2006-11-22 16:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by ginu34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
run away
2006-11-22 16:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them plan as much they want. You have the right to choose. Reject the first 10 without hesitation. Then they will get the message. Do not show that you are angry, just find a reason to reject which is obvious that they can see too. If this does work for you then girlfriend, you are twenty and an adult, move on and make it on your own. There is no need to be a baby.
2006-11-23 00:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that you don't want to marry now? You are of marriageable age though by Indian standards, I guess. The best way out is to talk to the people who are planning your marriage (probably your parents) and explain to them the reasons why you want to wait for some more time before getting married. I don't think that you are in a position to move out of your home should they disagree with you. So use all the powers of your persuasion and talk to them as patiently as you can. If they are reasonable people they should understand.
2006-11-23 10:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u want 2 do? If u want 2 marry then go ahead but if u don't want marriage right now den explain it 2 ur parents. Tell them u want 2 study further or any future plan u think 4 urself. They will surely understand u
2006-11-23 00:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave town for a few years, like going to college or living with a friend or joining the military. If that is not possible then tell your folks that you wish to grow up a little more before making such an important decision.
2006-11-23 01:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by HSB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is sit with your mom and dad and explain to them what will you do after marriage. If the family is going to support you even after the marriage then its fine.
My sincere advice, you are too young to get married at this young. Physically you are matured but mentally you will not. So think and take a decision because its your life
Plz dont delete it
-Raj
2006-11-23 01:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cool G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I do not quite understand what you mean. Is it arranged? Are you having second thoughts on the marriage? If you are having second thoughts why? Do you feel like you have no say in how your marriage goes? If so you need to tell your parents this or anyone else you feel is taking over. Sorry I could not answer completely. It sounds like you either have cold feet or do not want this marriage or feel like you do not have a say.
2006-11-23 00:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are from India or some country where they marry young and arrange by the elders, then you may not have a choice.
But if you are stll studying and your parents are also educated, then you must talk to them and give your reason. You must also find out as to why they are trying to marry you off.
Good Luck
2006-11-23 01:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your people to let you grow first. I mean Intellectually and Emotionally. One registers whole lot of difference in outlook towards life between age of 18 to 25. Frankly speaking, it takes lot of time to know someone, and to decide if the person is suitable for you. Life is unpredictable.
2006-11-26 11:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur parents luv u, so if u dont want 2 marry
tell ur parents frankly tht u r nt ready & need sme time 2 get ready to take such a big responsibility
moreover ur parents shud nt b hasty to take such a big decision as it involves ur full life, if ur marriage turns out 2 b bad, u will hve 2 suffer
ur parents will surely respect ur decision
gudluck
2006-11-25 13:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make decision at this age, i guess its difficult. Because already you have to take decision for ur studies. The best way to get out of this is, let them seach. In case u like the boy chosen by your parents, and u like him, than u talk to him, that you wil not feel confortable to get married at this age. Can we marry after few ( 3-4 years). If he understands, than you are lucky to have him as your husband. Remember one thing, its always us, to take decision of our future. Parents wil just guide.
Take care. Be happy...
2006-11-23 02:28:03 · answer #11 · answered by david j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋