Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

There is this guy who i liked once in the past but i thought it was going nowhere and i ended up going out with a different guy. Only to find out that he was starting to like me. Now (after a couple of months) that relationship is over and i like the first guy again. Now i'm having a hard time because i cant figure out how he feels about me. One day we'll be in a group and we wont talk at all, and the next we'll spend 5 hours straight discussing everything. Then the next night i hear that hes at the house a girl that i know he has liked (or my still have feelings for) I'm not ready to go for it, but i feel like if i give up that i'm going to end up in the same situation again. i'm not in for rushing anything so i dont mind the playing it out game, but how can i tell if i even have a shot? or what is some advice to help me see how he feels.

2006-11-22 16:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are we compatable?

2006-11-22 16:37:39 · 3 answers · asked by crazedsilversteinfan 2 in Singles & Dating

Two guys, one turns me on, but has psychotic episodes of mood swings....easily gets irritated.... the other one, is handsome, very easy going, sweet, nice to talk to...... If it were up to me I'd mush them both into one amazing man... I like the naughty, and the nice too.... logically I know choice B makes more sense.... but seriously... it's tough to choose!

2006-11-22 16:37:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months who uses alcohol,inhalents,marijuana.She is also possibly pregnant. I keep telling myself leaving was in the best interest of myself and my friends agree,but something just keeps telling me to go back...im not sure how to make it stop or why I feel like this.

2006-11-22 16:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by John L 1 in Singles & Dating

i started kissing her a week ago and she just turned away. i didnt understand what was wrong so i left. later i texted and asked if she still was attracted to me..she told me that she hated the the face that the only reason i stick around at night is to be physical. i never really realized that she felt this way til now. she left for new york for the week. i've apologized a bunch of times but i want to do something special that will show her i love her when she gets back...any ideas?
by the way, we've been dating over a year

2006-11-22 16:35:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my ex boyfriend broke up right... and now a fair few people are angry at me... anyway, my display name on msn messenger said "guys are either mates, gay, or complete f**kheads" and he started a conversation and said "what am i??" and i said "a mate" n hes like "some people wouldnt think that.... but being friendly with someone can make enemies with another"... did he mean that if he becomes friends with me, my ex will hate him???? or did i read too much into it???

2006-11-22 16:35:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone says to people who are in lousy relationships, leave him or her. There's someone better out there who will appreciate you and love you for who you are.

Is that really true?

I mean, sometimes me and my guy laugh it up and sometimes I could actually kill him. Either way, we don't connect - but its moderately comfortable. I've been dating for so many years with so many... I honestly am not sure if there's a special someone out there for everyone. Especially since I'm over 30 - the odds are really low.

I guess I'm just wondering - stay in a loveless relationship that's ok sometimes as opposed to going out there and finding a guy who's much worse? The odds are bad. I don't know what I'm talking about. I think I'm overwhelmed at the idea of cooking turkey dinner tomorrow....

It all seems like a sham though. Is a comfortable sham better than the unknown?

2006-11-22 16:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

okay there is this boy rite....i asked him out he said no then now we r real good friends....on tuesday he gave me a hug...i know i still like him cuz i got little butterflies in my stomach when he huged me and i cant keep my mine of him......then there is this other boy i said he was cute and all rite and he knows....but i dont know what 2 do can someone help me......

2006-11-22 16:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i really dont think i could do this to my ex but i really am starting to like his best friend.......but he use to be a player is he worth huting someone i once loved and risking a broken hart?????

2006-11-22 16:33:03 · 3 answers · asked by chicklet 1 in Singles & Dating

The poem talks about how i like him and how im upset that he ignores me and stuff like that. It also says that i i want him to be with me. I really want him to read it, but im scared of his reaction. I don't know if i should show him or not.

2006-11-22 16:32:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I would. If my sister brought home a short guy (5'3" - 5'6") I would probably try to break them up - of course I'd make fun of the guy first.

Ladies, are you (in particular) overprotective of your sisters and would not want to see them dating a short guy? Explain.

2006-11-22 16:31:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl tonight through a friend and I really was into her. Problem is that she has a boyfriend but apparently their relationship is off and on. Should I just go for it or is it best to just forget about it?

2006-11-22 16:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most of them you have to pay to talk to the other person. Friendfinder, bootycall, etc.

2006-11-22 16:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

if so where do I meet them.

2006-11-22 16:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by utopian.outcast 3 in Singles & Dating

When my wife and i got married My 2 boys were 1 year olds.& 2 months ago she told me that before she met me she had a baby and let her aunt adopt it Then her aunt fell ill...So now my wife is regaining custody of her son who is 3 1/2 ..Question>>while I was at work the kid was bit by one of My two Dobermans the bite was not severe but required stitches. My wifes kid has hit/slapped Troy & Mike (the dogs) and was told never to ever do that again And I told my wife to NEVER EVER leave her kid/boy alone with my boys while i'm at WORK..
For the protection of...... Troy& Mike .And my wife fail to listen after she agreed to it.
After the biting incident my wife and i agreed that it was a valuable lesson for the kid to never hit helpless animals
Now she wants me to get rid of my boys(that will never happen) ....She has the nerve to ask me to get rid of my boys after she lied to me about having a secret child.....Should i get rid of my wife.. Or will she relize how selfish she is????

2006-11-22 16:30:22 · 27 answers · asked by Buda B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just wanna know how many ppl have myspace? i dont need your info or anything but just say yes or no. if you want to include info then so be it but im just asking 4 a simple question so yea- peace

2006-11-22 16:30:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married 7 years, and I have told my husband several times that I do not want to have a child. He does not believe me. He thinks I have just made it up and eventually I will change my mind. We have a good marriage, but now, he is really pushing me with the kid stuff. I do not want to lose him, but having a baby will ruin my career, which I have worked very hard for. Plus, I really don’t like children. What should I do?

2006-11-22 16:29:38 · 34 answers · asked by LiLi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 54 Years old,lonly,some times I think Life is over,could it be?

2006-11-22 16:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Singles & Dating

a sweet shy girl or a funny outgoing girl
(i'm the second one)

2006-11-22 16:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 16:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by ginu34 1 in Weddings

I love and adore my best friend. She is a beautiful person and is amazing at everything she does. We both sing and write. We are both top notch in those fields. But she is always better. I'm not seeking to finally be better, but it gets very disheartening when I'm constantly compared to her and I fall short. I'm just very tired of people not seeing how different we are. I'm also tired of being called the mini-verson of her. What do I do without seeming pretentious or losing her/myself in the process?

2006-11-22 16:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by hannahbash 2 in Friends

should i ignore my bf if he has spent the last two yrs doing what he wants on holidays? now he wants to spend thanksgiving with me. when really he wants to be with his family. so if i spend it with him, it will be just like he not there. i feel its a little to late to even care what he wants. what do you think?

2006-11-22 16:25:56 · 19 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

left me because of what his friends thought a bout me and now he asked me out again and says he dosent care about what his friends think should i go out with him he says he really likes me

2006-11-22 16:25:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 16:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by Sexi_beast 1 in Singles & Dating

so my g/f and i broke up about two months ago(i'm 28 shes 21), we both had a lot going on then and i guess that things just got to stressfull. so tonight we went out to dinner and a movie as just friends. eventually throughout the night we ended up just holding hands and then we talked about us very briefly on the ride home and she took my hand for the entire way home - i know thats not much but it kinda confuses me, should i ask her to get back together?

2006-11-22 16:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by poo hat 3 in Singles & Dating

he has a short temper!

2006-11-22 16:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and i want to tell him that i like him. But i don't no how. My friends told me to hold off and to get to know him better but im afariad that im waisting my tyme constantly thinking about him and talking about him. I only wan him if he wants me back. HELP

2006-11-22 16:25:00 · 4 answers · asked by ily[: 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do two people stay married for the kids when they don't love each other. If your husband tells you that he doesn't love you but you stay married because of the kids? I just don't understand that. Won't the children be better off with two parents that are happy not together than two parents that are miserable together?

2006-11-22 16:24:58 · 20 answers · asked by Lydia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you up to it??

2006-11-22 16:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by chad A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy Jesse that goes to the boys and girls club is so cute and I like him but my best friend bobbie likes him.What do I do?

2006-11-22 16:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by anntionette v 1 in Singles & Dating