i feel like i am a really jealous person. i would start an argument with my gf for no NECESSARY reason. and as soon as we start to fight, i just feel really bad and want to be held in her arms but idk how to express my true feeling, so i just argued with her. y is it so hard for me to express my true feelings at that time? and does anybody think they r a jealous type? and what should i do the next time things like this happen again? i really dont want to cause anymore useless fights between me and my babii and weaken our relationship. so if anybody have some advice please tell me. thanx.
2006-11-22 15:47:55 · 6 answers · asked by shycoolboylikeme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do. What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..
I feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago. Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such. The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well
Goodluck
2006-11-22 16:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by J Truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your Q is probably directed more at the jealous person but my partner sounds exactly like what you just said, but i know he doesn't actually have any REAL suspisions on me he is just insecure and in his words" feeling vulnerable because of how much he loves me" the best advice i can give to you is explain this all to your gf... those words you wrote on here, say to her i bet she'd feel alot better... and next time you're feeling jealous think about why it is and assess whether it is worth an arguement..
2006-11-22 23:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask my bf. he does the same thing as you. lil bit of advice... keep it up and she will leave you. obviously your relationship is lacking TRUST. and probably more.
2006-11-22 23:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babii...y u ask dis stoopid question...these peeps dont know...
2006-11-23 00:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by <3Kiira<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont get jealous
learn how to control urself
2006-11-22 23:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sharlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get very jealous
2006-11-22 23:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋