left me because of what his friends thought a bout me and now he asked me out again and says he dosent care about what his friends think should i go out with him he says he really likes me
2006-11-22 16:25:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it has been around 8 9 months that he left me! n he comes out with the thing that he likes me!
2006-11-25 13:19:42 · update #1
JJ, probably you haven't seen the many shows on tele about this. Guys definitely care a lot about what their mates say, and some social experiments have shown that guys prefer to sit through a fire with their mates if needed. If after thinking over what his mates have said about you, he wants to get back with you, he really likes you. I believe that this incident has reinforced he's feelings for you, and I do think that he deserves a second chance.
UPDATE: it has been around 8 9 months that he left me! n he comes out with the thing that he likes me - Don't you think that he's had 8-9 months to repent (and possibly kick himself a million times !) If you have the faintest thought that it could work, take the chance. Have a heart !
2006-11-22 16:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God! Guys and their ego's.lol. You should really give him a second chance. If guys are starting to feel intersted in a girl they usually get a bit of a hard time from his friends poking fun etc. and some friends go a bit to far and say things they shouldnt. Your man was probably starting to feel a bit stressed and listened to them like an ideot.. Chances are he really regrets it now!
Good Luck Hope It All Go's Well!
2006-11-22 16:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those back and forth relationships. You can go out with him again, and he may really like you. But if a guy can be swayed by his friends, be prepared--it could happen again.
2006-11-22 16:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful because this guy values his friends opinions. huh???
If you have "feelings" for him go ahead and give him a second chance.
But if he tries anything sexual say....."What are you doing?"
"The answer is no." Then do not go out with him anymore.
2016-02-22 13:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know it's probably hard for you to make up your mind. What i think you should do is think about how you feel about this guy, If you really like him give him another chance. Don't waste your time if there is no feelings
2006-11-22 16:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation. my boyfriend broke up with me not just because of his friends, but mine too. then he asked me out again. still liking him, i said yes. although we were trying to keep it secretive, idk why. but yeah. my relationship isn't working out that well, he ignores me and everything, and acts totally differently, but hey, i gave him a second chance, i can end this anytime i want, if you really like him go out with him and see how things work. you never know until you try.
2006-11-22 16:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea give him one more chance. I think he regrets the break up and sees what he would be missing. If he does it again.... dont go back, he then would clearly be confused and not know what he wants. u cant live like that
2006-11-22 16:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by goober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him one more shot if he blows it your done. Everyone deserves a seconed chance especially round the holidays! Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-22 16:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on jj you know he's full of ##it all he's looking 4 is a qiuck piece of $ss.if he let them choose the first time why would you even conceder giving him another chance?
2006-11-22 16:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by JOSEPH P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to try but remember that he can easily dump you again because it seems that his friends' opinions are very important for him.
2006-11-22 16:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋