When you think about having a relationship with a girl does it matter what their weight is?
Say you saw this cute girl but she was kind of thick set, but she showed herself off pretty well and it seemed like she was very confident...
Would you be willing to give her a shot .. or just pick a skinnier girl that was kinda cute?
2006-11-22 15:31:16 · 15 answers · asked by Nena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By "Thick set" I dont mean really fat like kankles and what not. I mean thick thighs, barely any chub on the tummy and stuff like that.
2006-11-22 15:46:27 · update #1
I've always been taught that Happiness knows no boundaries.
Unfortunately not all follow this teaching, but for those of us who do, we know that weight, color, materalistic things, doesn't matter when it comes to finding the the woman or man who makes you happy and vice versa.
I stuck with my woman when she weighed over 200 lbs and I stuck by her side when she lost it and could have passed for a model, and I'm sticking with her even now as she battles the weight gain process again. I've never in my life been ashamed to show the world who makes me happy.
when you get caught up in what you think the world will accept, you lose out on a good thing.
2006-11-22 15:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by J Truth 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on personal taste of the guy really.. Some dudes don't mind a girl with a few xtra lbs.. but some aren't into it.. Id say the majority of guys would rather date a girl who is more attractive , and if that means skinnier then that's what they will go after. I don't think an ugly skinny girl would necessarily get more guys than a good looking girl who was a bit heavy.. but a bit or kind of fat can be deciphered differently also.. For example: Rosanne is fat, Jennifer Tilly is voluptuous.. see the difference? all depends how the weight is distributed... guys like **** and asses, not guts and cankles...
hope this helps..
2006-11-22 23:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters what you look like on the outside. It depends on your attitude towards that person. When I notice a girl that really likes me is Chunky, I wouldn't go up to that girl and say "Oh you're too fat I don't date fat chicks". First of all, it makes her feel disappointed and second, no one deserves to be stereotyped. If things were not going well, I would take counseling sessions. So, skinny or not, It really doesn't matter at all.
2006-11-22 23:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter to a point. Sloppy fat is not at all desirable, but a little over is all right. I would rather a female be a little over weight than skinny. Most models are not a turn on for me because they are too thin.
2006-11-22 23:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dino4747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I met a girl that I liked her weight would not matter... Men don't like skinny girls... women's magazines are the ones telling you to be ultra slim... not the men. If you were cute and thick... I would be all over you!
2006-11-22 23:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. I prefer my women that don't eat much. Now I don't have a problem with "thick" women. But Im not going for a hog.
2006-11-22 23:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how thick. Since I know this is you I will be real. It sounds as if "Thick set" means fat as hell.
2006-11-22 23:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, gotta be at least 20lbs heavier than most guys like before my interest is piqued. never been with a skinny gal, and never been with a full bodied woman who didn't have a good time.
2006-11-22 23:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by klingongac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is real chemistry there, I don't think I'd care too much about her weight, if she presented well.
Truth is though, I am mostly attracted to thinner women...
2006-11-22 23:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her a shot... Weight isn't important... Personality is...
2006-11-22 23:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋