I care more about my partner being satisfied when we have sex. We've been together for a year, and he really doesn't care if I'm satisfied or not. It would be such a turn on for me if he did care for once.
Is it important to you to make your partner orgasm or at least feel satisfied?
2006-11-22 15:27:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and my definition of being satisfied is reaching orgasm frequently enough but definitely not every night (I take about 20 minutes sometimes!). If he was doing at least that, then I could definitely be satisfied on the nights where I don't reach orgasm. Because he doesn't even do that, then I'm not satisfied.
2006-11-22 15:33:23 · update #1
I am all about satisfying my wife. That is what it is all about... I mean sex with her is fabulous and she really knows how to do things to me that send me to the moon, so of course I have to be able to send her into orbit as well. Your partner is being way selfish... maybe he can't last long enough to get you to that special place? Sex is all about pleasing the other... especially when you are a man- Let's face it, all a guy needs is two minutes of privacy, a vivid imagination, and he can take care of himself anytime... to please your woman... to make her sleep for 12 hours after wards... now that is what it is all about.
2006-11-22 15:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofg course it is important to make your partner feel good...This is the miracle of sex between those that love and respect each other... You have sex based on your own need to feel good yet you concentrate on totally pleasing the other person and yet at the point of orgasm it is purely a selfish enjoyment that you can feel..Ironic and the other person derives pleasure from seeing you enjoy what they have given you and vice versa....
2006-11-22 15:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by ray b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, that is just sad. You are with the wrong guy. I am lucky in that most of the men in my life gave as good as they got. Except for one. Which was a bit of a suprise. But he didn't last long.
Your man is selfish, and that is the worst trait in a boyfriend, in bed or otherwise. You can do better. Please think enough of yourself to look around for someone else.
2006-11-22 15:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for a man is a 5-15 minute thing. Sex for a woman is usually an hour long ordeal.
Yet they insist on equating our sex, with their sex. This is just not fair.
2006-11-22 15:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thinking is the unsatisfying answer. See it for your self. i'm pondering questions. i'm thinking and the thinking progresses with concerns unresolved, or unattended, in existence. that's the inattention of the thinking approach, the meditated thinking, that's habitually, with no lead to sight, employed, which wastes the capability of interest. attentive to that, question each and every thing.
2016-10-04 06:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Is he selfish in other ways or only in this way? However, keep in mind that it is not his responsibility to bring you to a climax. A woman needs to know her own body - what works and what doesn't and work with him to make it happen.
2006-11-22 15:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your partner does not care for the Lady's needs ..as well as his own..ego.!!.. is it the same in the relationship...maybe time to move on...and find a man that can respect the lady and show some deep compassion so.!!.
2006-11-22 15:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BELIEVE IT OR NOT - BUT I get MUCH MORE gratification out of getting my female partner to reach - not just ONE but MANY MORE orgasms, when we make love, rather than having one myself !
CALL ME WEIRD if you want to !
2006-11-22 16:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...in fact sometimes my fiancee thinks I'm too concerned with keeping her happy, rather than myself and "us" together.. Not talking sex specifically, but all around..
2006-11-22 15:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by DT89ACE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very important to me. i makes me feel good to see my partner happy and satisfied.
2006-11-22 15:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Striker MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋