I know this girl who lives close by and we are friendly, just talking and sometimes we watch movies and stuff. She's real shy, and I am too but I really like her. I think she really likes me but I can't tell her. Do you think I could maybe buy her a present? I was thinking of a book she'd like to read and I write how I feel about her at the front. Would that freak her out?
2006-11-22 15:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just wanted to say thanks for the answers I'll get her a book and write my feelings in it. She's going away for a few days so I can give it to her a s a going away present. But then I have to wait!
2006-11-22 15:55:12 · update #1
It is a very nice idea!
I think most girls would cherish such a gift... (maybe a bit of a freak out at first because it might be really unexpected)
The only thing I would suggest is really think through what you want to write in the book.... What if someone else sees it? Would you be okay with that? What if she shows her mom or friends your gift? Would you be okay with that?
Many guy friends of mine half jokingly say "Never leave written evidence."
All I'm saying is think beyond today and your potential girlfriend.
I think it's still a great idea... just be aware that's all!
Good Luck!
2006-11-22 15:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buying a neutral gift like a book is a good idea. Depending on how long you have been friends decides how you should write in it. Follow your heart and hopefully even if she says no to a relationship you two can still be friends without being awkward.
2006-11-22 23:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kristina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really sweet and If I were that girl it would make me want to go out with you, but dont go too overboard with the writing in the front. Just take it slow.
2006-11-22 23:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her if she has a boyfriend and ask her to the movies And i think buying her a book would be sweet
2006-11-23 00:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kalyn Loveless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a book can't even scare me and Iam 8 years old
2006-11-22 23:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by veronski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sweet idea , but verbalize your feelings to her instead of putting them in writting.She will appreciate it much more , and will take you more seriously!
2006-11-22 23:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a book is great shell love it well i would well cause im a shy girl so great idea dude
2006-11-22 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Oliviaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROMANTIC.
I wish someone did that to me....
Just make sure whatever you write isn't too much, just make it subtle.
2006-11-22 23:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sweet do it i would love that if a boy did that for me
2006-11-22 23:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by dork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no totally cool
2006-11-22 23:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by lovely2cu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋