Four months ago I met 2 brothers. One came onto me and he and I spent 2 occasions together, having sex. He's told me since that he just wanted me as a friend, yet he continued to hit on me. Not wanting a f*bud, I told him I didn't want to sleep with him anymore. Since then, we've hung out together as friends, at bars. He points out women he finds attractive and I encourage him to go for them. Over a month ago, I hung out with him and his older brother. The older brother and I hit it off well. The older asked me out, and over the course of the month, we became close emotionally and sexually. The younger said horrible things about the older to me, and I told the older because I wanted to know if these things were true. Recently the 2 fought over this and the older brother hasn't talked to me.The younger confronted me, telling me I was wrong to date his brother, to rat on him, and he wanted to make sure the older and I were no longer talking. I miss the older. Was I wrong?
2006-11-22 15:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dang girl, you off the chain, Yes ifeel you shouldn't hav said anything to the older brother, NEVER cumm between brothers, get it, BUt for real, the 1st bro was just jealous of the closeness between the two and told you all that stuff just to see what you would do, so youfell into his trap and girl for all you know they could have been discussing you amongst themselves and others. Your best bet is to leave them both alone they are @$$'s and You don't want to wonder whether or not the oldest has been talkin about you like a dog, jUst know that he has and you don't want to embarrass yourself again. Stop sleeping with these guys, these days sleeping around is dangerous to your body, to your mind, to your heart, and most of all to your soul. Take care sista and I pray you know the lord, and if you do'nt will you please give him a chance, men will deceive you, but the LORD will never leave you. Being LONly is hard sometimes but I want someone for me, that God has made for me, I have given my body to God in faith and hope that he will send someone my way. SO fight the feelin' sista and Good luck with life, Happy Turkey Day
2006-11-23 07:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Twissta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,I think this a volitile relationship .I have seen this happen between my two brothers being the second oldest out of three .They did'nt talk for a year ..This isn't what you want
they call them home wreckers .. PS how is your AAA meetings ?
are you ok now? What makes an alcoholic ? addiction I think
sex is also an addiction where do you go for that? Church?
I have abstained from sex for 4 years ...But still think about that special person that I would meet ...To have those feelings
2006-11-22 16:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your BF ought to assert? how is his dating along with his brother (the two week guy)? What does the ex(the two week guy) think of of you and his brother dating? If it rather is iffy, and your dating inclusive of your BF is powerful, then i might purely avert his kinfolk thoroughly and build your dating inclusive of your guy. If he has a good dating along with his brother and needs to maintain it, then possibly the two one in all you will ought to work out him without the toddler-drama-momma recent. unsure a thank you to proceed with the blood-sis. possibly your guy ought to have a heart to heart on my own along with his sister, tell her easily approximately you and your dating, and then ask her to work together with you without toddler-drama-momma recent, then have sis make up her very own strategies. Then, permit the chips fall the place they could.
2016-10-17 10:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with fire. it was a bad idea, look for someone else different from them. They are family and you are going to make them enemies if they are not already.
2006-11-22 15:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by grillochilango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah that's something that will drive family members apart.Sorry to put it like this , but you done messed up girl!!!
2006-11-22 15:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it alone....there are too many other brothers out there!!!
2006-11-22 15:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where ever you are happy... go for it!!!!
In love sometimes we commit mistakes...... but we still continue to fight for it..... go for it!!!!
2006-11-22 15:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't do it.
2006-11-22 15:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mango Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋