They love my dad and brother !! When it comes to me and my mom they just ignore us. I don't want to be ignore on Thanksgiving! How can I make them love me! Or even care about me! Plus there really fake! I feel no love from them and I give them no love in return! I usually eat dinner then go to my room~
2006-11-22 15:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They never come to see my room and my bed room is amazing !!!! But always goes to my brother room!
2006-11-22 15:43:37 · update #1
Tomorrow get up and enjoy Thanksgiving and don't worry about all this stuff. Concentrate on liking them and making their day special and invite them into your room and show it to them. Make it a day where you do for them and expect absolutely nothing for yourself and see how it goes.
2006-11-22 15:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you believe him, then believe him. confer with him brazenly with reference to the kind you felt the day previous to this and final night. confer with him with reference to the female calling him. If he has in no way given you a reason to mistrust him, then do no longer seem for motives. on the comparable time, don't be blind...if he's unexpectedly getting calls and could no longer take them in front you, won't inform you specific issues, is "unavailable" and could no longer say why, question him. you would be waiting to tell if he's hiding something. i recognize this seems contradictory, yet i do no longer recognize your difficulty and that i only prefer you to maintain an open recommendations and coronary heart. there is often an evidence for issues. If he won't be able to clarify something extremely and flippantly there's a reason. in case you do not have believe, you do not have a relationship. Who needs to stay like that? And if there are those problems till now you reside mutually, placed a carry on those plans. artwork those problems out first. additionally...do no longer enable him inform you who you will possibly be friends with...why might he get disillusioned/jealous over having a guy chum on your telephone? that's totally controlling. on the comparable time, you may no longer tell him who his friends are. that's all approximately believe and recognize.
2016-10-04 06:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know that feeling, don't worry. This is what I do, I would just keep on ignoring them back. Or try interacting with them as much as possible. That is what I do. But, I mean they do it to me on my Birthday, and on CHRISTMAS... Good luck.. Happy Holidays.
2006-11-22 15:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by A C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move. Be friendly and kind. If they don't respond, forget about trying to have them like you. Not worth the trouble. But do try being sincerely nice first. And be yourself. Not who you think they might like.
2006-11-22 15:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by VPOC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't invite them over. Make a point of being gone. If they are going to care, they'll notice, if not, why knock yourself out for them?
2006-11-22 15:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
What you CAN do is realize that they are cruel people, and you are probably better off in your room anyway.
Why would you want a relationship with someone who treats you this way?
2006-11-22 15:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that stinks but you should know they love you and if it concernes you I would tell your dad. Dads can help with anything.
Even a family crisis. Just tell him you've noticed that his side of the family doe'snt really care for you much. Believe me he'll help
you!
2006-11-22 15:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Megan V 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋