
2006-11-22 23:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by veronski 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know I wish people would stop thinking about how their actions make them look to other people and just go with their gut instinct...
2006-11-22 23:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would not worry about your ex... let him go .!!.. spend some time with friends untill you find the right man of your dreams..good luck..have an awesome day..
2006-11-22 23:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASK HIM! stop waiting and ASK!
2006-11-22 23:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay
2006-11-22 23:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋