i started kissing her a week ago and she just turned away. i didnt understand what was wrong so i left. later i texted and asked if she still was attracted to me..she told me that she hated the the face that the only reason i stick around at night is to be physical. i never really realized that she felt this way til now. she left for new york for the week. i've apologized a bunch of times but i want to do something special that will show her i love her when she gets back...any ideas?
by the way, we've been dating over a year
2006-11-22 16:35:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she is uncomfortable or not ready yet then as an understanding boyfriend you should hear her out on this one. dont let the wanting and needing to be physical with your girlfriend be the only reason why you want to be with her. if the only reason why you wanna be with her is to touch her and not acually be with her, then that shouldnt be. you should wanna spend time with her no matter what goes on. day or night. and if she says no physical anything then you should respect it. if you wanna be loving and show her that you really do care about her then you can try writting her a love letter. decorate it with prettey designs and mail it to her or send it to her on the computer. buy her a neckalace or a bracelet if she likes wearing them. maybe some prettey earrings. give her some of her favorite flowers if she has any. if she doesnt have a favorite flower then get her some pink and red roses. be gentle with it and make sure its coming from your heart and not just because you want to gain back enoguh trust to be physical again. good luck. im a poet, so if you want me to write you a poem to give to her then i will use one of my own.
2006-11-22 16:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you had no idea she felt this way and if you knew she did feel this way, you were going to make things different and better. Maybe you could send her flowers way over to NY then go out on a special date when she comes back, then just give her a little kiss, (small sweet one!) then stop. Tell her that since, you guys went too fast, that you should pretend this was the first date...and tell her this time she's gonna be more in control of how fast she wants to go.
2006-11-23 00:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol she sounds like my friend.
She doesn't like clinging boy friends.
So maybe your girlfriend doesn't eather.
Take her out for dinner and when you take her home just give her a kiss on the cheek and nothing else. Just back off once and a while.
But if that doesn't work just try to exsplan to her that you just love her so much. it would be cute ^.^
2006-11-23 00:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you's talk?? if not talk to her more tell her about your day and ask her how hers was or something like that. send her a sweet poems or romantic note and express that way you feel
2006-11-23 00:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers in new york, she will love that. I would also have flowers waiting for her when she gets back. if that does not work then maybe she does not want it to work.
2006-11-23 00:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more romantic n' emotional......send her a greeting card or a love letter once in a while......tell her how u miss her n' apologize till apology accepted.....when she gets back, take her to a romantic dinner.......be interested in her feelings....good luck!!!
2006-11-23 00:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together 1 year and your just now kissing her.................?Honestly it doesn't sound like she is interested anymore.......SORRY
2006-11-23 00:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋