Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

We have had trouble in our relationship lately and i just want to end the fighting and go back to how it was like before all the trouble began. I'm only 18 so i dont want to marry her yet, but i really do love her. What would put a smile on her face?

2006-11-22 15:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:54:03 · 2 answers · asked by purple girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage is not good for the last 15mos. It's my hubby fault who didn't care or pay attention to me and my kids. He always on the computer and didn't do his job as a hubby in bed. We only have sex no more than 3 times a mos. He was online all night long until 7am b/c play pokerparty, porno, and more. I always tell him how i felt about the marriage. He will ruined the happy marriage. Until I read his email and know that he have a thought to cheat on me this early yr with some women. I know that he met them, so I'm not really sure is he cheated on me or not.
So I told him that ok let have a open marriage, Oh my God now he email and joined the adult friend finder online. He have about 6 women want to meet him. My heart is broken to read all his mail.
So he will meet some lady this weekend and other days.
If I can't keep his heart then I sure I can't keep his D*ck.
But if he love me then he will never have sex with other lady.
what should I do?

2006-11-22 15:53:07 · 26 answers · asked by prettysweetrite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 15:51:50 · 23 answers · asked by franmd0408 2 in Singles & Dating

now you all know i was stood up last week he did call me the next day actually 3 times 930am 630pm &830pm i ignored all his calls trying to be a hard a!! and when i tried to call him back he would not answer it has been 3 days what is this he's is just not interested any more or a payback 4 not answering his calls would i be to clingey if i called him or just let it go

2006-11-22 15:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Besides bars, what are some places to meet guys ages 18-21?

2006-11-22 15:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any couples have ideas for cheap fun things to do?

2006-11-22 15:50:51 · 23 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

MY GUY HAS A WEIRD PROBLEM , HE SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT SUSPECTS ME WEN EVER I'M SEEN WITH A FRIEND IS TIS NORMAL IN LOVE . WHAT AM I TO DO ! I'VE TRIED WARNING HIM BUT I KNOW HE REALLY LOVES ME ....

2006-11-22 15:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by BABY GURL 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 15:48:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this great girl and I never thought she would be a single mom (she has custody) but here I am dating one! Any advice ladies or guys?

2006-11-22 15:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am a really jealous person. i would start an argument with my gf for no NECESSARY reason. and as soon as we start to fight, i just feel really bad and want to be held in her arms but idk how to express my true feeling, so i just argued with her. y is it so hard for me to express my true feelings at that time? and does anybody think they r a jealous type? and what should i do the next time things like this happen again? i really dont want to cause anymore useless fights between me and my babii and weaken our relationship. so if anybody have some advice please tell me. thanx.

2006-11-22 15:47:55 · 6 answers · asked by shycoolboylikeme 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law treats my husband terribly, stated in a letter to me that she hates me, verbally told husband she hates me, pampers husband's younger brother who happens to be an alcoholic, and can go months without seeing her grandchildren of whom she verbally disrespects as well. I am ready for a divorce as husband has recently changed as a result of mother's abuse. He verbally admits his mom is "crazy" and drives him nuts, but he does not acknowledge his own changes as a result of her... We have been married 15-1/2 years, the other three parents (both of mine and his father) died over 10 + years ago so she is the only living grandparent for our children... She only cares for herself.. I have tried and tried and tried to incorporate her into their lives but she has always remained limited and on her terms as to when she sees them... I realized she was perhaps "mentally ill" when my father-in-law died 1993 (her husband) and she was relieved and stated such...

2006-11-22 15:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by EL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i act all normal around my friends. but when my crush is around me i act all like not me. i am normally a nice person but when i am around my crush i act like i am all snobby and put down my friends. i know that it is not nice. but i can't help it. please help me and tell me ways to act myself and also just to let you know his locker is by mine.. like mine is 234 and his is 232.... note those arent the real locker numbers and also if you know a great way to ask him to the movies please tell me! thank you so much to all the responses

2006-11-22 15:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by jenny 5 in Singles & Dating

dont get your hopes down! lol

2006-11-22 15:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i started talking to today in my class and i never realized how interesting he is. not like in a wierd way but i just realized how smart, nice, funny, and helpful he is. i want to get to know him better and he is a pretty intellectual guy and the only thing i can think of is to ask for help on school stuff from him. any other suggestions?

2006-11-22 15:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

This kid is violent, my son has come home with 2 black eyes, drinks and smokes, and who knows what else. He even has a parole officer. I have seen a huge change in my son, and I have even moved him out of town to keep him away from this "friend" but this boy continues to contact my son via the internet and phone.

2006-11-22 15:45:06 · 11 answers · asked by whissp_4u 1 in Family

Tell me you story?

2006-11-22 15:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by ashnat 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has celebrated xmas on and off throughout our marriage. This year is my daughters last xmas at home before leaving for college next year. I want it to be special but he is in an off xmas year. I'm not sure of the best approach to take with this. Xmas has always been big in my family and this has always been a difficult time for us. Any thoughts/ideas?

2006-11-22 15:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by NICU Nurse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright i need help. Last year I like loved this girl, like alot.We couldnt go out due otehr people and frienmdships on teh line problems. Now this year we are in seprate classes and like that feelign isn't really there anymore. But i feel like i don't want to let it go. When i say that to myself, it's like there will never be a girl for me like that. Ughh it's really hard and like I'm not sure even if i like her anymore.help please

2006-11-22 15:43:44 · 3 answers · asked by ssslo 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to become better friends with the guy I like and I think he likes me too. I talk to him online and on the phone and we have hung out a couple times. If you wanted to become better friends with me too but you were to shy to come up to me what would you want me to do to get to know you better. Like come up to you during school, ask you to the movies with friends..like those kind of things..sorry if I didnt make sense but try the best you can to get my questions =]
thanks

2006-11-22 15:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl I love I would do anything for her and I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me but she just got out of a relationship but i dont live in her state but im moving down there in like a month im moving back to her just for her but theres this guy that keeps hitting on her and I dont know what to do i need someones help what do i do?

2006-11-22 15:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why did it turn me on?

2006-11-22 15:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

So, I've been dating this guy for 3 years on and off. I am finally ready to give everything to him and move in with him. We live in different cities for half of the year because he plays baseball for a living. I know that he sees other girls and thats cool cause I see other guys, but I'm afraid that because he cheated on me once while we were together he'll continue to try and get away with it. I really do love him but I'm not sure that I trust him. Can I point out that the sex is great???

2006-11-22 15:42:19 · 6 answers · asked by Moore's Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

Four months ago I met 2 brothers. One came onto me and he and I spent 2 occasions together, having sex. He's told me since that he just wanted me as a friend, yet he continued to hit on me. Not wanting a f*bud, I told him I didn't want to sleep with him anymore. Since then, we've hung out together as friends, at bars. He points out women he finds attractive and I encourage him to go for them. Over a month ago, I hung out with him and his older brother. The older brother and I hit it off well. The older asked me out, and over the course of the month, we became close emotionally and sexually. The younger said horrible things about the older to me, and I told the older because I wanted to know if these things were true. Recently the 2 fought over this and the older brother hasn't talked to me.The younger confronted me, telling me I was wrong to date his brother, to rat on him, and he wanted to make sure the older and I were no longer talking. I miss the older. Was I wrong?

2006-11-22 15:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They love my dad and brother !! When it comes to me and my mom they just ignore us. I don't want to be ignore on Thanksgiving! How can I make them love me! Or even care about me! Plus there really fake! I feel no love from them and I give them no love in return! I usually eat dinner then go to my room~

2006-11-22 15:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are always close, then he gets these girlfriends who never work out. For three months we disconnect and I try to move on and then he comes right back. I feel like he uses me because he knows I will be there. We don't have physical relationship and we have been friends for 4 years. I suspect he has feelings for me that he doesn't want to own.

2006-11-22 15:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by shuntae28 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to hear it from from him....he only likes me as a friend... i think. WAT DO I DO!!?? his fone doesnt work and he's almost always at work

2006-11-22 15:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have been talking to this girl for a couple of months now, but she's really scared of commitment so we are not actually b/f g/f but we are dating. I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas on what I could give or do for her birthday that would be really sweet but not too sweet. Its hard to explain, but I just want to do something nice for her. Some help would be greatly appriciated.
thanks

2006-11-22 15:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this girl who lives close by and we are friendly, just talking and sometimes we watch movies and stuff. She's real shy, and I am too but I really like her. I think she really likes me but I can't tell her. Do you think I could maybe buy her a present? I was thinking of a book she'd like to read and I write how I feel about her at the front. Would that freak her out?

2006-11-22 15:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends