I met this girl tonight through a friend and I really was into her. Problem is that she has a boyfriend but apparently their relationship is off and on. Should I just go for it or is it best to just forget about it?
2006-11-22 16:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sayin that I would make her cheat on her bf, i'm sayin that i would try to get her to leave her bf...i'm 17 btw
2006-11-22 16:36:14 · update #1
It's best to forget about it. You JUST met her, you should respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. It always pisses me off when guys never want to just be friends and try to get with me even when I tell them I'm with someone else.
It's like come on, do you want to be with me because you like my personality or my looks?
If she lets herself get stolen, what makes you think that no one else is going to take her from you?
2006-11-22 16:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just lay low until you find out if the boyfriend seems to be permanent. Would you want someone to come along and steal your girlfriend away from you? I know what it's like to be in that position and it hurts. So just leave it right where it is for now...
2016-03-12 21:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go 100% of the way and ask her out all of a sudden. Get to know her little by little. Try little things that you think would attract her to you. Then...let nature take its course.
2006-11-22 16:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by muffin198486502 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being punched in the back of the head, go ahead. Better be sure this guy can't throw you around when he finds out and comes looking for you.
2006-11-22 16:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jolly Green 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pursue her. But make sure she is single because cheating will hurt everyone.
2006-11-22 16:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by hannahbash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her better. Don't imediately steal her from the BF. Make sure she's into you too. don't rush into things! good luck!
2006-11-22 16:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way...if you go after her and she leaves him for you, what's to say that she won't leave you for someone else who does the same? Leave her alone, nobody likes a squatter...
2006-11-22 16:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want competition? That is what you are up for. Is she really worth it? She likes the guy with drama!
2006-11-22 16:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma is a *****.....ask yourself....would you want a guy to go after your girl? even if their relationship is on and off
2006-11-22 16:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by iGNORANT GiRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you wouldnt want someone to do that to you. she has baggage and if she goes for it then what do you think she'll do to you
2006-11-22 16:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋