how should i get to know him?

Question

there is this guy i started talking to today in my class and i never realized how interesting he is. not like in a wierd way but i just realized how smart, nice, funny, and helpful he is. i want to get to know him better and he is a pretty intellectual guy and the only thing i can think of is to ask for help on school stuff from him. any other suggestions?

haha yep im pretty shy when it comes to that stuff :)

Answer 1

if u see him out in the hall walking to his next class ask if you can join him during lunch to eat or hang out after school. the thing that always works for me when i want to talk to the girl i have a crush on is to ask her for help on my work or ask her for a pen/pencil or gum and then I just start talking to her about her favorite things (music, movies etc.) and then start talking about something we have in common. or u can always give him ur phone number and tell him to call u if he wants to hang out.

good luck & I hope this helps

Answer 2

Tell him you are interested. However, if you are shy you may want to ask a friend to help you out. You could just start with small talk, like 'how is school', 'what do you like to do', nothing to fancy. If you feel up to it, you could always see if he is doing anything over the weekend.

Have a nice day :-)

Answer 3

I have the same problem you have! I asked the person who i wanted to know more about for his email. then just ask him stuff you wanna know about him! i mean the end of last school year i realized how much i liked this guy and i got his email and i also have my locker about 2 lockers away from his so i just start talking to him in beetween classes... so far i have learned he likes to hunt... also you could ask him out to maybe breakfast. brunch,lunch or Dinner. whatever you do just act like yourself... and i wish you the best of luck!!

Answer 4

just ask him on hows his basketball team going that if his playing for a team or suggest going out for coffee and talk about studies and ask him what his doing over the weekend and ask him does he wanted to see the latest movie..share interested and take note what he likes and than you can know what he likes . don't stalk him to much. he will run away for sure! good luck

Answer 5

Ask him out to eat!! Don't ask for help with schoolwork unless you actually need help. Not unless you want him to think that is what you want? If all you're interested in is a friendship, let him know that too.

Answer 6

Maybe, you could plan a study group together over lunch, or possibly do a evening study group its way around it. But you dont want to come on too strong you could scare him off.

Answer 7

SURE SWEETHEART. YOU HAVE GOT TO ENGAGE IN SWEET SHORT CONVERSATIONS AND DO A LITTLE FLIRTING EVERY NOW AND THEN. I MEAN MAKE HIM TALK TO YOU ABOUT OTHER THINGS BESIDES SCHOOL WORK. ASK HIM THINGS ABOUT A TV SHOW OR WHAT TYPE OF BOOKS DOES HE LIKE. ANYTHING JUST TO GET A CONVERSATION GOING.

Answer 8

Yeah just tell HIM what you just wrote and told the rest of the planet.

If you can say it to 6 million stangers on the Internet, you shouln't have a problem talking to just one guy -- right?

Answer 9

lol... same situation here, I asked mine if he wanted to do this group project together.... and we are currently writing this thingy together.... try to sneak in casual conversation while you're doing school stuff, and if he is receptive then ask him if he wants to go get coffee together or something!

Answer 10

Just go to him and continue his story
Bye